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You are very patient with him. I think the very first thing that a woman checks out in a guy, and guys forget this, is--will this guy stalk me? Being stalked and attempted rape are very very common experiences for women. Now of course guys think, well of course I would never stalk a woman or be controlling with a woman! They are insulted to even think that a woman would be checking them out for these characteristics. Yet that is the very first thing women screen for, and quite right that they do. The useful thing about PUA methods is that the first thing they do is get rid of the false signals that might alarm a woman. Men are taught to be indifferent, to be light and casual, to not come off as obsessive or bitter. Instead they are playful and lighthearted, not really into it, playing a game. This in itself puts them way ahead of the guys who give off the vibe it's SO IMPORTANT to get that girl, because if dating is that important and she does something wrong, he might feel he has to punish her in some way. This is the very first thing, the very first gate a guy has to get through. Non, maybe your pickup demeanor is more lighthearted, but your posts here are coming off as bitter, misogynistic and feeling threatened by women. All of these vibes put together are a surefire trigger to make women run for the exits. This is why everyone is telling you to simply spend time with groups of women, even or especially women that you aren't particularly attracted to, to get rid of this mindset towards women.

I have started drinking a small amount of tea--against my own principles! Long story. Anyhow, I was out of regular teabags, and I had this canister of Chinese, at least I think it's Chinese tea, so I made tea from that. The leaves are loose and flat and black, I put about a tablespoon in a teaball and made some weak tea. The leaves are very old, not sure how long I've had this canister. It's a gold canister with a gold dragon curling around it. The tea tasted very different from any tea I've ever had, and I have a feeling of well-being that I've never had from drinking tea before. I had a very small amount, the tea was a pale yellow color. Any idea if that was normal tea or not? Or is that just the difference between brewing loose tea and chopped up tea in teabags?

Are you flirting with me? I would say my eyes are more "crazy" than "fiery" but that's just me.

oh man, this I got to see. Please report back on your progress!

When I'm wrong, I'm wrong. Entities aren't just people.

For men. btw--LOL

Women can sense if men are too horny and that puts them off. The thing that Drew does isn't really not masturbating, it's taking the sexual energy and bringing it up to his third eye. Women do like third eye men. As I pointed out, and you ignored, women are MORE monogamous than men, not less monogamous. If you are excessively concerned with monogamy, don't chase after club-hopping hotties. As for having girl-hating jerk ways, unfortunately that won't keep you from initially getting with women, especially young clueless women, but it will keep you from having a good long-term relationship.

By the way, getting back to the original OP--I think, at least in in my own case, that sometimes long periods of social isolation and celibacy happen for a reason. For me it worked out to be a gift. Now it's over and I'm back into regular life. On the other hand, I did have a regular life before my lull. So it's hard to say.

Oh dear Lord, I read that "article." You do realize, Pietro, that that is simply a guy trying to sell you something? He's using PUA techniques on men in that article, to get you to believe his bullshit. The reason that 22-year-old women have more sex than 22-year-old men is that every man alive wants to have sex with 22-year-old women. The odds are quite different when people reach, say, 45. Also his pronouncements about women are not platitudes about women. They are platitudes about exceptionally attractive women who hang out in bars--his natural hunting ground. He said himself he doesn't date less than an 8+. Having been a youthful, well, 7 I would say, it takes a lot of work and money to be an 8+, according to our culture's standard of beauty. Dieting, waxing, mani/pedi, wardrobe, shoes, exercise, hair cut and styling, shopping. He is restricting himself to girls who spend hours a day and lots of money doing that sort of thing. It takes a certain type of woman to do that and then go spend lots of time hanging out in sleazy bars filled with rapacious PUAs. That certain type of woman is a woman who desperately needs validation from a man that she is desirable. His technique is to fill the woman with uncertainty and then reward her with certainty in the form of meaningless sex. So yes, I don't doubt that that particular subset of women is easy to get into bed if you flatter their vanity. Now if you too are only interested in 8+ women under 25 who hang out in bars, maybe his techniques would be useful. But it's slandering my sex to then extrapolate their behavior (which he is exaggerating to make himself seem more PUAy) to all women. Women's rate of infidelity is lower than men's. http://www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/infidelitystats.html A better comparison would be to say 8+ women under 25 are the sexual equivalent of male rock stars, movie stars and CEO's. How do those men rate on the monogamy scale?

