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Everything posted by doc benway
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If all cylinders fired together, the crankshaft would freezeš The firing is staggered to spread out the energy expenditure temporally. Perhaps that may even extend across lifetimes...
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Trying Last Evening To Write A Post.......
doc benway replied to Wayist's topic in Forum and Tech Support
@Wayist I checked your settings and see nothing that would explain posting problems in the system. I wonder if it could be related to your status as "Junior Bum" as there are some restrictions when you first join. Please continue to participate and let me know if the issue continues, particularly once you've increased your post count. Thanks, Steve -
No I get it. The anonymity is very comforting. Very true, -sometimes loving, sometimes cruel... Sometimes real, sometimes imaginary š¤£š¤£š¤£ šš¼ I get it, I was cringing a bit when I made the suggestion. But I really feel like the ones who agree to it would be very supportive. I suspect itās one of those things we donāt want to do but are glad we did.
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Speaking of brainstorming... It occurs to me that a DB zoom retreat or meeting would be an interesting opportunity. One of the things that seems to lead to conflict is anonymity. Putting names to faces, hearing voices, seeing people, settings, gestures, expressions,... would potentially be a step towards bringing us closer and making a more meaningful connection. Getting everyone together physically will take a substantial amount of time and commitment. Recent times have shown me there is real value in real time online communication. I wonder if that would serve us well here? It might be difficult for some. Letting go of our anonymity, our masques, our fantasies of each other would have its challenges. Would the benefits be worth the candle? There is a big part of me that misses many of the folks that were banned after the political wars. I also miss those banned by the Trunk hammer. Not saying Sean or Trunk were wrong but I feel like if we had a chance to connect beyond black letters on a white background, things would be different and perhaps we wouldnāt need to fight so much and exclude each other. Just something else for everyone to chew on...
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I like your new avatar!
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Maybe it's a British Isles thing... It's absolutely delicious. The one risk is you can chip a front tooth, important to cover your front teeth with your lips when throwing it back. (not that you're likely to need that piece of advice!)
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I occasionally enjoy an Irish Car Bomb
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Can We Pay More Attention to Copy Paste Messages from Admin?
doc benway replied to Earl Grey's topic in Forum and Tech Support
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based on perception we create our universe no stone out of place
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Can We Pay More Attention to Copy Paste Messages from Admin?
doc benway replied to Earl Grey's topic in Forum and Tech Support
Trunk removed Apech as moderator soon after the team was put together for personal reasons. The mod team had no input to that decision. Dawei publicly posted personal and confidential information relating to multiple members, including admin. The mod team Pitted the thread and gave him a 30 day suspension. Very straightforward actually. -
Put this one down for a while but have picked it back up. Very exotic and inspiring.
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Personal Practice Discussion Thread Request
doc benway replied to Henchman21's topic in Forum and Tech Support
Not at all, shouldnāt take long. Odd ravings are our bread and butter! -
Can We Pay More Attention to Copy Paste Messages from Admin?
doc benway replied to Earl Grey's topic in Forum and Tech Support
Thank you for your input. I do not see it as careless. It is a pattern of disrespect and abuse. Earl was suspended for 3 months for bullying multiple members. The current mod team asked Trunk to allow us to give him the opportunity to show he is better than that. He responds with, among other things, an insult leveled at someone who volunteers quite a bit of time and energy to welcome all new members here. All we ask is for members to treat each other with civility and respect. Most of you do just that. Earl has a history of bullying and abusive behavior here and has used up his free passes. A week off to think about his intentions is mild. -
Can We Pay More Attention to Copy Paste Messages from Admin?
doc benway replied to Earl Grey's topic in Forum and Tech Support
A friendly note - We arenāt asking much, just that you treat members and mods here with respect. Take a week and think about that, please. I know itās really hard to be polite but it can save a 3 month suspension. -
Shelob! How old was Bilbo when Frodo left on his quest?
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The book says it was the right 3rd finger which probably means ring finger. For some reason they changed it to the left index finger in the film.
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Any idea when it changed for you? I know I can see points, I donāt know what you can and canāt see. To my knowledge, no settings were changed since the new team has come together. It might have been the last team or during the lawless period. However it is was how we found it. Weāre not making any changes to the infrastructure or process here, just trying to moderate discussion and support. Youād have to tag Trunk or Sean if you want a deeper explanation. The points are irrelevant. Theyāre basically a necessary tool due to the software. We plug in a number to get the desired result. You do something minor, maybe a warning. You do it repeatedly or something major, maybe a suspension, something really nasty - bye bye. We intend to discuss any major offenses and penalties as a team whenever possible. Just play nice. Itās really simple.
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I found two settings that may be responsible and adjusted them. Please let me know if that helps.
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Which of Frodoās fingers did Gollum crunch?
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... And yes, the patriarchy and abuse are no stranger to Tibetan Buddhists... Real progress exists in their communities and sanghas are now far more alert and ready to act on corruption. Far too slow but alive. š¢
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In the tradition I follow, the male and female energies have never been obscured. Obscuration arises in individual samsaric beings. The female is the loving Mother of wisdom. The male is Compassion. Emotion is not the enemy, it is the path to liberation.. We only find this enmity in the context of a specific practice, that of renunciation- the sutric path. Different strokes are needed for different folks. It does not apply to the higher Tantras.. Self-originated primordial wisdom is the base. The five poisonous mental afflictions are the dynamic energy. Chasing after them is the way you are deluded. Viewing them as deficient is the error. Leaving them as they are is the method. Freeing them into vastness is the path. Non-duality is the realization ~ from The Twenty One Nails Certainly there is ignorance in the collective, but that is a conceptual construct itself. As practitioners, we can only take responsibility for ourselves, as I post often here.
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Iāve actually done this when a bigass bull shark was approaching my brother on a wreck in North Carolina.! š¤£ It was not quite as funny at the time!
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Deagol! How did the last Steward of Gondor die?
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His brother... ???
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Tom Bombadil Q: What is Aragornās pseudonym?