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Slug by Nagasawa Rosetsu (éˇć˛˘čŚéŞ, Japanese painter of the Maruyama School, 1754â1799) , 18th-century (Edo period)
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Is there a space for queer people in a traditional or semi-traditional setting?
doc benway replied to dachungzi's topic in General Discussion
PS - re UGâs discussion of his calamity, what he says is true regarding no enlightenment, no one to be enlightened, no one can help you, etc... The catch is that it is ONLY true if you have that direct, personal experience of non-duality. In dzogchen terms we say it is true from the side of the absolute - the enlightened mind, the Nature of Mind. It is NOT true or helpful from the side of the individual who has not yet had an awakening experience. What I mean is that it is not true for the individual because they have no frame of reference for what it really means. Without that frame of reference, it is predictably misunderstood and misleading, even harmful. So if words like UGâs are supportive of further spiritual growth, they are wonderful. If they reinforce anger, frustration, negativity, or abandoning the possibility of personal growth, they are worse than worthless. As always, just my $.02. -
Is there a space for queer people in a traditional or semi-traditional setting?
doc benway replied to dachungzi's topic in General Discussion
I would never ask you to share personal stuff but if you think it would help you, or others, to share Iâm certainly willing to listen without judgment. Some people tend to share more of themselves here and seem to benefit from that. Others tend to be a bit more guarded and private. Like with anything else, itâs about what works for us personally. I appreciate having this conversation, itâs important. -
Is there a space for queer people in a traditional or semi-traditional setting?
doc benway replied to dachungzi's topic in General Discussion
You been here a while, aintcha?! This last part is beautiful. You heard right. -
Is there a space for queer people in a traditional or semi-traditional setting?
doc benway replied to dachungzi's topic in General Discussion
I think it is good and important to be true to how you feel. Your apparent frustration and anger are valid and appropriate, in my opinion. Hearing your thoughts and feelings on the topic really made me think just how many people been marginalized and abused by the patriarchal institutions that have grown up around spiritual and religious traditions. There is one important error in what you attribute to UG here, IMO. Each of us needs to be true to ourselves, not try to project our ideas, experiences, and values on others. For anyone, UG included, to say that "all religion and religious practice are empty forms that take you further away from truth and liberation rather than closer to it" is simply evidence of their own arrogance and lack of understanding. In spiritual practice we can only know what works or does not work for ourselves and even that is not a stagnant thing, it can change over time. To project our own lack of connection to spiritual traditions onto others does both a disservice. Many people have benefited greatly from spiritual practice, teachers, and traditions. Many, of course, have not. Rather than "believe" the words of others, even those who disparage spiritual traditions, I've taken the approach of experimenting with them myself. It is not so much the traditions, the rituals, or even the teachers that are most important. What counts is the effects of the practice on our own lives. Belief for me is mainly illusion, direct personal experience and results is far more valuable. I have many friends who are actively engaged and have benefited deeply from spiritual practices that have plenty of cause to despise them, whether they be female, trans, gay, bi,... whatever. Yes there has been far too much harm done by religions and their followers. Nevertheless, there has also been a lot of benefit for a lot of people. I wish you the best on your path and appreciate you starting this discussion and sharing your feelings. -
I appreciate your reply and I continue to disagree with the basis of your argument. Shunyata is not based on infinite regression, dependent origination, or cause and effect. That is a wrong view, a mental exercise. Perhaps oneâs concept of shunyata is based on such things. Shunyata itself is not based on anything, that is the point of emptiness. Another wrong view is that the base is âjust shunyata.â Emptiness is simply one characteristic of the base. The others are its clarity and limitless and energetic potential. Malcolm is knowledgeable and articulate and, I suspect, a good teacher but it is very easy for our intellect to misunderstand and lead us astray. But what can we trust if not that very intellect? Thatâs something we need to find out for ourselves. On the sutric path, intellect is the primary tool. On the tantric and dzogchen paths it is not so useful. Shunyata points to the âbaselessâ quality of the base. It is primordial, meaning uncreated. It is unimputable and clear. It cannot be grasped and therefore can serve as the basis of all manifestation but, again, these are simply words and ideas. Whether or not you can accept it through logic, it can be directly experienced through practice. At the end of the day what is important is that you find something that supports your understanding and growth. What supports me may be very different and these things can change over time. I trust that if you remain true to yourself, youâll find what you need.
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Very few have mastered all things Daoist. Writing books and mastery are often two different things. My taiji master used to be very critical of people who wrote a lot of books or made a lot of films. He would say, how can they possibly have enough time to train?! đ I know little about Mitchell. I know nothing about his Yijing studies and understanding. His push hands is pretty good, or at least was some years ago. Divine, as a verb comes from the old French word âdevinerâ which means to predict. It can also mean to uncover as in dowsing for water using a divining rod. In Yijing context I take it to mean something along the lines of discover, predict, or to see more clearly and would hold a feeling of âplease help me to discover...â Take that with a grain of salt as I know very little about Yijing. Good luck
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I suspect Taomeow has more understanding and experience with Yijing than most, if not all, members here. Not sure what Mitchellâs Yijing credentials are, so no comment there. You could always try to communicate with him and see if he would help you personally. If Taomeow made a suggestion to me on how to specifically phrase questions to the Yijing, I would do precisely that and then reach out to her directly with the result and see if she were willing to discuss further. Just my $.02
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@sagebrush Posting media is not my strong suit but I'll try to help. There are limitations both to individual file size and to aggregate file size for your account. I checked your account and you are nowhere near the limit. You may need to resize your image or make sure you are using a file type that is supported. You can upload files or link to files hosted elsewhere. Here is a link to a recent discussion on the topic with some useful info.