I'm not sure I can do that. It would be interesting to try. I suppose I could if I altered my brain chemistry.

To be technical, I only gain energy from orgasming by flexing my PC muscles (whether something is inside me or not--I gain more energy if nothing is inside me). Those orgasms are G-spot orgasms. G-spot orgasms from being stimulated do not give me energy, I have to be flexing. And of course ejaculatory G-spot orgasms lose energy. It feels like I am generating the energy out of nothing. On the other hand, I have to be aroused, obviously, to be able to have these orgasms. I had to think about it. I used to think that any non-ejaculatory orgasm generated energy in me, but now when I look at it I realize it's only the flexing orgasms that generate the energy.

Oh. My. God. It just dawned on my I'm doing this, I'm doing what Drew is doing, except women don't have to be in full lotus to do it.

I should say don't take the massive amounts of fish oil I recommend and l-arginine. It's because they act similar, so it's like taking aspirin and a blood-thinner together. If you are taking low amounts of both it shouldn't be a problem.

Well of course I gain energy from a partner who ejaculates inside me. That has to do with his orgasm, not my orgasm. In my case, cul de sac orgasms and clitoral orgasms are neutral. If I lose any energy it is negligible. The orgasms that create energy are G-spot orgasms, and only a particular kind. I guess I haven't really thought about it this specifically before. I can have four types of G-spot orgasms: 1.) Stimulating my G-spot with a handheld toy (or cock) where I am just being passive. 2.) Stimulating my G-spot with a handheld toy (or cock) where I am just being passive and I ejaculate. 3.) Flexing my PC muscles around a thing, for example my Gyneflex, a mooncup, a stone egg (flexing causes it to move around), or a cock. 4.) Flexing my PC muscles when my vagina is empty. Only the last two types create energy. #4 orgasms are the strongest for creating energy, although #3 orgasms come close if I am flexing around a penis. Haven't had enough practice in the latter type to really make a definitive answer on strength, usually if I get to that point my partner is not interested in quietly lying there with an erection. I can return energy to my partner either through receiving his ejaculatory energy through my own cul de sac orgasm and channeling it up and out through my chest into his chest, or doing the same thing with my own energy I have generated through flexing orgasms. Does that make sense?

I only lose energy when I ejaculate or have a heart chakra orgasm. Other women here have different experiences. In my experience I seem to gain energy from having vaginal orgasms, particularly ones from flexing my PC muscles.

BTW, don't take fish oil and l-arginine together, they can interact.

My recommended fish oil intake actually is exactly what a person would get from eating a healthy diet, if by healthy diet you mean the diet humans evolved eating--no grains, almost all calories from eating wild game, seafood, and/or bugs. The amount of omega-3 fatty acids I recommend for a 130-pound person are about the equivalent of a salmon steak for lunch and dinner every day. Of course you can't eat like that now because the oceans are too polluted, you would get mercury poisoning. But fish oil has the mercury removed, so it's safe to consume in the amounts our ancestors got from their diet.

Fish oil. Fish oil, fish oil, fish oil. Fish oil is an NO precursor and also what we evolved eating.

Very nice!

And how do you know they aren't people? Likewise your friend in the yoga class, how do you know the spirit wasn't from another person? I ran because you're married and I'm a nice girl. At least sometimes. Not because of your whatever whatever. TaoMeow seems to be saying that Kunlun is an entity-friendly practice and she's pretty experienced in taoist things, it's not just me saying this. I'm not saying you couldn't have fought me off successfully, BTW, but you said yourself you stopped fighting not wanting to hurt me. At any rate, your fighting wasn't why I skedaddled.

