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Having sex and masturbating is not the same thing at all. When i masturbate i don't feel good at all afterwards, after sex with someone i have an emotional connection with i feel great. Conclusion: masturbation is bad, sex is good. Doesn't have anything to do with my beliefs or any religion. I never had any hang-ups about masturbation before i started to realize the negative impact it had on my life. My life before i stopped masturbating and the life i live now is so completely different it's ridicoulous. Try picturing any succesful man you can think of sitting by themselves jerking off. I just can't see it. Masturbating is taking the easy way out instead of using that drive for something good. Just my personal experience on the whole matter but i've heard similar things from other guys. I accidently pushed +1 on your post when i was going to reply, how do i remove it?

Stop "edging" it's really bad. Stop masturbating entirely for a couple of months to reset your body. Use the extra energy you get from that to improve your life.

Best and cheapest way is to develop your confidence and then just shave your head. Doesn't matter if you have a weird head shape. If you're confident and don't give a fuck girls won't care either. Just stop fighting the inevitable and you will feel a lot better. It's simple but it's not easy. Good luck.

WOW thanks a lot for posting this. That guy must have some serious juice because i've never felt anything this strong from just watching a video. My whole spine is buzzing with energy so is the top of my head, the back of my head and forehead. Too bad i live in Europe.

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Yeah i did that too but wait until you start getting close to 30 and try masturbating and ejaculating 3 times a day and see how you feel. Masturbating is not so bad as long as you do it in moderation and don't combine it with porn this trains your subconscious to give your power away to women and view them as sex objects. No masturbation = One hell of a drive to accomplish things in life and go after real women. For those struggling with masturbation and porn addiction and feel like they're not getting anywhere in life this "cure" might be a good idea.

Found this at another forum and thought it might interest some.

I would say it's even more unfair for women because if they don't have the physical attractiveness they are invisible to most men, whereas women aren't as visual as men so a guy can still be attractive in many womens eyes even if he's not the best looking guy just by the way he carries himself, his energy and the way he thinks of himself. I think most guys probably have had days when they suddenly seemed to get a lot more attention from women. Maybe they got some new clothes that made them feel great and now a lot of women check them out and they think it's the new clothes when it's really the way the new clothes made them feel that made them more attractive.

Yes there is! I can send you the program i used. After using it for a while you won't need anything external to feel good about yourself and women will start to show up in your life. If you follow the instructions exactly you will be a changed man and then you get to have choice with women that most guys only dream about You will still be you, only difference is you will be the best possible version of yourself. Just PM me your e-mail if you want it and i will send it to you.

There are also beautiful women that rarely get approached by men because men find them intimidating. Then there many beautiful single moms that won't get many dates because they often get rejected by men because of their child or they only get used for sex. Everything isn't as black and white as you think and experiencing some bad situations and then projecting it to the rest of the female population isn't fair to the women you come in contact with. Everyone both male and female is their own individual with different life stories and feelings and should be treated as such. I know some other guys that are good with women and they are not thugs, bad-asses or jerks, they are pretty normal guys with healthy confidence and they feel good about themselves so that is what they project and it's what women feel in their presence. Women are mostly guided by their emotions and feelings so if a man has a good "non needy" energy and vibe about them they will naturally be more attractive to women. I could be wrong but this talk about gangsters and bad-asses gets all the beautiful women sounds more like media influence than real world? If anything the women that are attracted to these kinds of men are VERY low quality and fucked up women that you don't want in your life anyway. Why do you never answer any questions about what you do in situations with women or where you get these ideas from? Have you ever been in a situation where a woman smiled at you or made long eye-contact with you or showed any interest in you at all? What did you do in that situation? Women will rarley approach a guy even if he is very good looking, so it doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt or not YOU have to lead and start talking to her that's just the way it is. If you start to feel better about yourself and feel attractive then this will project outwards in your presence and body language and women will start to notice and they will give you signs like eye contact, smiling and moving closer to your position and then it's YOUR job to lead the interaction where you want it to go. And everyone gets rejected, even if you are the biggest ladies man on the planet there will still be women that don't find you attractive for whatever reason. Just say fuck it and move on, life is short.

It's meant to be a kick in your butt and have you look at it from another perspective cause it's not a big deal even if it feels like the whole world to you at this moment. I've been where you are and i know how it feels and i would love to go back in time and give my past self a big smack in the head to make him wake up and do something different and take action. From my perspective i don't see you making any progress when you start threads that keeps you stuck in the same thought patterns repeating the same thing over and over, or do you feel yourself that you're going somewhere better doing this? If you compare how you feel now and when you first joined this forum is there any difference? Is it worse or better?

Non, You are a healthy young man, not blind, not deaf, not a dwarf, not sitting in a wheelchair or missing a leg or arm right? You have food on the table and a place to live right? You have a college education right? You live in a free country where you can surf the internet freely and whine about not getting laid and how messed up society/women is right? You don't have to sell your body to creepy old men to be able to support yourself right? Then you are better off than probably 90% of the worlds population. You have so many possibilites in your life that most people can only dream about. Now go and look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what the fuck whining about the same thing on a forum for almost 2 years is doing and don't start another thread like this ever again.

Self-Acceptance with Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)

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The way it's taught is right over left so i don't think you should change that. Has Max or Jenny told you that you can practise with left over right as well?