Learn to become a fully orgasmic being on a solo cultivated level.
Make sure the partner you are involved with cultivates to this level.
Join in a sacred union when the both of you are at the same level.
A natural flow will happen , a sexual energetic orbit between you , do not chase for orgasm.
When we do not seek orgasm the energy will wash over in healing waves
and take us into beautiful realms of connectedness , healing and expansion.
The cultivated female has a beautiful gift for the male
and the cultivated male has beautiful gift for the female,
way beyond a physical emission.
Do not try to work with a partner who does not cultivate.