Maddie

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  1. There is no self

    Yea I think what we so often call "me or I" is actually the delusion of calling a thought "me" thinking the thought is "I" as opposed to conditioning that is not who we really are.
  2. There is no self

    lol of course enlightenment is the answer, and the hindrance to that answer is this false sense of self that gets in the way, but it is rather confusing. This talk was pretty mind blowing.
  3. There is no self

    and what is that?
  4. There is no self

    And what is that aspect of self that wants notoriety, recognition, fame, and popularity? What is it about the self that gets angry or upset if it does not get this?
  5. PUA and Spirituality

    true, but in the lives of most people they are rarely separated
  6. PUA and Spirituality

    Cause I didn't say the key was not wanting women, I said the key was not wanting women, AND meditation, AND abstinence.
  7. PUA and Spirituality

    no one said its easy lol, but then again letting go of clinging never is, but its possible and very rewarding
  8. Taoism Vs Buddhism

    wow that's so sad
  9. PUA and Spirituality

    oh well that's easy, build a LOT of qi. Do that through lots of meditation and abstinence and creating emptiness by not wanting women, its really a paradox lol.
  10. PUA and Spirituality

    Well I suppose if friends make out with each other and go home together at the end of the night, then I suppose they could have been. lol
  11. There is no self

    How does one realize Anatta?
  12. PUA and Spirituality

    good point
  13. PUA and Spirituality

    Oh no one knows that, not even women haha
  14. PUA and Spirituality

    True, but it still supports the point that they don't necessarily have to be good looking. I do listen. On the other hand I've noted for a long time that what women say they want is often very different than what they really want.
  15. PUA and Spirituality

    lol why do you say that? Most of the chicks I've known in dojo's (most not all) have some real power issues.
  16. Yup that would make sense
  17. anger

  18. Well in all actuality they are always spinning as the word "chakra" means wheel in Sanskrit.
  19. trends among subtle/deceased people

    Do the chickens have large talons?
  20. Interesting article http://www.endalldisease.com/two-giant-underwater-crystal-pyramids-made-of-thick-glass-found-in-the-center-of-the-bermuda-triangle/
  21. trends among subtle/deceased people

    whaaaaaa the f..........
  22. PUA and Spirituality

    Oh man I see it all the time, especially when I was in Hawaii lol.
  23. Why do tai chi masters seem bored?

    Maybe he isn't bored at all. People often tell me I look bored, but I'm not lol. I'm often content and perhaps people mistake that as boredom. I would imagine that a master at Tai Chi would likely be content as well.
  24. Loneliness and Lack of Connection

    I think the reason many people feel "loneliness" is because when they are by themselves they are left with only their own minds which is what most people are trying so desperately hard to get away from in the first place. My roommate is this way, she literally can not bear to be by herself, she always has to be around someone. I think I must totally baffle her cause I try to be alone as much as humanly possible so that I can be with myself, not escape myself lol.
  25. Well its a TCM school so it comes with the territory lol.