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Hi Sloppy, I had a similar problem earlier this year where i some days felt that other peoples "stuff" really dragged me down. This book helped me a lot http://www.amazon.com/Secret-Quantum-Living-Joseph-Kinslow/dp/0984426418 it's called "The Secret of Quantum Living" and it teaches a really simple and effective method to rest in pure awarness. When you are in pure awareness all the negative influences melt away.

One thing is for sure that those exercises are really good, i have never felt such strong chi flow from any other qigong. It's also really easy for me to sit in full lotus while doing the final exercise, especially when i hold the hands out to the side like in the bottom middle picture above it feels like a cool breeze around my feet that keeps them from going numb as they otherwise do.

One thing is for sure that those exercises are really good, i have never felt such strong chi flow from any other qigong. It's also really easy for me to sit in full lotus while doing the final exercise, especially when i hold the hands out to the side like in the bottom middle picture above it feels like a cool breeze around my feet that keeps them from going numb as they otherwise do.

Now i'm feeling it That was way better than the dancing clown

I don't feel it I'm normally pretty sensitive to this kind of stuff but this just felt like a show for the camera.

Why care which tradition it comes from? Just do what works and The Tibetan Yogas of Dream and Sleep is a great resource. I doubt there is much difference between traditions anyway in this area, all you need to do is maintain your awareness during sleep which will happen naturally if you meditate regularly.

So it happened today again and it's been happening a lot lately. I wake up in the morning feeling great about myself and life in general and i go out in the world with a big smile on my face, i pass a beautiful girl who smiles at me and i feel even better. Then as the day passes and after interacting with different people i come home and feel like shit and i haven't really had any negative encounters during the day it just feels like i pick up a LOT of garbage during the day. I can't find any reason why i always get in a bad mood after being "out in the world". Then i come home and i do my practise in the evening as usual and i'm starting to feel good again. This has been going on for a couple of months now and it's really starting to annoy me, today i just felt like leaving everything behind and move far away from all people and society.. Does anyone else experience anything similar? Is this just a phase in cultivation practise that will pass or is this why some cultivators go away and live in seclusion? Is there anyway i can protect or shield myself from all this negative stuff? I live in a big city by the way..

Yes this is so true, i feel i have to tone it down sometimes to not burst out in laughter or maybe some "tough guys" will get the wrong idea. But sometimes i feel i should just do like this guy http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jedd2FiZTqM

Thanks for all the great advice guys and gals:) I found this interesting text from the Kybalion about transmutation of mental states. "The Principle of Rhythm is well understood by modern science, and is considered a universal law as applied to material things. But the Hermetists carry the principle much further, and know that its manifestations and influence extend to the mental activities of Man, and that it accounts for the bewildering succession of moods, feelings and other annoying and perplexing changes that we notice in ourselves. But the Hermetists by studying the operations of this Principle have learned to escape some of its activities by Transmutation. The Hermetic Masters long since discovered that while the Principle of Rhythm was invariable, and ever in evidence in mental phenomena, still there were two planes of its manifestation so far as mental phenomena are concerned. They discovered that there were two general planes of Consciousness, the Lower and the Higher, the understanding of which fact enabled them to rise to the higher plane and thus escape the swing of the Rhythmic pendulum which manifested on the lower plane. In other words, the swing of the pendulum occurred on the Unconscious Plane, and the Consciousness was not affected. This they call the Law of Neutralization. Its operations consist in the raising of the Ego above the vibrations of the Unconscious Plane of mental activity, so that the negative-swing of the pendulum is not manifested in consciousness, and therefore they are not affected. It is akin to rising above a thing and letting it pass beneath you. The Hermetic Master, or advanced student, polarizes himself at the desired pole, and by a process akin to "refusing" to participate in the backward swing, or, if you prefer, a "denial" of its influence over him, he stands firm in his polarized position, and allows the mental pendulum to swing back along the unconscious plane. All individuals who have attained any degree of self-mastery, accomplish this, more or less unknowingly, and by refusing to allow their moods and negative mental states to affect them, they apply the Law of Neutralization. " http://www.kybalion.org/kybalion.asp

