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Hi WuDao, That why they are labelled "fat cats". And humanity suffers. Why? "Fat cats" have each nine lives. This is not a personal attack. Only cats attack rats. - LimA

Hi nohbody, Woke up to have my cookie fix. I am against inhumanity. I am dead against fat cats. They gorge at the expense of humanity. I am sure that it is not an attack. Buddhists that do Metta meditation are non-violent. They only struggle. - LimA

Hi WuDao, Right now I am too depressed to go anywhere. Makes no difference to me - here or everyhere. Curiosity kills the cat. Better - be a living rat. Good night. - LimA

Hi nohbody. As in "awake/asleep". Now I choose "asleep". Good night. - LimA

Hi nohbody, A cooperative system - as in Taoists' ying and yang dynamics? Struggles - as in ying/yang dichotomies? - LimA

Hi nohbody, Poetic. Struggle - perpetually between life and death. Where have all the flowers gone? For the sake of the boy @ 2:33 - struggles against inhumanity must not stop. Never. - LimA

Hi nohbody, In another thread you had indicated this: Will this deter you from struggling? If not, why? - LimA

Hi nohbody, I know you will not stop struggling. Why? You have found yourself - to help others Proud of you brother. - LimA

Hi seby223, Cannabis is banned in Singapore. If caught with it the penalities are extremely high as such: Cannabis is classified as a Class A drug under the Misuse of Drugs Act. (i) Possession or consumption of cannabis: - Up to 10 years of imprisonment or S$20,000 fine or BOTH (ii) Illegal traffic, import or export of: - Cannabis of more than 500 grams > May face the death penalty - Cannabis resin of more than 200 grams > May face the death penalty - Cannabis mixture of more than 1,000 grams > May face the death penalty. WHAT? YOU ARE DESTROYING YOURSELF! Per those words highlghted red, you are justiying and FOOLING yourself. You ARE completely wrong. Now that you recognise "it is not the way", WHAT are you going to do? STOP IT! You have come across as a very intelligent person. PLEASE use you intelligence to help/save yourself. And you are completely wrong. You are full of WRONG expectations. You SHOULD! Real love? If so, be a real man - protect her. Again you SHOULD! Learn a new a new from you - Basque. Thank you. Not "try". You "must". Nothing to be sad about. Create new memories. You surely can - what with your "training wheels". Then change EGO to ECO. Google "Presencing". Make sure you meditate properly - unaided by cannabis. How old are you seby223? Stop the follies of youth - RIGHT NOW! - LimA

HI seby223, I will reply to your above posts another time. It is 12 noon at my end. Going for Sunday lunch with family. dawei has paved a path for you. The ball is in your court now. Sex as nature intended is beautiful. Love yourself as part of nature. Be kind to yourself. Don't be one kind - the wrong kind. A beautiful weekend. - LimA

Hi seby223, Please do not be offended - I feel you are full of expectations. Yes you are kinda shooting in the dark as you are eperimenting your expectations in the dark. I am very glad that dawei is responding. Take this opportunity to engage him. Try and understand him with a free mind. Cast your expectations to the wind. Personally I am touched by this from dawei: Be altruistic, unselfish, humane, selfless, noble, self-sacrificing … (as advised by Thesuarus) and dawei thus: This is definitely out for a good sexual partnership to develop: Cannabis? A BIG no no. You are insulting and hurting your partner/mind Good for you. You already knew cannabis is not the way. As from me (still very much a new kid on the semen retention), can I suggest these? (i) Go back to basics by recalling/reliving the moments of your first orgasm/ejaculation and your first nocturnal emission. (ii) These are blessed moments from ... (iii) Such moments are not expected or pre-conditioned. (iv) Work on your mind - it is the all encompassing sex organ. (v) Incorporate wei wu into sex. I am serious. I think it is humbling to read this from dawei: Mind over body. - LimA

Hi nohbody, When we stop struggling, maybe we are just strangers on the shore: Stop sticking out your tongue - it is not polite. It is approaching 3 am at my end - time to Zzzzzzzz Good night. - LimA

Hi nohbody, We never stop struggling. Why? Eternal struggle = eternal life. Walk on brother ... - LimA

Hi nohbody, The internal struggle = the eternal struggle? “Ah, love, let us be true To one another! for the world, which seems To lie before us like a land of dreams, So various, so beautiful, so new, Hath really neither joy, nor love, nor light, Nor certitude, nor peace, nor help for pain; And we are here as on a darkling plain Swept with confused alarms of struggle and flight, Where ignorant armies clash by night.” ― Matthew Arnold, Dover Beach and Other Poems - LimA

Hi nohbody, Our paths first crossed on 12 August 2017 - eight days ago. During this time span, we communicated without much difficulty. I have developed a brotherly feel for you trying to understand your struggles. This thread is started by Sublimation who is now out of the woods with his own struggles. I too have developed such a feel for him. Is brotherhood developed in triumphs overcoming struggles? - LimA

Hi Everybody, I believe it was Thumper the rabbit who said, "If you can't say something nice, then don't say nothing at all." However, while that may be acceptable grammar in rabbit communities, it isn't among humans. Don't say nothing is a double negative, so one of them has to go: "Say nothing at all": or "Don't say anything" Pity, because 'don't say nothing at all' has a certain panache to it. (Yahoo answers - old lady · 4 years ago) At Thesaurus: panache = flamboyance, flair, confidence, elegance, spirit ... - LimA

Hi nohbody, Don't say Hi! too often - you may get arrested: - LimA

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Hi nohbody. From Wikipedia, Brahmavihara pertains to these: "The brahmavihāras (sublime attitudes, lit. "abodes of brahma") are a series of four Buddhist virtues and the meditation practices made to cultivate them. They are also known as the four immeasurables: - (i) loving-kindness or benevolence (II) compassion (iii) empathetic joy and (iv) equanimity". Thank you for the Brahmavihara introduction and the equanimity emphasis from VanderLutz. Back at ya. - LimA

Hi dawei, Poetic. Melt into the moment? Yes/no? Now I am in a daze with nothing to gaze. Amazing. As in learning the alphabets and aim to be a good poet/writer? The alphabets are the elements of words. Somwhere special ... some event? Question not asked with tongue in cheek. Asked in anticipation. You are telling me. Hated it at first. Now it is second nature. Nothing is that easy. Tip of the iceberg? More to come? A great weekend - LimA

Hi dawei, I was waiting for a senior like you to come on-line. Thank you. Not a bad motivation if the motives are good. - LimA

But of course Dada. - LimA

Good morning nohbody, What say you? It's the weekend. I park my mind at a safe place, I know nothing - a 100% nobody. OM - LimA

HI nohbody, It's your job (and everybody's) to welcome Damien Baaht. Not mine. Excuse me Damien. It's the weekend. - LimA

Hi Everybody, Somebody and Anybody, That's not my job. - Nobody That’s Not My Job This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody’s job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn’t do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have. - David McMurtry So it remains my job to tell you - That's not my job - period. Because it is the weekend. - LimA