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I would say it is the same, particularly if the men have developed the ability to send out their sexual energy with ejaculation. I had sex with a man like that and it was quite remarkable. I guess my point is that I think men have two places to ejaculate energy--the testicles and the third eye. So it makes sense for men to retain, to push the energy up to the third eye to be able to ejaculate it there, to give it to a woman from the forehead. I think that's the symbolism of pictures of men with horns, to show off the center of the forehead, just like the symbolism of women with wings, to show off the center of the chest. In other words, I think the energy exists primarily to be shared. So even if a man gets it up to his skull, it should be shared with his partner through forehead to forehead contact, or deep eye contact, or prolonged necking sessions. Once or twice releasing it through the top of the head I can understand--to experience that feeling of oneness with the cosmos is something everyone should go through at least once or twice, especially if they aren't in a relationship. But I think it's not something people should try to have all the time, instead I think the energy should be shared back and forth through the genitals, the chest and the forehead. With a woman, there is only one spot the energy can be sent out, and it's the natural place to send it, so it doesn't make any sense to retain it to push it higher. At least not to me. Yes, experiencing a crown chakra orgasm once or twice is an enlightening thing, but other than that, what's the point? Now maybe if a woman is actually breastfeeding a baby and must conserve her heart energy for that, or if she is ill and needs to hoard her energy to get well well, actually there is one other reason for it, and I suppose I should do that. Hoarding heart energy and transmuting it makes a woman sexually attractive to men. If I were to do that I would attract men to me. Yes, anyone who does not respect Annie Sprinkle should not read my book. In fact I forbid it. Man, I shouldn't say this. But I'm going to. Immortal Sister--if you are the dakini of a taoist wizard, that might explain why you find vaginal orgasms draining and heart orgasms not draining. Taoist wizards can take the energy from a woman's vulva, which is unnatural and backwards. And if his heart chakra is not open and hungry, then your heart chakra orgasms wouldn't be draining to you. A man with an open heart is very vulnerable and takes the female, passive role.

No, that looks like the sort of heart orgasm I have myself. Is that Annie Sprinkle? Because she's the real deal. There's a thrusting of the breasts, and then the energy builds up and shoots out of the center of the chest. It is Annie Sprinkle. She's a tantric sex goddess. She endorsed my book.

Well, xeno, you are the one who invited me to this board in the first place, and for that I thank you. Frankly I started this thread because of you, your post in the other thread. I knew I would take some heat for it, but Hathor insisted. She said she had a message for you, that I was to post about my experiences. I don't know whether Hathor objectively exists or is a product of my right brain, undoubtedly the latter, but one thing I am quite sure about--Hathor represents women like me. She was a cow goddess. She was a milk goddess. Even though my youngest is almost nine, I still have colostrum, which is pre-milk. If there was a hungry newborn who needed milk, like if the newborn had lost his or her mother, I know my milk would come in right away, which is medically quite unusual. My doctor wanted me to go through tests, but I refused. I know this abundance is from my open channel and the tremendous energy that flows through it every day, and it's a good, natural way to be. I don't stimulate my nipples in any unusual way. My diet helps this channel open up.

No, it's not that I have some sort of altruistic thingummy that makes me want to give heart energy. It just feels so good to unload. If I could only keep one kind of orgasm, I would keep these. They're so sexual and erotic.

Drew, are you going to answer my question? Why did you post that video?

I am able to ejaculate with G-spot stimulation. It's difficult for me, but I can do it. It certainly helps me relate to men! I just want to roll over and go to sleep afterwards, and it's SO DIRTY. Those two questions are questions I have too. How come my vaginal orgasms create energy instead of deplete it, and why can't I do anything with my heart energy except send it out of me in some way? I shouldn't say that, instead why don't I want to do anything with my heart energy except give it to someone else? It seems very different from the experience of other women. I don't know. Maybe in some cosmic way I am continuing to take men's jing, somehow psychicly instead of directly? And my natural underlying sense of fair play makes me want to return it? That sounds totally crazy, but I suppose for me that's par for the course.

I most certainly can control whether I have orgasms or not. I know exactly why they happen. For a long time, I couldn't stop having them, because it is a true maxim that you can't rape the willing. Then I was separated, but by that time I was writing my book and expected to have them, culminating in having them on cable TV, to show that I was telling the truth in my book. It's been over a year now since all that, so I suppose I can stop working at keeping my body in this highly orgasmic state, but in the process, the unexpected thing happened with my tulpa. It's a long story. My vaginal orgasms, particularly the spontaneous ones, are the opposite of depleting. They create the energy that rises to my heart. I have too much energy then, and it has to go someplace, either ejaculated as energy from the center of my chest, or ejaculated as amrita from my urethra. The latter is depleting, but not as depleting as shooting out the energy from my chest. One heart chakra orgasm will deplete my sexual energy for a few days. I have to have half a dozen ejaculation orgasms to get the same effect, and I don't stay depleted as long. It's very uncomfortable to have a chest full of sexual energy with no release, makes me quite fratchety! Are you just throwing random youtube videos at me without watching them? I can't understand why you posted a video of witches being stripped naked, beaten and made to eat human shit for me to view. Or maybe I can understand. And if so, you don't want to fuck around with me.

