Apech

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  1. Stranger things

    meiosis or mitosis?
  2. Transgender Q&A

    I think you need to think this through a bit more. In any case I'm not going to post anymore in this thread so just ignore me if you want. Best wishes to you and all.
  3. Transgender Q&A

    Just holding opinions or views doesn't make you a troll. To be a troll you have to present those arguments with a deliberate intent to cause a certain reaction or to mess with the person they are addressing. So if he actually thinks the ideas he expressed he is not a troll, he might be wrong and confused - in which case a q&a like this would be the very place to put him right.
  4. Transgender Q&A

    At last the truth.
  5. Transgender Q&A

    I'm disappointed too. Shame as I said before. Maybe you are a troll - I don't know - because I avoid psychoanalysing posters on here that I don't know very well. But even if you are you can ask questions and be answered. Why not?
  6. Transgender Q&A

    Whose? Yours?
  7. The fragility of our lives

    They love a bit of suffering!
  8. Transgender Q&A

    I’m more drole than troll 🧌
  9. Transgender Q&A

    This is a q&a thread so I think that goes with the territory.
  10. Transgender Q&A

    This is a shame.
  11. Transgender Q&A

    No because some people are delusional and/ or dishonest - so why would you see them as they see themselves? I think being kind is moral - which involves respecting others - but beyond that you have to be true to yourself.
  12. Transgender Q&A

    I’d never thought of it that way round
  13. Transgender Q&A

    Anyway I’ve lost my budh it has been announced.
  14. Transgender Q&A

    Do you remember which sutra that is from?
  15. Transgender Q&A

    I can’t understand it explainerly.
  16. Transgender Q&A

    I am being thick - I really can’t follow what you are saying.
  17. Transgender Q&A

    @Maddie Given this is a forum dedicated to energy arts (for want of a better term) isn't it a reasonable question to ask what happens energetically when you transition - and in particular how changes in the physical body produce a change in the subtle body? Also from the point of view of rebirth/reincarnation - doesn't this contextualise the instance of being born in the wrong body in one particular incarnation. Do you have any thoughts on this?
  18. Transgender Q&A

    Perhaps we should all swing both ways
  19. Transgender Q&A

    Yes the name Judith Butler came to my mind too - I once tried to read some of 'Gender Trouble' or maybe it was an essay about it - but I got nowhere - the language was far too dense for me. If gender is performative - thus something you act out - then it would be quite fair to suggest that what is normative behaviour for a gender is socially determined. History is full of people who refused to conform - George Sand comes to mind but I am sure there are lots of examples. But even here there is a difference between some one who says for instance ' I am a woman but I refuse to act in the way that others (society) demands' and being trans- Or at least i suppose there is a difference. I worked in fairly 'normal' environments through the 70's, 80's, 90's etc and can remember the general discomfort among some when women gradually began to take on new work roles. In the long run people accepted it but initially a woman being anything other than a typist was quite rare - and professions were quite male orientated. (not that this is particularly relevant except from the vantage of the old man's bench ).
  20. Transgender Q&A

    which bit of wanting a penis, a beard , a low voice and no boobs led you to this conclusion?
  21. Chundi mantra

    heck! when I do sitting and forgetting I have ‘memories’ which are not my own. Quite vivid and elaborate scenes and people which I realize I have never known or seen before. It’s quite weird.
  22. Chundi mantra

    what are the side effects?
  23. Transgender Q&A

    man up nungali
  24. Transgender Q&A

    Reminds me of a book you recommended years ago ‘The Shaman and the Heresiarch’