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Having sex and masturbating is not the same thing at all. When i masturbate i don't feel good at all afterwards, after sex with someone i have an emotional connection with i feel great. Conclusion: masturbation is bad, sex is good. Doesn't have anything to do with my beliefs or any religion. I never had any hang-ups about masturbation before i started to realize the negative impact it had on my life. My life before i stopped masturbating and the life i live now is so completely different it's ridicoulous. Try picturing any succesful man you can think of sitting by themselves jerking off. I just can't see it. Masturbating is taking the easy way out instead of using that drive for something good. Just my personal experience on the whole matter but i've heard similar things from other guys. I accidently pushed +1 on your post when i was going to reply, how do i remove it?

Stop "edging" it's really bad. Stop masturbating entirely for a couple of months to reset your body. Use the extra energy you get from that to improve your life.

Best and cheapest way is to develop your confidence and then just shave your head. Doesn't matter if you have a weird head shape. If you're confident and don't give a fuck girls won't care either. Just stop fighting the inevitable and you will feel a lot better. It's simple but it's not easy. Good luck.

WOW thanks a lot for posting this. That guy must have some serious juice because i've never felt anything this strong from just watching a video. My whole spine is buzzing with energy so is the top of my head, the back of my head and forehead. Too bad i live in Europe.

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Yeah i did that too but wait until you start getting close to 30 and try masturbating and ejaculating 3 times a day and see how you feel. Masturbating is not so bad as long as you do it in moderation and don't combine it with porn this trains your subconscious to give your power away to women and view them as sex objects. No masturbation = One hell of a drive to accomplish things in life and go after real women. For those struggling with masturbation and porn addiction and feel like they're not getting anywhere in life this "cure" might be a good idea.

Found this at another forum and thought it might interest some.

I would say it's even more unfair for women because if they don't have the physical attractiveness they are invisible to most men, whereas women aren't as visual as men so a guy can still be attractive in many womens eyes even if he's not the best looking guy just by the way he carries himself, his energy and the way he thinks of himself. I think most guys probably have had days when they suddenly seemed to get a lot more attention from women. Maybe they got some new clothes that made them feel great and now a lot of women check them out and they think it's the new clothes when it's really the way the new clothes made them feel that made them more attractive.

Yes there is! I can send you the program i used. After using it for a while you won't need anything external to feel good about yourself and women will start to show up in your life. If you follow the instructions exactly you will be a changed man and then you get to have choice with women that most guys only dream about You will still be you, only difference is you will be the best possible version of yourself. Just PM me your e-mail if you want it and i will send it to you.

There are also beautiful women that rarely get approached by men because men find them intimidating. Then there many beautiful single moms that won't get many dates because they often get rejected by men because of their child or they only get used for sex. Everything isn't as black and white as you think and experiencing some bad situations and then projecting it to the rest of the female population isn't fair to the women you come in contact with. Everyone both male and female is their own individual with different life stories and feelings and should be treated as such. I know some other guys that are good with women and they are not thugs, bad-asses or jerks, they are pretty normal guys with healthy confidence and they feel good about themselves so that is what they project and it's what women feel in their presence. Women are mostly guided by their emotions and feelings so if a man has a good "non needy" energy and vibe about them they will naturally be more attractive to women. I could be wrong but this talk about gangsters and bad-asses gets all the beautiful women sounds more like media influence than real world? If anything the women that are attracted to these kinds of men are VERY low quality and fucked up women that you don't want in your life anyway. Why do you never answer any questions about what you do in situations with women or where you get these ideas from? Have you ever been in a situation where a woman smiled at you or made long eye-contact with you or showed any interest in you at all? What did you do in that situation? Women will rarley approach a guy even if he is very good looking, so it doesn't matter if you look like Brad Pitt or not YOU have to lead and start talking to her that's just the way it is. If you start to feel better about yourself and feel attractive then this will project outwards in your presence and body language and women will start to notice and they will give you signs like eye contact, smiling and moving closer to your position and then it's YOUR job to lead the interaction where you want it to go. And everyone gets rejected, even if you are the biggest ladies man on the planet there will still be women that don't find you attractive for whatever reason. Just say fuck it and move on, life is short.

It's meant to be a kick in your butt and have you look at it from another perspective cause it's not a big deal even if it feels like the whole world to you at this moment. I've been where you are and i know how it feels and i would love to go back in time and give my past self a big smack in the head to make him wake up and do something different and take action. From my perspective i don't see you making any progress when you start threads that keeps you stuck in the same thought patterns repeating the same thing over and over, or do you feel yourself that you're going somewhere better doing this? If you compare how you feel now and when you first joined this forum is there any difference? Is it worse or better?

