soaring crane

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  1. Generative force, relationship, and vasectomy

    Well, did that school of thought simply say that, or could they support their claim with reasoning and well-researched evidence (and dd they have a better understanding of the procedure than has been displayed in this thread so far)? I suspect it's just a baseless, conformist view. I'd say one of the absolute worst things one can do on a spiritual path is be affected by other people's biases and baseless fears.
  2. Generative force, relationship, and vasectomy

    whoopsie, I only saw your second post
  3. Knock knees and qigong

    That's a must for sure. And at the very least, provide more details to what is being praticed now, and the source of the information.
  4. Generative force, relationship, and vasectomy

    everything leaves the body. The sperm cells, which continue to be produced at the pre-op rate, are simply absorbed. They leave the body through different channels than nature intended, but they go nonetheless.
  5. How to spot a good therapist

    funny, when I read something like that, I feel more turned off than attracted to this person.
  6. How to spot a good therapist

    for the record, my comment re feeling good about your therapist was motivated by these two posts. While I agree with the spirit of Luke's statement, I wouldn't make it the priority. The worst scenario is finding a therapist that confirms your convictions and prejudices for you, and that generally happens with the ones who you feel the strongest attraction to.
  7. How to spot a good therapist

    Sorry, I meant "Applied Kinesiology", it's an alternative medicine offshoot of Kinesology. If you look into it, you'll find a lot of criticism, and lot of that is justified, but a good therapist can solve deep, deep psychological issues. How it works is pretty simple, but the therapist hast to be legitimate, objective and sensitive. Basically, you'll be asked questions and the therapist will be able to know the source of the answers you give based on changes in your muscle tension. S/he'll allow the direction of the questioning to change dynamically, depending on your reactions. Sessions typically become a journey back through time, back to your birth, and before. A session can last hours, but you generally only need to do it once. It's a lot more complex than my short description, but that's basically it in a nutshell. The only way to know beforehand if the therapist is good or not, I guess, is to hear from other clients. Gotta go, can get to the other stuff later
  8. OK people I am coming clean...

    Everything. I really hope the effect of that exercise is healthy and not something like bipolar disorder.
  9. It is really cold here in the Midwest

    My mom wrote that it was zero in NY, so you're not alone! It in the 40s here in Germany, with warmer weather on the way Ă°
  10. How to spot a good therapist

    Two methods that I can recommend are kinesiology and family constellation. See if they're available in your area.I can write more about them if you like. Fwiw, I don't agree that a good therapist has to be someone you "feel" good about.
  11. Hello everyone

    Hello closrapexa, and welcome to the forums! Glad you found your way to us :-) Please take the time to read the two posts pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum terms and rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, SC and the TTB team
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  13. Moderation in Moderation

    yessss ... if you dig back far enough in the archives, you'll find discussions that would result in mass bans today. But the site was much smaller then, and there was a lot of "competition" out there, most of which was strictly moderated as I recall.
  14. How do we know what's yin and what's yang . Really.

    you might enjoy this, TM: I think most people here will enjoy it.
  15. Seeking Direction

    Hi BearlyTao I want to point out that there are forums for all of these subjects. I suggest familiarizing yourself with the website first and then posting in appropriate forums. This forum is chiefly for introductions.
  16. Moderation in Moderation

    that is bizarre. Well, their loss, our gain :-)
  17. Seeking Direction

    Hello BearlyTao, and welcome to the forums! Glad you found your way to us. The questions you pose have no short, definitive answers. There are many, many schools of thought on these subjects. I suggest taking it slow, aproaching one topic at a time, but I'm sure you'll get many interesting opinions and insights once you begin actively participating in the forums :-) Please take the time to read the two posts pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum terms and rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, SC and the TTB team
  18. How do we know what's yin and what's yang . Really.

    how deeply should we read into that?
  19. V Marco banished

    I'm curious why you would suddenly start a thread just to announce this?
  20. Hello

    Hello Patrick, and welcome to the forums! Glad you found your way to us :-) Please take the time to read the two posts pinned at the top of this Welcome page and take a look at the forum terms and rules. This covers all you need to know when getting started. For the first week you will be restricted to ten posts per day but after that you can post as much as you like. Also, until you’ve posted fifteen times in the forums, you’ll be a “Junior Bum” with somewhat restricted access and will be allowed only two private messages per day. Good luck in your pursuits and best wishes to you, SC and the TTB team
  21. Modern day politics "Oh dear"

    Perhaps that explains Russell Brand?
  22. Restless night :-/
  23. Acupuncture Study

    OK, CD, thanks :-)
  24. The Power Of The Placebo

    Love it, thanks :-)