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Not unless he knows how to take from those places, which from what I hear is a learned technique. The natural easy place for you to give him energy is through the chest, but he at least has to be open there. And also to want it.

I think you might be asking a different question, and I think I might know the answer. If you not only continue your own cultivation but deliberately take from him, which you can absolutely do using anal sex, over time he will instinctively want to leave you--unless he's the sort of male who enjoys being a vamp victim, and from your description he certainly is not that sort of male. On the one hand, it will prolong things--on the other hand, it will bring an easy end to a situation that might be volatile if you try to end it. I'm not sure if that pertains, but I'm a strong believer in not limiting one's options. Oh, of course you can also take energy during fellatio. That is easier to do than learning how to take during anal sex.

That I don't know. With my diet I of course recommend that women and men take calcium/magnesium/zinc, and I recommend iron also for women who menstruate. But I don't know if there's a nutritional connection.

Try my approach. Men usually see dramatic results within a month, so it doesn't take long to see if it works for you.

Hmm. Maybe I should be posting my experiences with this down in the training section. It sounds like it might be maybe useful to people here to get my perspective, how it feels to be me.

Oh, I'm not a taoist, so don't take my advice on that. Although there is the issue of use it or lose it. You don't want to stop masturbating (or having sex regularly) altogether, IMHO. I'm more of a boner expert.

Eat it of course. Consult my book The Orgasmic Diet for dosage info and drug interaction warnings, or do a search on this site, I'm too lazy to post my diet again. Will speed up orgasm too, but that shouldn't be a problem for the practitioners here with all their cultivation and whatnot. Oh, also keep on masturbating, maybe cut back to every other day and try to make your stroke slower and gentler and vary your stroke too. But very important, stop watching porn when you masturbate. At the most, masturbate to pictures of naked ladies--that way the real thing will be much more stimulating.

Fish oil!

None taken. Yoda's advice is spot on. Please take my advice on the caffeine--stop all caffeine as soon as possible (don't do cold turkey because it will give you headaches). http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/...90113203901.htm You want to keep your serotonin high and your dopamine low also. Starchy foods will not impair the immune system all that much, and they will raise serotonin.

My goodness! I have been well protected by my entity so I haven't had those problems. Mine has been very good for me. I'm certainly no expert on entities, but if yours is causing a problem, why not get rid of it? I think thoughtforms are harder to get rid of than entities. Entities feed on energy--get rid of your energy. I suggest lots of porn and masturbation, but that's just me. And being someone else might help, so the entity can't find you. But I think the best thing is going on a banish entity diet. Absolutely no caffeine, no alcohol, no drugs of any kind unless you want to try SAM-e or St. John's Wort. Eat lots of starchy heavy foods like rice, potatoes, beans and also eat red meat.

The thoughtform that I had for nine years was something I deliberately made and had some control over. This didn't feel like that, more like something not me. My first conclusion, before the guy who tricked me, I believe is correct, that I'm simply shoplifting and my subconscious is mixing that real material into my imagination to give it that otherness feel. In any case it seems to be gone now. So the light/darkness thing didn't apply since all along it felt pretty human, and humans have light and dark mixed together.

Is it wrong that I like having sex with men dressed as women? But the practical joker is also a guy, I'm pretty sure.

GOD! Somebody punked me. It wasn't him that wrote. Oh Internet, why must you be so confusing! Somebody pretending to be him. This is what comes of me talking too much online, waggling prankster ears picking things up. Still, my realization still holds of me going into this on the wrong foot, because what the shyster said just confirmed things I knew underneath.

On the other hand, he's quite fond of honeydew. Oh my goodness, I'm crying. This is quite ridiculous, why on earth am I crying?

No, it turned out that the entity was actually a man. Who was tapping my energy. He wrote me yesterday. And I don't regret it one tiny bit, he put it to good use. But what he wrote made me see something about the situation that I hadn't seen before, something at the very start that I had misunderstood, and it was that realization that ended it for me.