Non, You are a healthy young man, not blind, not deaf, not a dwarf, not sitting in a wheelchair or missing a leg or arm right? You have food on the table and a place to live right? You have a college education right? You live in a free country where you can surf the internet freely and whine about not getting laid and how messed up society/women is right? You don't have to sell your body to creepy old men to be able to support yourself right? Then you are better off than probably 90% of the worlds population. You have so many possibilites in your life that most people can only dream about. Now go and look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself what the fuck whining about the same thing on a forum for almost 2 years is doing and don't start another thread like this ever again.

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The way it's taught is right over left so i don't think you should change that. Has Max or Jenny told you that you can practise with left over right as well?

I'm only 173 cm myself and balding but after doing the affirmations for a while i decided to shave my head, i started going to the gym and took better care of myself. This happened naturally as the affirmations made me more confident and i started to care more about how i looked. My facial features has actually changed. My face and especially the eyes have become more relaxed. I look more masculine. Everytime i look in the mirror i smile at myself and think "Damn! Im sexy!" It's no longer just an affirmation, i believe it with all my heart now. Yes you will get a lot of resistance in the beginning especially from affirmations that are hard for your subconscious to believe so maybe using affirmations for gradual change will work better. Like "women are starting to like me more" will get less resistance than "women want to fuck me everywhere i go". Maybe i would have gotten faster results if had done affirmations for gradual change. I don't know. About 4-5 months after starting doing the affirmations i had my first moment of success. I felt great that evening and didn't have a care in the world. I was waiting on the tube for the train to come and as soon as i stepped on the train i noticed a very attractive girl that had started to position herself to make me notice her. We locked eyes and her face immidiately lit up. I couldn't believe a girl that hot was locking eyes with me and smiling at me and it took all my strength to not look away and continue to hold her gaze. After a while SHE walked up to me and it was such a huge connection we had right there and it felt like time stopped. She gave me her number and later we made plans for coffee. These are the sort of connections you get when you truly believe in yourself there is no need to play any games or do any pick-up routines. I never got more than a kiss from this girl because my mind messed it up for me by starting to think she was out of my league. It took another 5-6 months of ups and downs before i started getting laid regularly. The subconscious is indeed very powerful. If affirmations doesn't resonate with you i've heard some people having success with silent subliminal recordings that play while you sleep. I haven't tried it myself so i cannot vouch for it but you can read about it on the forum at http://subliminal-talk.com

Quoted for truth! So how do you become that guy when women never notice you and you feel like the whole world is against you? This is what worked for me and it has worked for many others as well. 1. EVERYDAY when you wake up and before you go to bed visualize and feel how you want your life to be. Visualize yourself vividly having great interactions with women. Visualize women flirting with you and checking you out and visualize yourself having sex with beautiful women. 2. Get a notebook where you can write your affirmations and keep it in a private place. Examples of affirmations would be: I am a sexy/attractive guy. I love and accept myself. I know i am great. I love and appreciate women.(IMPORTANT) Women love me. Women want to fuck me everywhere i go. Come up with 5-10 affirmations and write them 5-10 times each in your notebook. Do this EVERYDAY. 3. Stand in front of a mirror and look into your right eye while you repeat your affirmations out loud with conviction. It's important to FEEL them, don't just stand there and repeat them like a robot that will produce no results. Do this for 20 minutes EVERYDAY. You will start to change in anywhere from 3 months to a year. This is not a magic pill or a quick fix it takes time to change your subconscious beliefs. Don't go and look for or expect results. Do your affirmations and then let them go. DON'T STOP doing your affirmations when you see results. Stop watching porn if you haven't already, stop reading crap on the internet, stop watching crap on TV. With crap i mean all the stuff that has anything to do with male/female interactions and relationships it's just brainwashing you and putting stupid ideas in your head. You want and need real life experience instead and it will come to you naturally as you become more attractive. Meanwhile try to find your purpose in life. Women love men that have a purpose and direction in life. It doesn't have to be anything big or world changing just find something that your are passionate about and make it your purpose. I think i read somewhere that you practised retention? I think this has actually made it worse for you because you have so much negative emotion inside of you and all the built up sexual energy has amplified those negative emotions. Imagine what will happen when that sexual energy transmutes into something positive instead

Start by changing this belief that you need something or someone outside yourself to make you happy. All the saints and enlightened people that says "happiness comes from within" can't all be wrong can they? I'm also telling you from my own experience that getting lots of women is not something that will bring you happiness. It will bring you some momentarly satisfaction but that is all.

