immortal_sister

why do you want to be able to do those things? hmm sometimes i wonder if these posts are even for real...

thank you for your post hundun. that definitely tends to be my approach to these things, "do what feels natural and correct". sometimes there are some little adjustments that i am told about that end up being fairly important, but i never really asked anyone about the teeth. same for the location of the tongue. i have heard schools say to place it as far back as you can. frankly thats just painful!! i completely understand why that would be used and in what context. but for what i am doing right now, i really can't imagine that to be necessary. seems like relaxation and doing what feels natural is where its at for me

that resonates with me too... thats what i have tended to do, simply because having the teeth together requires me to hold tension in the jaw, and i find it distracting. my jaw is also kind of screwed up and my teeth don't align quite right

thanks for the answer. i had always assumed that teeth together was better. but i am trying to understand why, any idea what the energetic effect is? does it help connect the front and back channels? and would there be times when teeth apart would be better? so many questions..

thats happening here too, not just in china. i have heard women tell me that their 4 year old daughters had full pubic hair already and were starting to grow breasts. its so extremely sad. the anger i feel toward our government for not preventing these horrible chemicals from being in food and water is hard to describe. formula is definitely one thing at fault. soy formula is reeking havoc on baby boys too, stunting their sexual development, as they can get doses of phytoestrogen comparable to the birth control pill when drinking soy formula. sickening... beyond formula though, the women giving birth to these babies have been eating genetically modified and hormone filled animal products their whole life, drinking tap water that is filled with powerful chemicals and leftover pharmaceuticals that water treatment is not able to remove. this is a HUGE problem, of course it is going to affect their children. it goes so deep, it goes way beyond formula. but people at the top are making money, so who cares who gets sick.. in fact, if people are sick, they will have to spend money on getting better, so hey everyone wins!!.. what worries me too is that not only are girls that young not ready to deal with puberty, but it has been proven that the younger a woman starts to menstruate, the more at risk she will be of developing various cancers as she gets older and will also be more likely to develop problems like endometriosis. we need to educate ourselves and others about the realities of the food & health systems. thank you for posting this.

i hope you will find what you knew not you sought, and transform from within

cultivation should not be causing you to "fuck up" any of your chakra, or destroy your health/energy in any way. i would step away from any system that says that this is normal, or that a "homosexual curse" can come upon you from doing this practice..... woah

i am watching the video now. seems like an interesting woman! i live near buffalo and have never heard of her. but perhaps she is very low key and doesn't teach publicly? if anyone has information, if she is indeed in the buffalo area, i would like to hear it too!

thank you for that post yup very interesting when even online someone isn't able to just be straight with you and not filled with ego when you ask them a simple question...

woah.. i am confused by your posts what path do you actually follow, what is your practice?

good post!! what school of white crane kungfu do you practice/teach?

i was just about to post the same thing, thank you forcing the third eye open without any other energetic work is not only silly but can be dangerous. this mystical third eye opening will occur on its own through sustained practice. what is your reason for wanting your third eye to be open anyhow?

just attuned to death just a breath away from bliss emptiness... alive

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maybe all these articles should be posted in the "off topic" forum...

i don't think either of us was saying that clitoral orgasms are bad. they do tend to be more superficial orgasms. but, this really depends on the person's experience with tantra and her ability to truly relax during sexual activity. that really depends on the woman. every woman is built slightly differently, and although some women will easily have clitoral orgasms during deep penetration, others won't (i am one of those, it just won't happen) yes they are linked, but saying that because they are linked makes them the same is a HUGE overstatement. g-spot pleasure and orgasm is not the same as clitoral pleasure, not does it lead to the same kind of energetic activity. i appreciate your input, don't think that i am trying to shut you down! i just can't help but chime in when i read something that is somewhat oversimplifying female sexuality

also, i wanted to add that i love david deida. i think all men should read his books. and for that matter, i think all women should read his book called "its a guy thing". so many women fail to understand the true nature of men, what drives them, and are constantly disappointed because they expect men to communicate the same way that us women do. i found that book very enriching, without being too heavy on the psychology side of things. it is simple and straight forward, and i think most women would really benefit from it. i can only assume the same is true for his male-oriented books.

wondeful post cat:D thank you! i can attest that pretty much everything you said is true. i have found that clitoral orgasms have taken a back seat the more open i become, and the closer my partner and i are. we definitely experience the orgasmic bliss from a variety of touches, not just the mainstream "sexual" stuff you would think about. we spend hours cuddling sometimes, and as cheesy as it may sound, we have incredible energy exchanges that way, it is extremely powerful! but indeed, the most intense polarity is between the penis and the cervix. if you can have an orgasm from cervical stimulation, oh man, that is a whole new energetic ballgame

Mal, thats good to know! i just checked and i have version 4.2 guess i need to downgrade. edited..

pure joy. dancing is universal love

if this is a "normal" detox reaction due to any of your practices, i would think that it would come and go naturally within a few days, that it wouldn't become a longstanding problem. i believe that this can happen though, with intense practices that are not well balanced, causing heat to accumulate in excess in certain areas of the body, etc. i had something similar happen to me last year following an acupuncture treatment. there was nothing that special about my treatment, i was going regularly. but later on that night i started feeling itchy on my abdomen. i eventually looked and had big red splotches, like hives almost. they were symmetrical red areas on both sides of my abdomen. tried to think of what i ate that day, what i may have touched, and nothing came to mind. i chose to relax and not panic about it. as the evening went on, the red marks moved around my body, following meridians. it was very bizarre! at some point i had lines going down and up my legs following exact meridian paths. when i noticed this i kind of relaxed and figured i was letting out some serious toxins and heat following my treatment. it did get worse overnight, my legs even swelled up a bit and the redness was up to my neck by the next afternoon. i went to see my acupuncturist again and he did some work on me to help release everything that was coming up. that treatment was intense, a had a powerful release of emotions, i cried my eyes out and i just couldn't stop. all this sadness came to the surface. i felt so relieved when i left. the hives were gone the next day.

thank you, i look forward to it. peace.

there are no shortcuts. period. i am not familiar with that program, but i use something similar sometimes, called holosync http://www.centerpointe.com its interesting and fun to use once in a while. definitely brings you to a deep meditative state. but it is still no replacement for the real thing, in my opinion

oops, i just realized i said something that is completely wrong jade stone is YIN, not YANG. which is why it is so receptive and can be used to absorb and remove negative qi, like cat mentioned. for some reason as i was writing my earlier post i was thinking of the shiva lingam stone, which i recently acquired. those are considered very yang, thus their name. jade would be the counterpart of the shiva lingam. i got the lingam stones to simply hold during meditation, but i plan to use them internally as well and compare the energies of both. i should do that this week...

oh what a lovely idea, i have never cleansed it in salt! very interesting. i have not tried charging it in the sun either. i am going to do that right now actually, all that lovely sun yang energy... yum! also, one more thing i wanted to mention, is that eggs come in many different sizes. i have a set of 6 eggs of varying sizes. it can be fun to play around with bigger or smaller eggs, obviously the smaller they are the harder they are to control or even feel at first. but for some women the smaller ones are more comfortable.