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Hello NordaVinci, Welcome to the bums; your account is approved. If you haven’t already done so please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. warm regards, ilu

Hello eric-stroman, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. Sorry to read of your troubles. Personally, I would suggest not focusing so much on how you believe people around you are feeling, and more on your own inner energetics and how you are feeling - maybe some basic practices with the elements for personal balance. You will find three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations, if you have not already done so please make sure you’ve read them. warm regards, ilu

I actually find this a bit troubling. There is so much more than a simple “get her out of India” (which I believe is at least pretty close to how you put it in a later post) - which seems to be her mother’s goal, although I have seen no indication it is hers. You would be taking her away from her friends and family (i.e. any support network she presently has - if they are actually supportive), and bringing her to a place where she has no strong language skills (according to you), will likely experience some amount of culture shock, and have difficulty communicating in any nuanced fashion with anyone other than you. If you indeed wish to convince yourself you will be “providing opportunity” then these things should be considered imo - or else it looks a bit like a “dependency trap” to me.. which is certainly and entirely honestly a perception colored by my own history.

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Hi Renvanor, This isn’t much of an intro, and doesn’t quite qualify as fulfilling the “tell us a bit about yourself” request. But I am approving your account anyway. Perhaps you could consider telling us something about yourself at some point. There are three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations, please read them if you haven’t already done so. warm regards, ilu

Hello Kevin37, Welcome to the bums; your account is approved. If you haven’t already done so please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. warm regards, ilu

Yes, there is an area here for this type of gender focused discussion, but we don’t say much there. I don’t know if the general silence there is due to the fact we have had men here create accounts as women (without actually identifying as such in everyday life), the women who have stuck around here tend to be older, or we simply have little to say on the subject. This thread is where you would request access:

You will know when the impatience wanes, and you no longer feel driven to instant gratification of (any and all) arising desires. Life doesn’t always work like that anyway (you aren’t always going to get what you want), so observance and time should (will likely) provide it’s own lessons/antidote.

Hello Heyoka44, Welcome to the bums; your account is approved. You will find three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations; if you haven’t already done so, please make sure you’ve read them. warm regards, ilu

Hello liberala.ironikerin, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. I don’t believe anyone will have the answers you seek, as the answers would be very personal to you and your own journey. But perhaps other members may be able to provide points which will assist you in navigating your inner journey. If you haven’t already done so please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. And, speaking as a fellow woman, remember your sovereignty, and don’t fall to strongly into the idea of people knowing more than they actually do, or you do about yourself. warm regards, ilu

Hi 10/12/1980, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. Interesting intro. I am curious how you acquired the savior/salvation/apocalypse stuff without (what I previously believed was a prerequisite) Christian/religious/spiritual upbringing. Have you pondered this it all? Do you have any ideas/thoughts on the matter? In any case, you will see three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and guidelines here, please make sure you’ve read them if you haven’t already done so. warm regards, ilu

Hello Synjin, Welcome to the bums. If you haven’t already done so, please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding the rules and expectations we have here. warm regards, ilu

Hi dindin, Your account is approved. If you have already experienced issues with sexually related practices (or your understanding of them), I would not recommend pursuing further related practices. May you find the help you are seeking, ilu

Hello bbed68, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. There are three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations; please make sure you’ve read them. warm regards, ilu

Hi Romeo, Welcome to the bums; your account is approved. Please make sure you’ve read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. warm regards, ilu

Hello An Athlete, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. If you haven’t already done so, please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. warm regards, ilu

Hi Rufus, Welcome to the bums; your account is approved. If you haven’t already done so, please read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. There are existing threads which contain the information you seek, or you can start new ones for your queries. May you find what you’re looking for. warm regards, ilu

Hi jmag, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. Please make sure you have read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. I hope you enjoy your stay. warm regards, ilu

Hello Oxolus, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. Please make sure you have read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations. warm regards, ilu

Hi Sharing Knowledge, Your account is approved; welcome to the bums. Sorry to read of the loss of your partner, ilu

Hello LookingForAnswer366, Welcome to the bums. Your account is approved. You will find three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and expectations; please make sure you’ve read them. warm regards, ilu

Really electrifying.

Generally people who no longer wish to be here simply stop coming here.

Hi freakyqi, Thanks for reading the three pinned posts. Welcome to the bums, ilu

Hi nerd at stuff, interesting (and unexpected) questions which I’ll leave others to answer (if they wish) for now. Welcome to the bums. Your account is approved. Please make sure you’ve read the three topics pinned at the top of this sub forum regarding rules and guidelines. warm regards, ilu