WTF? What do you mean by that? That my entity will be scared away by the thought of cruel Indian villagers? What? With the heart one, did you feel receptive? Passive?

Of course it is. That's why I can't have one without a sex object. I think a woman can gain the ability to have heart orgasms like this if she has a good partner. But I don't think a woman could easily gain the ability without a good partner unless she experienced birth and nursing to open up the channel another way. I was in sort of a hoist by my own petard situation. I was having fifty orgasms a day and this generated tremendous sexual energy. I had congestion at my chest with the energy. Before my first orgasm I thought I was having some sort of weird angina, like if angina felt both pleasurable and sexual. Then after my first orgasm, it felt very good and I had more. I was a fangirl, so I had a sex object, a distant sex object, but I had such strong energy and my channel had been opened so well with the motherhood experience, that even a celebrity crush was strong enough to, well, unload. I wrestled with that for a number of reasons. There is tremendous shame associated with being a fangirl, especially women my age. I had five choices and I tried them all. 1.) Stop having fifty orgasms a day. My peculiar marital situation at the time meant that I was forced to always have very high libido, so that was not an option. 2.) Give it to my sex partners. I tried with my ex-husband, and was somewhat successful, but he found the feeling exceptionally unpleasant and closed it back up. I also as I said gave it to men I had casual sex with, but if I had sex with them several different days and did this, it caused me to end up hurting them, because they became emotionally attached, and we weren't having that sort of sex. 3.) Give it clandestinely to men during innocent social hugs. This too had a very strange effect. If I knew the men they would become very interested in me and wanting to get to know me, which was not my intent, I was just trying to get my rocks off. Tantric frottage, I suppose. So I figured I had better not mess with it, especially because some of the men showed kundalini symptoms after. 4.) Push the energy back down and ejaculate amrita. This worked for a bit, but killed my lower arms. And I would have to have five or six ejaculations to get rid of the energy and it took too damn much time. 5.) Create a tulpa for my sexual relief. And that's what I did, and now I'm crazy. Ejaculating heart energy into an imaginary spirit being every couple days for years is, well, it can have unexpected ramifications. I know the normal way of it is to be in a loving, long-term relationship, but that just wasn't in the stars for me.

Finally a question I think I can answer! Get my book The Orgasmic Diet and you will have no problem keeping up with your girlfriend and less of a feeling of depletion afterwards. Also there are two very easy ways to keep from having an orgasm that won't wreck your plumbing. Of course, first off make sure you don't get too close to the point of no return. To bring down your arousal level, do slow deep belly breathing. Also bring your concentration up--not thinking of baseball stats but thinking of how much you love and cherish your girlfriend, thinking cuddly warm affection, bringing your focus up to your heart. Also, it might be edifying for you to see how much she wants your cock vs. how much she wants your semen. If she's wanting you to give her vaginal orgasms, she'll be almost as happy if you use a nice dildo on her. If she's not vaginally orgasmic and only wants your semen, she will angrily refuse a dildo. Another tell is if she's as happy with 69ing as with regular sex. A woman wanting vaginal orgasms will like 69ing, but will want penetration before you come.

Jesus, Drew, did it cross your mind to post that video when I was wrestling with my spiritual entity questions? It would have been uncommonly helpful and saved me a lot of time! Now I have the science for what has happened to me. Very beneficial once again, thank you. Non, if you are female, you have to get very strong PC muscles to become spontaneously orgasmic, and have healthy hormone levels and the right balance of neurotransmitters. I recommend a device called Gyneflex to strengthen a woman's PC muscles. If you can close level #4 you will have the requisite strength for spontaneous vaginal orgasms. If you have read my book, for the non-orgasmic woman even before trying my diet, the first thing she should do is get a good quality vibrator.

No. You were right about the microtubules and the blood/brain barrier, but that doesn't mean you are right about other things. Don't ignore biochemistry. Dopamine is a chemical. Testosterone is a chemical. Just because you are on a crazy diet that has tricked your body into shutting down sexually because it thinks there's a famine going on and it's not time to reproduce, doesn't mean that testosterone can be ignored in men eating a normal diet.

