Shad282
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So, I guess i should consume them, i used them just topical. According to the picture (and other), i would say by order (from high to low based on the local occurrence): 1- Kidney 2- liver 3- stomach 4- lungs 5- bladder Kidney seems to be the most, since in it appears in most of the place of where i have eczema. omg all my internal is ruined who knows i might die! hehehe but as you said, i might be able to clean the internal but it might come back, so also i will be not dealing with the root cause of it... could be something related to energy? that activate something genetic that is producing that bacteria? or something like that? That is why i m trying to find the root cause of it and not just healing the symptoms. but step by step, we might actually find it! Thanks
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Yeah, you are right, but my time is squeezed and my research is big, so hard to move slow, it will take about 25 min and that being fast, because there are tables and verbal analyses. The thing is, i get suddenly blank in my mind will presenting sometimes and get out the stream of thoughts. i m trying to put my mind in a state of relax but it is hard to do it since the environment is not there to train on it, if u know what i mean it is more of feeling that everywhere is home and safe in order to feel relaxed.
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I m reporting my tests. The black seed oil: i used it on my skin, where the eczema is itching/red and such... it stopped it from growing and flaking or increasing but didn't effectively heal it. Aloe vera: did stop the itchiness and moisturized dry skin, but it didn't heal it, the skin kept flaking a lot and little red. Coconut oil: the coconut oil healed it and made it stop being red and growing, stopped flaking of the skin at that area, but the area where the eczema was, became very dry and need moisturization, as if skin a little bit peeling or something. P.S.: Even tho i have a very oily skin, but some spaces on it are very dry... so when i use something that make my skin dry.. other parts that are dry starts to peel a little. not sure if better to add something with coconut oil to make it not keep the skin dry after washing it off. Thanks
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how to accept and allow someone you care to, friends or family, to hurt themselves and do stuff that might lead to get them hurt themselves one day, because they are not listening? for me, it makes me angry and agitated, and i try to explain with facts and logic that what the person is doing or going to do will result in hurting themselves and regret later on, but people don't listen and go for what they want to do. and it kinda frustrates me seeing someone i care to going to hurt themselves. I wonder sometimes, how am i going to handle having kids and accepting their choices that might really bad.
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I was wondering if there is a practice other than sleeping that would help in ying? because if i oversleep (or sleep less), i wake up very tired. I m used to sleep 8 hours a day, been years like that. Also, I do practice vipassana or going through the body with focus/intention on each part to feel the sensations there, it is when i feel pains on some places of the body like the area around the heart, but i thought vipassana or such techniques are ying? since they are more passive? is qigong ying or yang? and is there a way to identify whether a practice is ying or yang ? I do have some deep inside big anger that comes out when triggered sometimes, i think it is yang... Thank you very much for your information and help
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you are right, but not sure if able to find time to stay asleep all that time. a lot of things must be done...
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Hello, I was just reading about jing, qi and shen and there are a lot really, but for now i want to practice and try to cultivate the jing after reading its benefits. I was wondering if anyone knows some good videos on youtube or something that you recommend that teach how to cultivate it or maybe a website? or if it is possible to explain here, if you know any? and If you are advanced in such cultivation, can you tell me about your experience and how your journey was, and what impact did it have on your social, love and sexual life.. and other aspects of your life? Also, I do practice vipassana, is there a link between vipassana and cultivation the jing energy? Thank you.
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yes, please.
