2ndchance

There are many different kinds of love. Family love, Friendship love, Lovers love. Have you ever seen a beautiful busty woman but you are just not in love with her. You just want to have sex with her and release your sperm into her vagina but you do not truly love her. Maybe she is of a different race from you. Maybe she is a prostitute or strip-tease hostess. Maybe she is an AV actress. Maybe she likes to drink and smoke and party and sleep around with different men participating in group orgies. You don't love her but you just want to have sex with her. What is true love then? There is a story about a buddha having to choose between a female Arch-Angel and a female asura to be his spiritual mate of cultivation. The Universe ask the buddha what kind of love does he feel for the two. He said that he has two sides. The Good Buddha wants a most evolved, spiritually pure, romantic sexual love with the female Arch-Angel. The Bad Maya wants to have a most devolved, spiritually impure, lustful sex devoid of any true love with the female asura. One path leads to Heaven. One path leads to Hell. How do you fight for the highest path of purity?

An old man passed by. He asked the buddha, "what kind of love would you have for the female asura?" The buddha replied, "I am torn between non-sexual kindness and non-loving lust for the female asura." non-sexual kindness - kindness to a beautiful busty but unevolved female without wanting to have sex with her non-loving lust - wanting to have sex with a beautiful busty but unevolved female without loving her The Old Man said, "The female asura needs love and sex too, Buddha" But the Buddha said, " The female asura would pull me down into hell, Old Man. Because my soul and my heart cannot identify with asuras. I can be kind to her but I cannot romantically love her." Thus arises the different kinds of love. Romantic sexual love vs loving-kindness devoid of lust.

Two topics here. I have discovered that it is impossible to achieve Samadhi concentrated awareness without the most positive emotions of loving-kindness, joy, happiness, humor, fun, romance, inspiration, patience, courage, etc. in my heart. What do you guys do to cultivate positive emotions besides meditating? Let's share! One thing I can think of is to write a gratitude journal everyday. Also, being grateful CONSCIOUSLY to the Dao and the Universe every second seems to work.

I only listened to romantic love ballads which are slow in nature. One music video which I recommend is the MV above. When I meditate on this song, I seem to be able to tap into the energies of the office romance between the two co-workers into my heart and my heart chakras. Also I sing mantras to the tune of the song. That seem to drive off a whole lot of negative energies and entities away.

Hey all, when I try to meditate concentrating on my dantiens or on my breadths, i keep being attacked by negative entities through the back of my heart. Then my instincts told me to sing mantras to the tune of K-Pop/J-Pop/C-Pop. It works wonders! I cried and the negative entities keep swearing through channeling my voice but there is a very pleasurable feeling of love in my heart which also expands my awareness. I am going to try to sing with awareness 24/7/365 from now on.

Hi all, To relieve my heart pressure stress problems causing me to lose sleep at night, my inner voice told me to breath and use my heart to meditate on "feeling" love for beautiful women. I once attended KAP online sessions and they used similar techniques called Inner Smile. 1) May I know what other positive emotions are similar to "love"? Here are some examples I came up with Happiness Laughter Compassion 2) I like to know how do you dao bums use your heart to "feel"? I tried my best and I have some feelings of pleasurable energies in my heart but they are not sustained.

Hey all, thank you all for the advice on my previous threads. Last night, I made prayers to the Universe while lying awake in bed at night to relieve my insomnia problems and I managed to snatch a few periods of sleep with lucid dreaming. I read somewhere that the deeper you sleep, the more lucid dreaming you have, the greater the sleep regeneration energies from the celestial dimensions will flow into your soul and body to regenerate your mind, body and soul. Also, I have read in this forum and elsewhere that some practitioners have engaged in all-nighter deep meditation in lieu of sleep. So they meditate all night long, some people do it by staring at a candle flame, some people do closed-eye meditations, then they come out of the meditation feeling refreshed and don't feel sleepy or tired at all in the mornings. Can any of you introduce me to some threads where practitioners meditate at night instead of sleeping? Thanks.

Hello, I like to ask about how to develop mindfulness awareness of my energy body? Because my heart and my back are giving me energetic problems. There are pressure stresses on my heart and my back which cause me to lose sleep at night. Please advise me.