All witches create their own brand of witchcraft, unless they are in some kind of rigid coven structure. All spirits are either inside me, or coming from someone else. Period. That's my belief. I know it doesn't fit in with most people's idea of the astral plane or whatever. I'm not saying spirits are neutral, I'm saying they are people. Do you put people in those rigid boxes? Maybe you do. By the way, I am dating. And I wouldn't be dating at all if I hadn't gone through my entity experience. Again, the use in an entity is you, yourself, selecting the correct entity for you. Random spiritual attacks or sticking with an entity that is wrong for you aren't going to help anybody. And as I said, this path isn't for everybody anyhow, just that the entities will keep on coming if one doesn't resolve one's imbalance. Honey, it takes one to know one. If Kunlun isn't an entity practice I will eat my hat!

Lower plane spirits. Higher plane spirits. Higher teachers, guardian angels. Bah! Do you have to take the material world system of categories and judgments and overlay it on the spiritual world? I think there are only two kinds of entities--those within you and those coming from other people. And I think the ones coming from other people are attracted to imbalance. Therefore, if you take the time and care to choose exactly the right fit and interact with that spirit, you will see exactly what your imbalances are and how to fix them. It's not that the spirits themselves are magic or imparting higher knowledge. In fact, I would suspect any spirit beings offering some sort of higher knowledge--Lucifer disguises himself as an angel of light after all. The magic in entities is that they are easy, available, and infinitely varied. To compare it to the world of sex, let's say there was something lacking in sex but you didn't know what. You could take the time to date a string of women, but it would be time-consuming, hurt the women, and you might never hit on the woman who shares your kink. On the other hand, you can go online and in a week exhaust the range of kink out there in porn viewing. And then you can say, "Oh, I like spanking," for example, and then go out a find a woman who likes spanking too. Spirit entities are like dreams, they help you understand and prepare for the real world. I'm not saying this is the right path for everyone. I've made no bones I'm a lefthand path witch. Of course a person can wall themselves off from entities and try to fix their imbalances in other ways. But as long as the imbalance is there, the spirits will be attracted, I'm just saying. And for someone who's so anti-entity, why on earth did you get involved with Kunlun? Seems cuckoo to me.

My two cents on this, because you knew I would have two cents on this--facials just make me sad, all that wasted vital substance dripping off on the floor instead of being swallowed! At least when a man ejaculates inside a woman's vagina, even if it is inside a condom, the energy goes into the woman. With a facial, the man is refusing to give the woman his energy. Selfish, if you ask me. As for female ejaculation, although there is ejaculatory fluid that women produce (and by the way, women do not have a prostate, rather Skene's glands), women do not have that flap that shuts off the bladder when orgasm is imminent, so if a woman has a full bladder, not only will the ejaculatory fluid come out but also the contents of her bladder. So don't knock women for being afraid of the peeing feeling, because it's a real danger! The best way to get women to ejaculate is to simply expect the peeing as pee, in other words to stimulate her in the bathtub where it won't make any difference. Warm up the bathtub by filling it with hot water and letting it drain out. A fast hard tapping on the spot works best, and the first time the pressure of a full bladder will help too. I recommend beer--it fills the bladder and lowers the inhibitions at the same time. My first time it took a LOT of stimulation to get to that point, I can't remember how long it was, I think an hour. Only one in ten women are physically capable of doing it, so don't pressure someone if she's just not up for it.

To be on topic, not specifically to Kunlun but in a general way about demons, I've found that dealing with entities is a lot like dating. I think there are two sorts of entities--those that are within you that are either peculiar to yourself or manifestations within yourself of a divine being, and those that are from other people. If you are deep down needing an entity from another person for some reason or another, ALL the other entities from other people will be able to find you more easily and you will be able to feel them. Kind of like a cat in heat. I think there are two ways to deal with this. One is to do lots of anti-entity practice and get rid of them all, but I would assume that would be lots of trouble and require constant vigilance. The other thing to do is find the entity that is right for you and go with it all the way. Once the entity is able to exchange with you, to tell you the thing you need to know, then that entity and all the other entities will go away. I should probably crosspost this down in my practice journal.