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Is karma( or cause and effect ) the ultimate teacher / punisher ?
doc benway replied to kyoji's topic in The Rabbit Hole
I wouldnât say itâs weird. Personal will doesnât necessarily negate complete determinism. I guess one could say the skill is important to practitioners. -
Is karma( or cause and effect ) the ultimate teacher / punisher ?
doc benway replied to kyoji's topic in The Rabbit Hole
Karma can be both a teacher and punisher, a bit like gravity... Itâs all in how we look at it. -
@sagebrush Check to make sure the âTentâ is not collapsed, Look for a gray arrow opposite âTentâ at the far right of the screen. Tag me if you need help.
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Oregon taking the Portuguese approach. đđ˝
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I love how Luke puts it - opportunity for spiritual friendship. Seems like it's a choice between a small, relatively quite group of polite, considered, quality seekers or a lively and offensive array of political extremists, energy hoarders, and self-proclaimed masters of this, that, or the other. Is there no middle ground? I guess we need to decide what we want to be and be it, unapologetically.
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I donât look at stats but activity is clearly down. Seanâs intervention slashed active membership by perhaps half. Does that sound right? Another handful were ejected by Trunk. Yet another when mods returned and began enforcing rules. Weâve a quite small active group here now. I guess practitioners donât like it here when asked to be polite. I find that interesting. I think they need a place to blow off steam, like the pit.
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One thing I have come to accept from my own study and practice is that the conscious mind is limited. Whether âthe truth,â assuming there is such a thing, is closest to the Madhyamika, Yogacara, Advaita, or some other view has very little bearing on my daily practice and conduct. It is my opinion that none of the aforementioned views, or any other, is âthe truth.â Some or all may come close but, in the end, they are simply conceptual constructs of a limited mind which craves explanations, knowledge, security, and control. The mind which desires to grasp âthe truthâ is in many ways the primary obstacle to the very understanding it craves, at least in the tradition I follow. One thing I will offer, since you ask for answers, is my opinion that your understanding of shunyata is flawed, hence your conclusions regarding its inaccuracy has no foundation. Understanding the nature of shunyata is primarily experiential. A rational and conceptual apprehension of shunyata can be useful for debate and discussion but is necessarily flawed, as shunyata is pointing to an experience that is free of concept, free even of understanding, free of subject-object differentiation. I will decline to engage in extensive debate as itâs not my strong suit, nor does philosophy or theory interest me much. I apologize for not being able or willing to elaborate on my âanswerâ further. Suffice it to say that a meaningful understanding of shunyata requires dedicated personal practice. Miphamâs Beacon of Certainty is a good resource. The best resource is skillful practice, IMO. The apparent paradox implied here is resolved in the dzogchen view due to the nature of shunyata. Words are clumsy and imperfect but Iâll use a few here. In the dzogchen view all is impermanent, compounded phenomena BUT the base is empty, clear, and the foundation of all. The characteristics of emptiness include that itâs indestructible, boundless, ceaseless, unborn, undying, uncreated, limitless, pervasive, etc... Hence it is âpermanentâ and yet at the same time it is empty, unimputable, so you canât posit it as anything in particular. This is precisely why it can serve as the base of everything. Enough of my words. Words are cheap. Iâm not asking you to believe and my own understanding is quite limited so I definitely donât ask you to believe me! I just thought Iâd offer some thoughts of my own. I hope they are of some use. Warm regards on this auspicious day!
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Not quite accurate but not as far fetched as some suggest. Here is an interesting discussion of the origins of modern yoga in the West. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.yogajournal.com/.amp/yoga-101/yoga-s-greater-truth
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So this baby seal walks into a club...
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The practice leader of my sangha can get some overtones when we chant mantra, especially Om
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I think there are other ways to look at this separation or non-separation. For example, âJesus said render unto Caesar that which Caesar's and to God that which is God'sâ does not necessarily mean the two are separate but may be a simple instruction to cultivate discriminatory wisdom in our dealings with the relative and absolute. This does not necessarily mean the two are distinct or exclusive. I also would suggest there was a very similar attempt to distinguish between âworldlyâ (eg. samsaric) and âspiritualâ in Buddhism, in Daoism, Hinduism and others far preceding the Judeo-Christian scriptures. Concepts and practices like renunciation, retreat, monasticism, wandering traditions, etc... all point to this discrimination between worldly and spiritual without necessarily positing exclusive realms (although they tend to do that as well).
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My approach is practical - to open always to what is in each moment. That opening is a connection to the flow of being, a wordless question, naked experience without separation from what is. I practice returning to this open flow as often as I remember. It is a total resting of "me" into what is going on completely. To the extent any separation is there, there is a me that is affected and disturbed. To the extent there is less or no separation, what is happening is perfect - wholeness, dzogchen Yes, all is illusion and it is also all we will ever have, other than changes in perspective and experience. How much more real can that get? Nothing other to engage with and play and work with than that. So for sure, all of it is my testing ground. The view is the path, is the result. In this view, all concept is faulty. Concept is that separation, it is an integral part of illusion. When there is openness, this means no separation between inner and outer. Our channels and chakras are that connection, the conduit between inner and outer.
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Another example is capoeira -
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Do you do any throat singing?
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A little bit out there perhaps, but I love this solo guitar piece by Kevin Cope which attempts to convey a sense of bipolar disorder and its struggles. Itâs called Folie Circulaire, an archaic term for the condition.
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I once stumbled across a wonderful reggae variation called Dub Side of the Moon while in a small record shop in Buckâs County -