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  1. New Age Spiritual Sources - Good/Bad

    One of my favorite spiritual teachers, Anthony Demello, speaks to this with experience and wisdom. He was a psychologist and Jesuit with a Hindu and Buddhist background, born in India. He spoke of his conflict in dealing with people who came to him for help. The psychologist in him wanted to help ease the pain whereas the spiritual guide knew they must go through the pain to experience meaningful growth and liberation.
  2. Bums I am missing

    Can you share with us, or by PM, how to find your poetry? Glad to have you here.
  3. New Age Spiritual Sources - Good/Bad

    And yet wouldn’t it be beautiful if we could somehow facilitate an explosion of heart? Heart and mind must be balanced in my opinion. The lack of balance is largely responsible for our misuse of the powers of mind alone. Spirituality for me is largely about restoring balance through opening the heart and maturing it as a refuge and a tool. When looking at a spiritual source, be it new or old, my questions are, does it make people kinder and more open? Does it cultivate empathy, honesty, and transparency? Does it strengthen relationships or isolation? Not always easy to get answers to these questions and often takes time and engagement with the view and practice. This is the advantage of the older, established traditions, you can see the effects over time and the kinks have been worked out. Newer ideas and methods are more of a risk, and our time is short as human beings on Earth, but at the end of the day, they could be just what is needed for the right person.
  4. simplify

    Vibrant
  5. mystical poetry thread

    The Place Where We Are Right Yehuda Amichai From the place where we are right flowers will never grow in the spring. The place where we are right is hard and trampled like a yard. But doubts and loves dig up the world like a mole, a plow. And a whisper will be heard in the place where the ruined house once stood.
  6. Haiku Chain

    my quarters are gone shepherded by destruction walking without legs
  7. Taiji Quan for Self Defense

    @Samoobramba I wonder if you’ve come across the book below? It is one of my favorite books on taijiquan. I started reading it early in my taijiquan practice and didn’t understand much. As my skill and experience grew, so did my understanding and appreciation for the book. .
  8. Which books sit on your nightstand?

    Just finished Dr. No by Percival Everett. It’s a rare book that repeatedly has me laughing out loud. A welcome relief from the heavier reading I’ve been doing lately.
  9. Search engine issue

    No question there is a big change here. Terms I’ve searched on many occasions are yielding far fewer hits than in the past or no results at all. Reviewing the activity log in my profile only lists activity going back for 2 months - to 2/14. Thanks for looking into this team!
  10. Karma is not maya (illusion)

    The one telling the parable.
  11. Karma is not maya (illusion)

    In my view and experience maya and karma are two aspects of the same “thing.” Both speak to the non-separation of self and other, one in terms of appearances and the other in terms of action. While we feel and live the relative truth of our expression of life as individual organisms, there is a level of truth that goes deeper and recognizes the inseparability of all of life. There are no living organisms that exist outside of their environment and through this environment all beings are interconnected in many ways. Any boundary we draw around anything is simply a convention of nomenclature, an artificial categorization, that has no basis in reality, just in concept, although they can be very useful depending on the nature of our practice and understanding. Even modern scientific paradigms in biology, ecology, psychology, sociology, chemistry, and physics acknowledge the non-dual nature of Being, it’s not limited to non-dual spiritual traditions and philosophy. When we see the truth of karma what we (I) see is that I am exactly as I am, this experience at this very moment is exactly as it is, precisely because of every choice, every action taken by myself and every “other" being in time and space going back and forward in time ad infinitum. There is the relative truth of my own actions as an individual and how they affect myself, others, and the environment that I am in contact with. There is also the bigger picture of how everyone I come into contact with is simultaneously in contact with many others, spreading out in an infinite, interconnecting web of actions and reactions that conspire together to create what is here and now in experience, moment to moment. Change anything at all and everything changes to some degree, the butterfly effect. We can certainly isolate individual actions, reactions, and consequences, but that is an artificial distinction. Maya is the misperception of the interconnectedness of Being in terms of appearance. Karma is the expression of the interconnectedness of Being in terms of action and reaction. We can work at categorizing, separating, and healing each and every karmic trace step by step, one at a time and this can be very effective. It can also be extraordinarily complex and time consuming once we get beyond the most obvious and accessible challenges. We can also work at healing karma without all of the separation, dissection, and artificial isolation of individual karmic traces by looking to the root of it all, the misguided sense of separateness itself. This is an equally valid method, more holistic, but not accessible or efficient for everyone. I agree with you. While there is a sense of “self-awareness,” of "awareness recognizing itself,” of “abiding in the nature of mind,” of “non-meditation,” and other such convenient and sexy sounding labels we use to describe our experience (I’m not interested in theory), it’s my opinion and experience that as long as we are human beings, we never completely transcend human experience, although we may come “close,” whether in our day to day life, in our practice, or in the clear light of sleep. These "blessed and pure” enlightening experiences are, in my opinion and experience, what it feels like when a particular obstacle or obscuration is released or dissolved. They are a taste but not a perfect experience of ultimate reality, per se; they are human experiences of a deeper and more pervasive sense of what it is to be human, approaching the purity of the abiding base in an asymptotic manner. This is why distinctions are made in some traditions between base and path rigpa. When different people have these enlightening experiences they use different adjectives and adverbs to describe them - things like pervasive, unbounded, clear, spacious, immortal, unborn and so forth. While all of these are characteristics of the fundamental essence of Being, we are not that, we are human practitioners, and therefore we have human experiences. Each of these experiences represent the transcendence of how we were previously feeling limited in time and space in one way or another.
  12. simplify

    synth-pop
  13. Pain Managment Techniques

    I was a chem major and worked as an organic lab TA during undergrad. There were always one or two per lab who wreaked havoc, either through inanity or frivolity. They enjoyed seeing me sweat and put out fires, it seemed. Then again, I got to grade their lab assignments...
  14. Pain Managment Techniques

    There is value in visualization for healing, for me. Also in spiritual practice. In Bonpo guru yoga, we first purify the body, speech, and mind first with flame, then wind, then water. It’s a very effective cleansing process.
  15. depth of evil was not underestimated

    A time to appease, A time to destroy