Mal
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Request for greater disciplinary action on More Pie Guy
Mal replied to skydog's topic in Forum and Tech Support
"and everyone else here is talking about how wearing a 10mg necklace charm makes them a weightlifter." I disagree, "edit to add that comment also feels insulting to the practitioners here at TTB" and I also I think that's not an answer to -
Request for greater disciplinary action on More Pie Guy
Mal replied to skydog's topic in Forum and Tech Support
MPG your original post was 99% of people on earth aren't cultivating much of anything and I intended this to mean energetically. is not Seeing as 99% of people here don't cultivate anything at all, no I'd say it probably doesn't. You chose to word posts the way you do. Why? Do you like the controversy you generate? Do you want to insult people here? -
Moderation vs. reading comprehension vs. forum rules
Mal replied to bakeneko's topic in Forum and Tech Support
I had hoped you might have used this opportunity to apologize for your original post here http://thetaobums.com/topic/32886-daily-timetable-of-the-quanzhen-retreat/page-8#entry506848 rather than start a thread like this. The reason was -
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~~~~~~~~~~~~ moderator message ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ bakeneko has been suspended from posting for 48 hrs.
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Request for greater disciplinary action on More Pie Guy
Mal replied to skydog's topic in Forum and Tech Support
The post was reported this morning so the link in question is http://thetaobums.com/topic/32989-does-cultivation-make-other-people-anxious-around-you/?p=506596 -
Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
I have slightly modified an old post, have fun -
Dealing with Trolls, Petty Tyrants and Socially Inept Posters
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
The teacher has a duty of care to the other people in the class. How can they learn if one persons misbehavior is taking all the teachers time and resources? You asked who has changed? - I won't name them but I know a few current members who have drastically changed their behavior after suspensions But suspension is a poor way to change behavior because it's a punishment (A Negative punishment taking away something desirable - access to TTB) What could be a positive reinforcer of good behavior? -
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Thank you. Treat other members here with respect. Do not post insults. And you will have no problems.
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~~~~~~~ moderator warning ~~~~~~~~~ Isimsiz Biri. These posts are insulting. Stop posting insults or you will be suspended. RongzomFan you are escalating this situation. Stop posting insults or you will be suspended. ~~~~~~~ moderator warning ~~~~~~~~~
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Getting up at sunrise is for me an unintended side effect from practicing Ashtanga Yoga (traditionally practiced at dawn) I also enjoy meditation anytime between 2~4am and then going back to sleep.
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Ego Control Therapy - How About a Training Thread ?
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
I think most of the people here get a lot of practice at this one. -
~~~~~~~ moderator message ~~~~~~~~~ _็ๅฝ_ and taomen The moderators are well aware that there is ongoing discussion between participants across threads. While we donโt need to agree with each other on TTB, please do not be insulting eg And once you have presented your opinion Then move on. If you wish to continue to debate validity, create another thread. I feel that continuing this debate in this thread would be harassment. I also feel that continuing to follow Vitalii across threads would be harassment. Please stop, or I will suspend you from posting. ~~~~~~~ moderator message ~~~~~~~~~
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Dealing with Trolls, Petty Tyrants and Socially Inept Posters
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
What if there was also the option of asking that person to continue elsewhere? -
I REALLY like Last Legends. While I just finished reading Centuries I think Last Legends is the most enjoyable story, and I got it for free back in 2010 from PPickings
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Good morning Isimsiz Biri. Thank you for your reply as it might allow me to clear up some misunderstandings about moderation. I was actually just discussing with the other mods that the post you quoted by Vitalii was probably what prompted you to respond that way. You didn't report that post, so I'm not really sure how you felt about it - except via your replies. Those replies generated reports, from the person the post was directed at, as well as others reading this thread. Those reports though your posts were intended to be insulting, and on reading them moderators did also. So now there is a moderator here, seeing if we can treat others with respect and not post personal insults - Hence the warning you received. I've also got this thread on "notify" so that I am aware of the replies posted here. This is perhaps a good example of why moderation looks unbalanced. Moderators don't read every thread. People don't report every post. Moderators really only "appear" once conflict has set in - and that's because we will usually wait for reports before we intervene. Now almost always during that intervention moderators find out that there have been several posts preceding the reported post and that someone was responding to something they though was an insult. Or it's a disagreement about "truth" or "safety" We like posters to make their own conclusions, and we feel the best way to do that is to treat others with respect and not post personal insults. "Sorry I've just started moderating again after a long break. It's more taxing that I remembered, guess that is effecting my outlook. I'll add more "uplifting" practices into my schedule."
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Dealing with Trolls, Petty Tyrants and Socially Inept Posters
Mal replied to chegg's topic in General Discussion
a picture of power -
Thank you for agreeing to stop, I feel you understand the warnings in this thread and I do not want to have to suspend you from posting for harassment.