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  1. What about something to do with national parks, forestry, and so forth? Something up in the mountains, perhaps - maybe even a ski resort or hiking guide. I have a friend whose son moved to Alaska, got his pilot's license, and works as a guide. Lot's of possibilities out there. Until then, don't be discouraged - just practice. I have a demanding and stressful job, family obligations, live in a populated area... Not easy to find time for formal practice so I do what I can and try to make everything I do an opportunity for practice. Over time, it is surprising how much one can bring meditative practice into one's busy, daily life. Good luck!
  2. Calling Out All Taoists

    Exactly - it all boils down to that. The only response I'll give to that - it is nothing that anyone can tell you, show you, explain, or capture in words. It transcends the conceptual mind. You must see it for yourself. Lot's of methods to try and help, none are guaranteed and some have no need of method. Good luck with your practice!
  3. Calling Out All Taoists

    I don't really consider my self an -ist of any sort so ignore my response if you're only interested in folks who consider themselves Daoist. I do practice Daoist meditation methods, qigong, and internal martial arts. For me it started with the martial arts and qigong. Then my teacher offered to teach me meditation methods and it changed my life for the better. So now, the martial arts have become secondary to the spiritual practices. I am doing it to improve the quality of life for myself, my family, and those around me. I'm doing it because once exposed to even a small glimpse of truth, nothing else is quite as appealing. The lies and ignorance that we are immersed in become more and more obvious and one prefers to be closer to truth. "they wanted to understand nature...master it...and then overcome it..to no longer be bound to "cycles" and natural/universal laws but instead be outside of these "cycles" and above these laws...to be immortal! To defy aging and death(biologically and consciousness-wise) is to defy nature itself." I disagree with this assertion. This is a common misconception. The Daoist is looking to come closer to and assimilate with nature and her cycles and laws. Anyone looking to master nature, overcome nature laws and so forth, is not Daoist, IMO. Proper practice and application can give the appearance to the uninitiated of super powers but that is a natural side effect of the methods and no one masters, overcomes, or is outside of our true nature.
  4. Extrapolation

    I'll add another question - How do we determine whose authority to accept to validate our interpretation? Sometimes, authorities are readily available and largely credible, sometimes not. Buddhism vs Daoism illustrates this point. However, even when there is an authority present, accepting that authority equates to simple belief. Belief = a fervent hope that an explanation is valid, in the absence of direct knowledge. This is not what we are after, in general. Belief is cheap and often misleading. It's easy to change our beliefs but not our nature. What we are after is truth. So I think it is important to go after direct experience whenever possible and to attempt to validate that based on whether or not it is moving us towards, rather than away from, living our lives consistent with our core values and in harmony with our surroundings. And I think it's perfectly OK to simply not know. Rather than adopt a belief, what about becoming comfortable with the absence of knowledge, without replacing it with a belief? John O'Donnell speaks beautifully about the opporutnities provide by the abscence of knowing - the questioning that exists there concerning paradox. There is an openness and poteniality that doesn't exist when we replace questions with beliefs.
  5. I think that most people misunderstand the concept of reincarnation. When looked at from the relative perspective there are all sorts of judgements, expectations, desires, and aversions. When viewed from the perspective of spaciousness and clarity, there are no such distinctions.
  6. Haiku Chain

    [sorry Mark] No more narrow views The wide angle lens of mind Captures all... at once.
  7. My No Pain Meditation Seat

    TI - thank you for sharing this
  8. Haiku Chain

    tomorrow again and, as if yesterday was - distractions from now
  9. Further discussion

    I find it interesting and perhaps important to remind myself that it is the "controlling faculty" that "comes to cease without remainder" and not necessarily the experience of "discomfort", "unhappiness", "ease", and "happiness". It's wonderful to see where this thread has been and is going. I don't have time to catch up but will try to do so later. Thanks for all of the great contributions all.
  10. Further discussion

    Same with life and arising, no?
  11. Further discussion

    I think this is a great and challenging line of inquiry. Most of the characteristics we are describing and perhaps attributing to Dao, are simply projections. Caring is a human characteristic (and perhaps some other sentient beings, let's leave that alone for the time being). Preference is a human characteristic. It is Tao that gives them life: It is Virtue that nurses them, grows them, fosters them, shelters them, comforts them, nourishes them, and covers them under her wings. Notice that Tao gives life but does not participate in all of these other activities, these are related to Virtue. Virtue is yet another characteristic of humanity. In this way, the Dao De Jing is inviting us to manifest virtue in our lives as this is what will shelter, nurse, nourish, comfort, and so forth. Very Buddhist sounding sentiment to my ears (and Abrahamic...). The rain is the same no matter where it falls, and yet it nourishes thorns in the desert and roses in the garden. Dao kills, maims, and destroys as easily and without emotion, as it gives life. The hurricane and cancer do not spare the virtuous any more than the evil... So we, as humans, are the very manifestation of caring and love and the bad stuff too... So Dao certainly does embrace those aspects of beauty and caring and yet there is equal balance with the bad. And all of that is expressed through us and experienced through us.
  12. Connecting with the 7 energy bodies