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Overview I've been thinking lately about how much the porn industry and media impact our life. Just taking a look about the most used websites in different countries, the porn websites holds the top 5 most visited websites. which means that a lot of people use the internet to access porn and sexual contents. The majority of porn users are men and youth according to some statistics. in other words, the porn industry have a very big impact on our daily life and affects the way we feel, we see ourselves, the opposite or same sex and sexualize our social life. Of course, with porn comes masturbation, and it is the addiction of the century, it is the technique used by the mind in order to escape feelings and emotions that arises, ending up with a need to release the dopamine and not deal with these deep issues. Masturbation makes you blind. Most of us, when we were young, we laughed at when we were told that masturbation will get you blind, because we thought that blindness meant to describe the inability to see with our eyes, and it was proved that none of the people who mastubate became blind because of masturbating. but blindness, is not referring to the eyes vision, it is more of consciousness and awareness of our own selves, our own emotions that point us to the deep traumas and issues registered in our subconscious and body. and that masturbation is an escapism due to the dopamine that is pumped in our brain due to orgasm make us avoid dealing with our internal issues. Energy and cultivation According to my observations, i did notice that porn affect a lot emotions in terms of making us objectify other people and enhance separation and decrease the ability to understand the person beyond the physicality. Also, masturbation does render the focus/intent very loose, it can be noticed if someone practices vipassana meditation, (where you scan the body and feel it with your focus) focusing and sensing of the body parts becomes very hard and superficial. Also, in masturbation Jing gets depleted and it is known that it is one of the 3 treasures of Traditional chinese medicine. all of my male friends, watch porn a lot and have developed fetiches and want to get into a relationship to experience all of those positions and fetishes that are extreme and have gained a lot of weird sex beliefs and seems like how the majority of people think and believe. Also, i have noticed that the body by itself doesn't get turned on sexually, a person becomes horny due to thoughts that were activated due to stimulus: porn, media, pictures, imagination or a dream. Also, Porn industry has added a lot of exotic values like "you must lose virginity before a certain age" "you should experience this fetish, that kind of person, size, height...." "jerking off is a must and healthy" "sex is very important" "size matters" .....etc of other values and ideas. What do you think about what is going on in our society and how the people are being programmed into a society that is primarily motivated by sex through the encouragement of mastubation and porn? how is it affecting our love life, spiritual life and our ability to think clearly, focus and make progress in our life.
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i have been trying the technique you described up there and yeah i was able to reach orgasm but not ejaculate and so able to orgasm 10 times and more ... even tho i tried to direct the energy but didn't feel anything serious going on, dunno if my sensitivity is low. but i did notice that it is quiet addictive since you can orgasm many times and quiet develop addiction to dopamine secretion in the mind after doing that., since it relaxes thoughts and help you escape stuff... also i felt my heart really tired and exhausted if i masturbate with or without ejaculating and fogginess in the mind is experienced, so not sure if i m doing something wrong.. now i m stopping masturbation been a week or more... but anger is arising and such not sure it is the right way... since i m forcing myself to stop... so i m trying to find the deep reason why i m seeking that release to heal it rather than dealing with the symptom. Thank you!
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maybe for you... your own experience, could be for other easier than your own experience.
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hahaahha I LOVE !! penguins ! But I stopped masturbating and watching porn in order to cultivate the jing... so it is part of cultivation by discussing my observations and what i read with other people concerning this topic that is related to cultivation of jing I think now the puzzle is clear. Yes we do have a choice to stop, but it really depends on our level of consciousness and awareness. because it is everywhere, from internet to social media to media tv...., sexual stuff are used to get your attention. I m not sure the solution is: - turn off the internet, block all pages, - turn off the TV - don't look at billboards - don't look on ads that are in magazines, newspaper and those in buses or metro stations. - ....etc you can't just close everything and live disconnect from your environments because every space that exist, ads are there. and this happens from since we were born... maybe you were not born in a time where ads and media is everywhere and has a wide range.. but nowadays kids are born in a society full of ads, media, values that socialize them in this way and affect their beliefs and not all kids have parents or have good parents. so yes they are Victims, for being socialized in a world where media uses sexual contents to market products, idea, services...etc. in my post i m trying to understand what are the common reasons to people go weak toward porn and masturbation, and the reasons that causes them to become addicted to it or make sex as a very crucial thing to have. and discussing its effect on energy level, consciousness, awareness....
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I m not sure distracting our attention away from pornography is the way to solve it... rather it is better to dig down and try to find the causes for making us want to watch porn and more deeply the category and type of porn reflect different deep issues. it is not about controlling but more of understanding the internal reasons. Also, you are describing it as it is impossible to go into celibacy as you said "you will fail all the time", i would like to ask why? and it is not easy to know whether the relationship you are having is healthy, because there are many details should be considered in order to know whether it is healthy or not. and also, you should know whether you or your partner's perception of sex is healthy and no obsession and other details too... but seems a lot of people fear celibacy or view it as something hard and rough, could be due to society over encouraging pair-love and finding the other half and that special person and it is the mainstream and it was encouraged in religions, making celibacy as something outsider wrong, lonely, negative or maybe strange. True I'm not going extreme, but it shouldn't be something encouraged and marketed masturbation and porn. I m not sure if it is logically to say to someone, a schedule to watch porn and masturbate. what if this person watches porn that is violent and aggressive, hurtful and objectifying.
