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I took a break from doing qi gong and chai's stuff. My lungs are starting to feel a lot better now. I think I had a lung infection or something. I not sure if it was qi gong or chia's stuff that caused it. Next month, I was planning on trying to do the cold draw, which is a meditation technique that lets me work with the non-aroused sexual energy. I read online that a person could not release their seeds for 30 days if they want to be successful in that exercise. I have not been releasing my seeds at this time. I think that would be a good start. When I was doing chai's stuff last time, I kept feeling warm energy in my perineum. Also, when I was talking about spiritual development, I meant that releasing your seeds too much can drain you of your sexual energy. That's why I didn't really want to release my seeds.

Oh, ok. Doing that can affect my well-being and health. Also, I know somebody talked about how sexual energy is sensitive to the openness of your heart. Is there a website where I can read about that information?

How is it possible to have unlimited orgasm with prostate stimulation? I know that if you press down on perineum at the moment before orgasm, you can stop it from coming out. I tried it before, but I never got the timing right.

My goal is to become spiritual, but I also don't like to release my seeds as well. It feels draining every time I do it, and I would prefer not to do it. My body and energy feel a lot better when I'm not releasing my seeds. When I get ready to have a kid, then I will be willing to release my seeds to give birth to a child.

Greetings, liberale.ironikerin. My motivation is to not lose any jing when I'm having sex. I wanted to really never drop my seeds again because I feel like I'm losing energy when I do this. By spiritual, I mean being able to build up the energy inside of my body. I feel like jing is important energy that I should not lose.

Oh, so those practices were not designed for people to not drop their seeds forever? Why do those teachers warn people to not be celibate? Is it possible for people to transmute their sexual energy and live a celibate lifestyle? Is it a fantasy to not drop my seeds and be sexually active? I always thought that was possible.

Okay, so it depends on the psychology of the person when they are having sex. I should focus on love when I'm having sex or alone. You also said that seeing ejaculation as a bad thing can affect the energies of it. I don't see sex as a bad thing, but I do feel that releasing my seeds isn't going to benefit me. But I still wanted to have multiple orgasms and never drop my seeds again or for a long time. I guess I could not think about it negatively. Is it still possible to do it without having any negative effect?

Okay, I will take a look at some of the old posts as well. Thanks again for answering my questions.

Wow, this is some really good information. I know you said I should open my heart first. Do you mean that I should do deep meditation in order to achieve that goal? Is letting go of my ego a requirement in order for me to do tantra? I also was thinking about trying to achieve 1st jhana with meditation. Also, the information you posted about jing is really interesting. I was wondering if there were more books that taught about jing and how to transmute it. I look at that guy fundraiser, and it looks like he is still working on the book.

I want to have better sex. But I would also like to learn how to transmute the sexual energy as well.

I agree with what you are saying. I know a few females that have really wild and strange sexual fantasies. I never knew why that was the case. I think it may be because they are feeding their psyche with lust and desire to the point that they have a craving for perversity. Do you think that is the case with most people that indulge in sex for only pleasure? I wanted to do these practices because I want to have sex and still be spiritual. I don't want to release my seeds when I have intercourse because I want to live a healthy lifestyle. It also drains a lot of energy when I release my seeds as well.

Okay, I will aim for orgasm without ejaculation.

Okay, I have also been doing Qi Gong as well. I have noticed that when I do it, my perineum will start to got hot, and it feels like the energy is going up to my head. My forehead starts to become hot as I am doing the practice. I was wondering if that was a good thing because my lungs feel a little sore throughout the day. I wasn't doing reverse abdominal breathing, but I still feel a little discomfort. I read in a book that if you do reverse abdominal breathing without sucking the stomach in, then the chi energy will go up into the head and lungs. I have been doing pranayama and deep breathing exercises for about 3 months I have been doing pranayama exercises where I could barely breathe. Perhaps that was the issue.

so I should transmute it before It becomes sexual energy. I was thinking about being sexually active, so I think that chia's stuff would be the best. You said that the price tag was higher than what you got out of it. Can you explain that to me, please?

Oh, ok. Do you think doing cold draw would be a good way to transmute sexual energy? Also, if I wanted to be sexually active and not release my seeds, would doing tantra be a good idea?