    Disclaimer - below is simply my opinion FWIW. I think it's important, although potentially confusing, to recognize that each of these "bodies" is a creation of our mind. All of these various bodies are labels the mind creates to distinguish different characteristics that we can perceive through our various senses and modes of perception. You are what you are, and the best way to investigate exactly what that is requires patience, diligence, and awareness, Awareness, AWARENESS. Don't let the thought that refers to itself as the thinker get you too distracted with theory. If you have arrived at the point where you can sit in deep meditation and feel open and spacious, that is valuable. Labeling it is not. Keep practicing. From time to time it's fine to read theory and as you have deeper experience the meaning buried under the words will progressively reveal itself. But be careful not to let the intellect disturb the practice.
  13. Further discussion

    I think that's pretty special...
  14. Further discussion

    No saving involved. In fact, I think the practice does alot more for me than for the objects of my affection. On a related note, I recently listened to Allan Wallace talk about what we mean by "all sentient beings." It can be difficult to genuinely visualize "all sentient beings" and can feel a bit contrived. He suggests that we begin with visualizing everyone we personally have come into contact with in a finite period of time. That can then be gradually extended in space and time to encompass as many beings (and it's not limited to peopled) that we care to include. I thought it was a nice little helpful hint.
  15. Further discussion

    Any self respecting Jew, Christian, or Muslim would probably categorize me as a heathen if we had a few minutes to discuss theology together. I practice tonglen periodically (not everyday day) and think it's a beautiful practice.
  16. Chapter 1, Section 1 Concepts

    Thanks Rene - I just looked at the wiki article and highly recommend that anyone interested in the Zhuangzi read it. I didn't realize this but the Peng/Kun myth actually started with the Zhuangzi - I thought it predated him. The wiki article is very informative and gets into some interesting interpretations of the story. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peng_(mythology)
  17. Chapter 1, Section 1 Concepts

    Unlikely - peng is a mythological creature that is a very large bird, similar to a roc in Western mythology. It's frequently encountered in Chinese mythology and often in the names of Chinese martial arts postures and movements. I'm no scholar, but I think Zhuangzi would have said dragon if he meant dragon as it has very specific connotations.
  18. Further discussion

    I feel equally sorry for them and will include them in my tonglen practice. Thank you
  19. Further discussion

    I assume you have no wish to take the challenge. I'm saddened but not surprised. Again - best wishes to you my friend. I sincerely hope you find what you need to ease your suffering.
  20. Further discussion

    Actually, I think you need quite a bit more lecturing, but it would be much better coming from someone whose opinion you respect, so I'll do my best to stop after this post. I challenge you to do the following either as a thought experiment or in reality: 1. Think of someone, anyone, that you respect as a moral and ethical authority or guide - preferably someone living 2. Gather together every post you've submitted to the TaoBums (or any other forum) over the past year 3. Ask that your guru or guide read these posts and offer you their perspective 4. Open yourself to learning from the experience I wish you peace and ease from your suffering. Namaste
  21. Further discussion

    Alwayson, You are behaving like the Christian who trolls the Bible for quotations that will reinforce his/her personal bias, such as homophobia or the support of slavery. And I acknowledge that we all do this to some degree but your message seems so consistently negative, elitist, exclusionary, demeaning, hurtful - not at all what I would expect from someone trying to live the Dharma. I think you would find quite a bit of camaraderie at the Westboro Baptist Church. What would it be like to open yourself to the full message of the Dharma rather than simply use it as a weapon to cut down the blessings of other traditions and a security blanket to insulate you from reality? Please continue to demonize me if you wish but then I'll repeat my question, why are you here?
  22. Further discussion

    Then why are you here?
  23. we are worthy

    Beautiful and truthful message, roger. Welcome
  24. the need to know...

    This reminds me of the distinction Krishnamurti makes between knowledge and insight (or between knowledge and gnowledge)
  25. Haiku Chain

    "Leave no sheep's behind." Said the soft and nameless voice Steel bars encage me...