Then why do men have to do semen retention to do the MCO?

Well thank you Biff! I'm glad what I experience has a context, and I'm pleased that you enjoy my writing. From my experience on the Aneros board, the huge one is definitely NOT the best one to start off with. Or even to end up with--people seem to get easier and stronger results with the smaller ones. Also I didn't mean to imply that prostate orgasms needed penetration to achieve them. But don't most men who do the MCO have something like an orgasm from the PC muscle flexing?

What I am doing during a heart chakra orgasm is not a "wall." In my opinion it is the entire point of being female, and there is nothing higher to strive for.

Now I'm confused, I thought that the very beginning of the MCO for men was the prostate. As in being able to have prostate orgasms. Isn't that how the MCO energy is generated and sent up? But yes, I think opening up the heart in men is also helped by being pegged on a regular basis. Or at least Aneros use.

I thank you again, Drew--it was interesting seeing him and watching him converse. That's what I mean about an open heart; his is open, the heart of the man interviewing him is not. I think I will start a new thread on my experiences with heart chakra orgasms, on the off chance that xenolith might be seriously asking for what I know.

Hm... I looked up Governor Channel and I must be circulating widdershins. Appropriate, I suppose, being a witch. I do know what sending energy up the Governor Channel feels like--shooting up the spine. But I can only do that with clitoral arousal (before orgasm). And that amount of energy is minor. From reading up, I know exactly the spot he describes as the Sexual Palace in women, but the energy from there has never gone up my spine. I generate that energy using my PC muscles, it collects at the Sexual Palace, and then it travels directly up to my heart, it doesn't go back along the spine, it goes up through the center of me, what sounds like the Functional Channel. I guess I assumed that men were the same, but it sounds like they're not, that the energy goes up the back. I think it can go both ways, but I may be wrong. I know when I've had sex with strangers who had an open heart, I would give them the heart energy so we could go another round or two. So I know it goes down. And I'm pretty sure it goes up too, from the effects I've seen where I've given the heart energy to men when we haven't had sex. How it goes up, I don't know. I strongly suspect my heart chakra energy abilities required me to go through pregnancy, birth, and extended breastfeeding. Both of my girls I breastfed for over nine months. I think the process of breastfeeding opens up the reverse channel. So I do not have categorical evidence, however, the book The Jewel In The Lotus also describes what I experience. For some reason the page numbers are off in my copy, but it's near the back. Heart-Genital Circuit in that book. In the book it describes how the man has to take the "female" role in this circuit.

Chests pressed against each other, preferably naked. The energy from my heart is ejaculated directly into my partner's chest. Some men have an opening there, although for most it's hard and impenetrable--like between the legs of a Barbie doll.

Uh, Drew, did I mention it was sexual? It's an orgasm. Animals--I'm not into that.

For the record, when I have a heart chakra orgasm, it's an orgasm. It's not some sort of sublime feeling of compassion. My back arches and my chest convulses, ejaculating out energy. The center of my chest orgasms. It is accompanied by an emotional release--sometimes I burst into tears or even faint, but the orgasm itself is an automatic physiological reaction.

I never said that dopamine and serotonin were antagonists--I'm just saying neither of you seem to understand the effects of serotonin. Too much serotonin causes hyperactivity, for example. And while prolactin is an antagonist of dopamine, I don't think that epinephrine/adrenaline is an antagonist of serotonin. Steroids are serotonin antagonists. If you have a link on the epinephrine as an antagonist I'd like to learn more. As for spirituality, I think you misunderstand me. For men who do not have a female partner, yes, refraining from orgasm is the only way to get the sexual energy up to the forehead. I agree with that. However, I believe that with an adept female partner that a man can give the woman his sexual energy during sex through ejaculation, and she can return it to him through the heart chakra, thereby speeding up the process of getting the sexual energy up to his forehead.

I think it can be done right--it shows a certain thriftiness. Young men throw away something so valuable, why not put it to good use? And most women whom they give it to do not have the sense to take it and use it--instead they take peripheral and useless things like money and sexual attention, the sexual power. As long as the men are young and healthy and not in relationships, and as long as the woman doesn't concentrate on just one young man or stay too long with each of them, then why not? Especially if she's up front about it.

Dopamine does not cause the mind to race. If anything, serotonin will cause the mind to race. Dopamine is the pleasure neurotransmitter. Smoking pot raises dopamine--that's the sort of feeling that dopamine gives. Maybe you are thinking of adrenaline? I don't know, but you are really way off base.

Are there exercises I don't know about for men involving sticking out the tongue up towards the nose to give an erection? Just curious about something.