This problems you describe are probably a result of POIS -- Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome. Scientific journal papers have been written about this condition. Please see: http://www.thenakedscientists.com/forum/in...hp?topic=6576.0
for more information.
You may also want to fill out this medical questionnaire:
http://pois.olympe-network.com
Best luck.
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