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The point of my offering PPDs and warning everyone was to keep bans from happening. I still have a wait and see attitude and hope that is plays out differently than in the past. Fingers crossed that all goes well. I hope the popcorn doesn't get cold waiting for the climax...
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14 months ago, April 20, 2016
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I am sorry you feel that way. Please allow me to clarify your misunderstanding; I am simply asking that everyone remain civil and abide by TDB rules and ToS when discussing a topic that is known to result in what you describe as a riot. I am sincerely looking forward to some informative posts without the sniping, insults, and over all impertinent tone that typical MoPai threads project. It is my hope that we can all learn a thing or two. I will leave you with some comments I made regarding how the MoPai threads play out. I have always found it to be disheartening, even before I was part of TDB staff and I extend these same pleadings today that I did then. Remember the seeker...
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The the best advice I can give you if you already know how it is going to end is to disengage now before it is too late. It seems you have been waiting to engage for over a year, waiting patiently until the time was right. A few words of caution and friendly advice below as a moderator and not just a forum member. ********************* For anyone, including new and long term members, with an agenda or some kind of score to settle please refer to the pinned topics here. Keeping in line with those tenets while defending, explaining or refuting opinions, will keep the mods out of the discussion and ensure an uninterrupted membership status for everyone. Please start a new topic in the appropriate area of the forums, we like to keep the welcome section to introductions and greeting new members with minimal deviation. Happy posting!!. I look forward to reading some informative and interesting topics. ***MOD TEAM OUT***
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Everyone here is entitled to their opinion on TDB. When personal insults are integrated into refuting another's opinion, that is when staff gets involved. We can create a personal practice discussion (PPD) for you so that you can share. In a PPD you would be able to hide posts that are not relevant to the topic and can even lock the threads to prevent comments. I would like to see more controlled explanations rather than flame wars, personally. A PPD is a great way to achieve it and make my and my fellow mods job a lot easier. What do you say? Would you like an area such that I have described to clear up any misunderstandings?
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I see roasted potatoes, celery, and chives. Is that mint and mustard seed? I am always looking for non-mayonnaise based salads. Recipe please?
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We, the mod team, communicate a great deal, hence the reason I can tell you with 100% certainty that ZYD's posts were not directed at you or about you. You have not been threatened, not by me and not by any other member of the mod team. I was quite clear about your fate if you continued with the attacks, name calling and over all uncivil attitude on these forums. You were properly warned and I am a woman of my word; you are now in the face mod action. I have tried to give you every opportunity to rectify what you have done in this thread, and you have declined. Please take a break. Doesn't full lotus sound ideal about right now?
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No, I am not angry. Again, you are misinterpreting things to match your internal dialogue. ZYD was not speaking to or about you in his posts. You seemed to have missed that. Behind those "fake" names are people who are protected by the rules of this forum from abuse by other members, and that does include you. Again, you fail to realize, you have, on many occasions, identified yourself. I, nor my fellow mods will not go through and remove your name from every topic you have ever posted in. If you want your name removed, you will have to do that yourself. We can talk about the rest later. Seriously, take some time to cool off. Think about your reaction to what had absolutely nothing to do with you, for once. Kar3n TDB Mod Team
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Dear Drew, As a member of TDB staff, who has had recent, direct communication with you, and as far as I am aware, the only to make contact about TDB rules and ToS. I have neither threatened you, nor have I played any games with you. I have been very clear and direct in my exchanges with you in both public and private. This is a hissy fit of epic proportions, Drew! Like nothing I have ever seen from someone with such intelligence and understanding, among other things. Had you bothered to read beyond ZYD's public warning to a specific individual, you would have noticed the person in question went a few extra steps to clear up the misunderstanding within the thread. Had you not recognized something about yourself in words not meant for you, gotten defensive and began to call names and act in an uncivil manner you would not be facing mod action. Perhaps a short break from posting to calm yourself is in order for such a practitioner of your caliber? I will give you sometime to think about your request, but you will need to delete your own posts containing your name first. You have made it well known who you are on these forums and seem to be receptive to folks speaking of your grandeur. You think about it and you let me know how you would like this handled in about 3 days. I had hoped you would be posting with more teaching and sharing in mind. I am quite saddened that you have chosen a different way to interact here. Kind regards, Kar3n TDB Mod Team
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When we spend too much time worrying or focusing on what others are doing, we tend to lose sight of ourselves and our own actions. Stop being a duck, stop giving a quack about what others are doing and maintain more focus on yourself and your impact on those and the environment around you. Become an example...
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What have you learned from this forum that you consider invaluable?
Kar3n replied to middle_path's topic in General Discussion
***MOD TEAM WARNING*** Your verbal attacks on members, the derailing of threads to suit your narrative, and the uncivil environment you create within your own threads will not be tolerated any further. I hoped you would return with a little different attitude, this has not been case. This is and will be your only and final warning before facing mod action. Should you have any questions regarding the rules or terms of service set for TDB, please refer to the pinned topics here. *** -
I am thinking that you have quite a bit to offer bums. I am not a practicing martial artist. It has been many years... If I can assist you with navigating the forums or anything else, please do not hesitate to reach out to me or any Concierge, Steward or Admin. I look forward to your contributions. Thanks again for joining us.
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Welcome, Michael. You are not likely to get as many accolades here, we, as TDB, can be pretty tough, but can be loving crowd too. We are all just living in this skin, stretching our inner self to beyond... Thank you for joining us.
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My mobile carrier sometimes picks up banned IP addresses...
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I've had the time limit pop up for editing posts on both phone an laptop. Refreshing the pages cleared it up. The most confusing error message I've received since the upgrade...
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From one extreme to another in 40 years time. For some, I guess the sky is always falling and something must be done, or we're all going to die... I am guessing since no one starved to death due food shortages related to the predicted ice age we can say that bunk science has been at play for a very long time where climate changed is concerned.
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The best way to alert the mods to a series of posts/pattern of behavior rather than report just one post?
Kar3n replied to Taomeow's topic in Forum and Tech Support
You can always PM one of us, @dawei, @Kar3n, @thelerner, @Zhongyongdaoist. I am going to report your above post so we, the mod team, can discuss it. One of us will get back to you. I really do not want your threads deleted. You have put up some great topics that many of us enjoy. -
What have you learned from this forum that you consider invaluable?
Kar3n replied to middle_path's topic in General Discussion
Acceptance. Acceptance of myself, others and things or ideals that I may not fully agree with or understand. -
Wisdom...
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It is little more than global welfare. Trump said, "America first" months ago. When will people begin to recognize he is doing exactly what he said he would do, putting America and American people first by not imposing new or inflated taxes to cover the costs of the Agreement?