I don't blame other people for making me feel bad nor do i want them to go away or change them. I'm a social guy who likes to be around people under normal circumstances. I don't really know where all this comes from. Like i said i hardly have any negative interactions it's mostly good and positive but when i come home i feel drained and bad. Maybe i give to much of myself to other people.. I feel like my heart have become more open towards people lately and i get a lot more positive attention from that esp. from women. But you're right i'm responsible for my own feelings it's just that it's been like an emotional rollercoaster lately and i feel like i'm either in heaven or hell and it's really frustrating. Thanks for your practise advice i will try them out Edit: This experience has made realize i don't have my "shit" handled as good as i thought i had and that i have a looooong way to go. Can't wait to see what my next challenge will be

I can't do my practises out there but i try to maintain my awareness during the day. This is the first time this is happening to me so i hope it will pass, or maybe i'm just becoming more energy sensitive and just need to protect myself.

Just be happy The Most Powerful Girl-Gettin Technique of All Time http://www.sosuave.com/articles/at/powerful.htm

I've been practising from this book with good results so far after 2 weeks http://www.amazon.com/Tibetan-Yogas-Dream-Sleep/dp/1559391014/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1276119333&sr=1-1 Edit: you can read it for free at Google books

Speaking from my own experience i don't think stretching mathers. I tried stretching every day for months and i still couldn't last 5 minutes in full lotus without pain and numb legs. Now my energy channels has started to open and i can sit in full lotus for 30 minutes without any problem and i haven't done any stretching at all lately.

Hi, i stumbled upon this site a couple of weeks ago http://www.phosphenism.com/accueil.html i've got some of the books of a torrent site but i plan on buying them if i find them useful. Haven't had the time to read any of them yet though. He also has some books to download for free on the site, maybe it will help. What do you mean by cheat code?

Also if you are looking for a woman/women to fulfil you or make you whole it aint gonna work. This is something you need to accomplish on your own.

It's not about watching music videos instead of getting real women It's about learning to get a deeper connection with women, women WILL notice when you look at and treat them like human beings instead of sex objects. I'm already succesful with women and this has just been taking it up another level.

Yes she is being suggested but there are others suggested in the forum i linked to. I didn't feel anything at first either but the 3rd time i started crying and now i feel it everytime i watch her, i've only been doing it for a couple of weeks though.

You will feel it. It some kind of shift that takes place inside you it's hard to describe, you just feel it. Look here: http://relationalmastery.com/amember/forum/viewforum.php?f=8 Especially the posts by shay2000

I've been doing this thing called "Natural Grounding" lately and it seems i'm getting more than usual attention from women. Today i had this amazing eye contact with a very attractive woman on the tube which by the way must be the worst place to meet a woman since most people just sit and look down and then get off, but anyway it was really intense and she was really eye fucking and smiling at me for several minutes before i had to get off Natural Grounding description from Rion Williams website: " N.G. is not 'traditional' meditation nor is it trying to visualize interactions, nor is it trying to make up with your own subjective mind what the behavior of real women would be. Natural Grounding is getting in relationship to RAW natural alpha models of female behavior and energy. It's a complete paradigm shift and active belief changer/reinforcer of how you view and value women. The simplest way to describe it is: WATCHING MUSIC VIDEOS OF NATURAL 'REAL' FEMALE BEHAVIOR & LETTING IT AFFECT YOUR 'CONSCIOUS' MIND, EMOTIONAL STATE, BELIEFS AND ENERGY. It's consciously choosing to and getting in relationship to natural alpha sources of female behavior and letting it melt away your social and inner/logical mind to enter a State of now and build sexual polarity and awareness with the opposite sex." I mostly use Palmy videos she has a very nice feminine energy that really opens you up if you let it. fast forward to 2:55 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ITTDMA-muUU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ryweo_O4KU I was skeptic at first but i really think this guy is on to something. Edit: Anyone doing this SHOULD be crying or get some really intense feelings if you are doing it right, if not just keep doing it you will open up eventually.

How about you stop making up stories in your head about how society and women works. You have no fucking clue what you are talking about and you are insulting all women with your stupid talk.