Interesting, so you suggest radical acceptance, cultivated emotions and non-reactivity for after the subject-object paradigm shift?
Thus just as before, then you'll need a hell-of-a-guardian-angel to survive (or not-survive as a self subject, depending on your view).
'Be to yourself like you are to others?' Love others like yourself?
Now where do you draw the line, give and do work and distribute responsibilities emotions/feelings and blame/areas of personal responsibility, between healthily enough but flawed adults? someone being used to more responsibility will go down the same path all along, no?
You rely on the light having affinity with the shadow and the shadow protecting the light?
Lot's of trust in the universe not being lazy and relying on coincidences, eh?