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not how it is a good idea to balance in watching something that is not that useful and had a lot of negative side effects. because it is hard to use porn consciously and mindfully and if you did, it will result of not turning you on at all, and kinda useless... at least for me. porn is created to communicate with your subconscious rather than your consciousness.
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Allow/Accept people you care to, to hurt themselves?
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oh thank you, but isn't that quote, too lonely?? ... so while walking i start to fly ?? :O :P
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I agree with you, because if we see the rate of views and likes on porn videos... we notice that videos with aggressive, pain, domination, rough.. that contains violent actions or tricking has the highest rate and most viewed rank. But at the same time, in porn videos, they show you that this pain, aggressiveness, domination, feels very good and it is something great and that the other/same sex really likes to experience it. making you believe that other people like to feel pain even if they deny it. I'm not sure people watch porn because they feel disconnected from their sexual desires. because you see people that keeps watching porn even after being in a relationship, and sometimes prefer porn and masturbation over having sex with a partner. and in many cases, porn addiction or mastubation addiction turns into sexual addiction... in other words, even if the person is comfortable with his own body and sex and having a lot of sex, orgies and making his fantasies come true... once he is not able to have sex, the person revert back to porn and/or masturbation. so, it is the same issues that exist but different escape tools. so it is a matter of an escape from something an issue maybe or so that is not necessarily related to sexuality/body.
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the stats are available all over the internets, many reports i went through and many psychology articles that provide review of porn and its effect on society. i'm not making this up, you want proofs or annual statistics reports, google is your friend. No, this thread is not confessional, it represents an observation and analyses of what is going on. I requested the staff to move the thread into this category because i posted it by mistake in off topic.. It is not related to off topic, because i m relating porn industry on how it is affecting the energy, practices from meditation to other forms. I don't see why people won't take serious, since it is something that most of people have experienced (porn and masturbation).
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So for someone who wants to start somewhere with all of this energy cultivating and manipulation.. and start feeling the energy more and cultivate and heal later on... where i should start ? I do Vipassana.. can feel energy on my hands up to arms... feets up to legs... other sensation everywhere... I did Qi gong by myself.. one finger zen.. and felt the beam of chi using the finger... also I can feel the energy pulses with my hand (like a magnetic field) if i move my awareness to there. Where do you suggest i should continue.. what practices do you suggest? something maybe without visualization.. something with mindfulness and awareness if possible? If you have a link to a video or suggest a book that provides a map of energy practices.. and their levels and their use ..etc knowing there is no place here in my country that teaches anything like that...so i can only to practice by myself.. Thank you ! With metta of love and Compassion <3
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true there are many stuff that could affects us in increasing dopamine.. but porn... interfere more in the social life beyond all religions and addictions.. it affects the way we see a partner or the other/same sex and objectifying and makes us loose energy and motivation in day to day life and could lead to erectile dysfunction, so yeah. I m not saying other addictions are not bad, at the end it is an addiction, but it is the most popular but it is related to some kind of basic need, need for love. OH and it is FREE.
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very rare in where i live, maybe one exist but far away.
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- Increase my body energy in terms of being more active and motivated. - Increase my awareness and consciousness. - Enhance my sensitivity to the chi and energy in order to use it in healing myself and others around me. - The jing energy my help to push out blockages in its way rising up, which allow me to be aware of them and able to focus on healing them. (blockages that result in anxiety or low confidence and such) since i can see the results but not the causes. - Ability to transmute the jing energy and use it, rather than finding other kind of releases (for example, such as addictions to food, substances, porn...etc). => Enjoy life more.
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oh i thought there are qigong moves that would help in cultivating the jing.
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Seems that Trump is going to win ?? even though he is racist, and performed bad on tv and against hillary and most of the media was against him ?? Also, his campaign isn't that good ! ! He kept saying that he won, and will win and such. was it the use of LOA and vibrations ? or what he was doing? or did? and would the LOA works even if it was against other people? or with people who have bad intentions against other race or religion example: trump?
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Russia is trying to do the same USA did with some arab countries and how it ripped the countries with controlling and adding fake arab spring protesters who manipulated the protests to get their control over the resources. the protesters exist, but they are being funded and motivated more and more. Russia loves Trump, just because he is going to ruin USA.