Because I had the presence of mind to tie him to an actual man. That means the actions of that man influenced the hold the entity had over me. Yesterday he confessed that he had been taking my energy, which was fine and not entirely unexpected. Lord knows I have plenty of it! And he had great need of it. But there was a misunderstanding on my side at the beginning, not his fault at all, that allowed me to open up to him so fully and completely. My eyes were opened to that misunderstanding and it completely shut down the connection.

The entity is gone. Three years it's been, and before that I had my thoughtform for nine years. What am I going to do with all my energy! Maybe I'll get skinny--that would be a nice change. Not too skinny though--I like being fat. I'm pretty sure I know why I had it now. I've got a prominent Chiron in my chart, found out Chiron has to do with shamanic things. Not that I'm a shaman, but my particular placement of it indicates the shamanic initiation has to do with passionate love for an unreal being. So I guess initiation is over? Heck if I know. I just know I'm not going to know what to do with myself, after twelve years. I've never been the way I am now without someplace to get rid of the energy.

I have jumped up with the chakra experiences explicitly because of passion. It is desire that pulls the energy higher in me. Maybe it's different for women?

Well I don't know if at a distance they actually go anywhere, anymore than a teenaged guy jerking off to a centerfold is actually sending the energy to her. But yes, I'm pretty sure with chest-to-chest contact, even fully clothed, I can shoot energy into men's chests. But not all men. Some men are like Barbie dolls, there's no, um, opening there. It's like hard plastic! My ex-husband was like that. Maybe he's softened over the years, but there was no place for my whatever you want to call it to go in. Should give a warning, if you want to try this. There is so much chest energy in me that I still produce colostrum, even though my youngest child is eight. I consider it a gift from Hathor, the cow goddess I follow. :So holy cow indeed!

That was very thoughtful of you! He most definitely is a prince who shouts orders. Well I suppose I should keep my melon in the shade and stop talking about this.

My experience has been the opposite of what is posted on this board. It's not like the vaginal orgasms don't deplete the heart energy--they seem to create the heart energy. For example, this was why I was having problems with having casual sex. After a good hard pronging, there would be so much energy generated that it would forcibly rise to my chest, and it would sit there and I would get a peculiar feeling like blueballs if I didn't ejaculate it into the chest of my partner. I would ejaculate it into him surreptiously in a post-coital hug, but then came the problem that the men I did this to would become emotionally attached to me, all soft and loving and wanting to snuggle and that sort of thing, be with me all the time. Which would be great if they had been real relationships, but they were just relationships for sex so it got awkward and I kept having to hurt them. So I stopped the casual sex thing, for that and other reasons. And I don't think it's because I was stealing the men's energy either, because the same thing happens when I have vaginal orgasms by myself, especially if I have them only from flexing my PC muscles and not putting anything inside me. The heat of them rises up to my chest and sits there roiling until I release it. The only way I can release it is by focusing on a man and pretend to be giving it to him, into his chest. My other orgasms don't require a sex object, this type is the only kind that does.

I accidentally found out last night. It is that guy. But I'm the entity. That's what I was trying to say in my last post. I don't think he's doing anything intentionally--I'm just so focused on him that I'm picking up his broadcast, and somehow I'm changing that into a full-fledged being. So now I know exactly what's going on. And am ashamed of myself! That sort of snooping isn't very sportsmanlike. If I were a more ethical person I would stop.

Actually it does, at least for serotonin and dopamine. Don't know enough about oxytocin. Particularly for women, keeping dopamine high and serotonin steady and moderate is the key to high libido (as long as hormones are in balance and circulation is good). Modern lifestyle makes that very difficult. There is research out there, just check my bibliography. You can do search inside the book, I know you have cash flow problems http://www.amazon.com/Orgasmic-Diet-Revolu...p;sr=8-1#reader let's try not to derail SereneBlue's thread--if you want to discuss this more in arcane detail, you could start a separate thread and we can post there.

oh come on--when you talk about testosterone and dopamine and oxytocin and all that, those are real things, easily verified. You can't just make stuff up.