Now, the other question... Does it work better if you transmute the energy upwards, or is it better to just leave it as sexual energy, and accumulate it?
Now I see that Drew might be posting soon...
The way it seems is that women will try to deconvert that energy into sexual energy by trying to turn you on. But this doesn't mean that they are attracted to you, in fact they want to use you. And so there could end up a power struggle of you trying to transmute that jing, and the woman trying to deconvert it to sexual energy again. For power mainly... Then again maybe once she incites you, you also get her going.
Not that all women do this but I think some women do.
Anyways... what makes you more attractive though, when it comes to witholding ejaculation and being celibate for a while? Transmuting that energy, or leaving it as jing. I'm pretty sure that if one just leaves it at jing and nothing happens, no attraction, then seminal leakage can occur.
But also if you transmute it to chi, then there is no sexual energy, and no reason to lust....
Yea well... maybe it's not even that complicated. I just need them Orgasm at a Distance skillz.
Perhaps, it's just best to be able to transmute it whenever sexuality is not needed, and when it is, just appropiately convert it back into jing. But if that's not doing well then I guess you have no choice but to convert it into chi because the jing will just seek to come out.
But what do you think is what gets her attracted, the jing or the chi/shen?
Edited by Non, 23 January 2010 - 07:23 PM.