You are a man and you're supposed to attract women naturally and without effort. Unfortunately todays society has put so many limiting beliefs on men saying that getting women is hard and when you get laid you are getting "lucky" and this basically takes all the power away from men and puts women on a hard to reach pedestal. You don't need to learn any routines or any other bullshit pick-up stuff. Do you think that Mr. Rabbit who has boned 100's of female rabbits did this by learning any routines? He is just doing it naturally the way it's supposed to be for us humans too. You need to bring out the naturally attractive and confident man that is hidden deep beneath all the bullshit that society, media and family has dumped on you. Real confidence is not about bullying or putting other people down or being a thug. It's about having your shit together and owning yourself, not pretending, not needing anything from other people because you already have everything you need inside yourself. Don't do it to get women do it for yourself and for your own happiness. It's time to start feeling good about yourself and stop giving a fuck about other people and stop making up stories in your head about women. It doesn't matter if they're true or not. Feeling good about oneself is the best gift you can give yourself. So what if you will be a virgin the rest of you life? When you feel good about yourself having sex or not having sex doesn't matter, and this is the time when you will get as much sex as you want. Just to prove my point of what changing your beliefs will do to your appearance and the way you carry yourself. Here is a before and after picture of a guy (not me) that did just that. I can see the exact same changes in myself. He lost some weight and did some grooming but that doesn't really matter it's all in the eyes and the way he carries himself. Before: http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c72/rs13141/100_1484.jpg After: http://i25.photobucket.com/albums/c72/rs13141/PIC_0254.jpg

"What the thinker thinks, the prover proves." "In Robert Anton Wilson’s book Prometheus Rising, he models the mind as having two main parts; a thinker and a prover. The thinker is extremely flexible, and can think any number of things. The thinker can think the earth is flat; the thinker can think the earth is spherical. It can think all men are poison; it can think all men are essentially good. The prover is much more predictable: what the thinker thinks, the prover proves. Whatever the thinker is thinking, the prover will sort for evidence to support it. If a person thinks that all homeless people are lazy, the prover will sort through their experience to find evidence to support that idea. If they think all homeless people are victims, the prover will find evidence to support that idea. If a person considers themselves to be stupid, the prover will find evidence to show that it’s ‘true’. If a person thinks they are brilliant, the prover will show that to be true." From my personal experiences i didn't have one girl even looking at me for nearly 3 years after my girlfriend of 4 years dumped me when i was 27. I had lots of hang-ups about my looks, i thought i was too short, my hair was getting thinner and i honestly thought i would never have sex with a girl again. I ended up wasting nearly 3 years of my life with self pity and these limiting beliefs thinking i was not good enough. Of course the girls wouldn't look at me because i had already rejected myself in my mind. Point is it doesn't matter if you're a "good guy" or "bad guy". What matters is how you see yourself and then people will start treating you that way. Think that you are a winner and you will win. Think that you are a loser and you will lose. It really is as simple as that. The hard part is to really believe it and it just doesn't happen overnight. But it will be quicker if you start to take steps that will help you support the new beliefs you are trying to install. I shaved my head and started taking better care of myself by going to the gym and eating healthier for example. It took a long time to fix my beliefs but now i live in abundance of women and i don't have time for all the women that wants to be with me. I'm just being my authentic self now and that's all that women wants from me. One more thing..now that i have lots of women i have come to realize it doesn't mean shit to have lots of women wanting to fuck me. It's pretty nice sure but it doesn't bring happiness.

"The purpose of life is to give and receive love" Can't remember where I read it but sounds like a good purpose to me

What exactly is the Golden Dragon Body? Becoming transparent means you have gained control over the elements yes? Does this mean physical immortality also? Where do you go when you become transparent? Are you still "here" or in a higher dimension?

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THIS is so true. But the problem is that you really have to believe it and the changes have to occur deep in your subconcious for it to become reality. Best time to reprogram yourself is with affirmations when you are in a relaxed and receptive state after meditation. When i first started doing affirmations they didn't do much for me but then i learned that you have to really FEEL and VISUALIZE them like they are your reality now in this moment. You have to be consistent and do it twice a day and then changes will start to happen within a month. This guy is 3 feet tall and in a wheelchair and he's still great with women because he got rid of his limiting beliefs.

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