ShaktiMama

I did advise you before to see a peer of mine, Angelique. She has great skill in helping bring self awareness to people who have complaints like yours around self esteem and male/female relationships. You are obviously not getting the help you seek in Bums. You are using bums as a crutch and as a way to not get help? s

In my experience, most men that I meet are not a$$holes. I love and adore most of the men I know and I am particularly fond of alphas. They also know how much I love them. They love me back and give me respect. I can also say to them, "you are behaving like an a$$hole, stop it." You gotta love yourself first, and not in an a$$hole,PUA, hubric way. Smart, wise Women love authentic confident gentlemen. Wins out over "hotness" any day. s

write this down in gold and place it above the tao bums banner. s

bonus points for creative use of blue chux, pipette wrapping, non latex gloves, and bio hazard waste bags. bravo...

My first thought, "if people wanna start their day with a good laugh...watch me do my practice."

When I first saw this title a few days ago my thoughts were, "who is talking about the tree of life in the Garden of Eden?" My second thought, no, that is not a bummish topic of convo around here. Maybe he means the Tree of Life in Kaballah. I looked deeper into your intro topic and I thought, oh crap...now we are gonna see a flame war of biblical proportions. I was born into a religious fundie family and went to a fundie baptist bible college. Both Jerry Falwell and I are alumni so that kinda gives you insight into the philosophical underpinnings. You can't con a con artist and you can't play a playah. This game is a very old one. And it comes down to ego stroking. Bringing up a topic like this is like ...well... bringing up ID in a Harvard genetics class. I vote for moving this convo to the pit because it is so inflammatory, involves belief systems all around which generally aren't logical, and does nothing to promote peaceful co-existence. blessings, Shaktimama

not my lawn furniture, dammit. the cats have domain over that. s

http://www.sendspace.com/file/84y9ni password: Bedrock ( i cant remember if it is a capital B or a lower case b ) doesnt cost anything to upload or download. an exercise I did in 1992 to start finding out what were the underlying beliefs present in my life. what do you know about yourselves? this will help you start the process of understanding yourselves. this is something from the study group I run on thursday nights on skype. no charge, no dogma, interfaith at times. shaktipat, prayer, and support is offered. We have about a steady group of 10 right now but we could probably handle about 50. it's about practical spiritual evolution. my skype ID is susanacarlson My location is denver, co

These freebies are created by me so no worries about copy right violations and stuff. Download and share as you would like. No charge to access the site or to download. http://www.sendspace.com/file/l26i81 The Living Universe Password=thursday This is a preview of some of the things we are studying in my Thursday night group. No charge to attend but I know plenty of you live in different time zones. I do post free stuff several times a week for my students. http://www.sendspace.com/file/3u1wmu Lifting Depression with Cellular Cleansing password=hypnosis so many bums seem to be sad or unhappy. I hope this helps. It a no frills session. later Santiago is going to upgrade it with high production values when he has time. enjoy, s

o.m.g I just about choked on my hot chocolate. good thing it didnt come out my nose.

even regular medicine will tell you not to do that. i had some friends who heard that such and such a martial arts icon was know to drink a glass of salt water every day. well...ya know...if a little works lets try a little more. the worst thing one can take when they have diarrhea is salt tablets..it will kill you

It means nothing to me.

good thing...because having the hershey squirts all day is all kinds of unpleasant.

Gratitude and gratefulness. Brings on the bliss rushes and sighs of happiness every time.

Have a great weekend and blessings to all mothers and all men who know how to mother. This video has nothing to do with Mother's Day but it is captures my mood right now. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gj_BbsOp7wY

sounds good to me. the interesting thing when that state happens, my physical body becomes paralyzed and can not move. So in the ordinary reality my body is vulnerable. The first time it happened to me I was riding in a high speed peformance car in the middle of the night. I was not the driver. It more scared the Shite out of me than anything because I felt so incredibly vulnerable. I had not long term perspective to put it in context because this was all sudden, new, and spontaneous. my consciousness wasn't lost, just an expanded infinite upgrade. the connection to my meat suit was lost. hmmm...more questions to ponder on the couch with the kittehs

like I said before cat a few posts ago something like....it is difficult to talk to a three year old whose egocentric view is he is the center of his universe and the center of your universe too. I can't expect to control the toddler's behavior. I will just frustrate myself and pi$$ off the toddler. So i just walk away for another sunny day. the toddler is incapable of thinking like an adult. that's like asking a leopard to change his spots. Also: I am curious as to why this showed up in the thread and then disappeared: View Postcat, on 08 May 2011 - 12:28 AM, said: are you aware that this sounds patronising? Please check your private messages. i received a warning from you .. it said.. After some discussion, the moderator team is here issuing a private warning to you about your recent belittlement of others and offensive attititudes to women and children. After 3 in - thread requests from mods to be more civil, you have been given fair chance to modify your approach, therefore a repeat offence from you will result in a suspension. since when did i ever put down women and children? i merely say that the dramas of spouses.. men and women.. and screaming children are detrimental to cultivation.. this has been quoted by too many spiritual teachers in the past including shakyamuni buddha.. and now i get a warning for saying the truth? you are a woman, yes? if you are a woman, then a man would be detrimental to your cultivation.. yes.. so are you gonna put me down for criticizing men now? didn't i say that one must love a woman or a man like a sister or brother without any lusts in his thoughts in order to achieve the highest states of consciousness? what's the matter? can't handle the damn truth now so your ego is gonna shut me down? hey, i don;t give a damn.. shut me down for all you like.. the only people who's gonna lose out are your readers..

the subconscious lies to protects it's survival programs. I would investigate that practice a little closer.. The subconscious is invested in maintaining the status quo. be well... and god looks after fools and children...you will be fine in India. happy trails.

the subconscious lies to protects it's survival programs. I would investigate that practice a little closer.. The subconscious is invested in maintaining the status quo. be well... and god looks after fools and children...you will be fine in India. happy trails.

it doesn't sound patronizing to me, Cat. Just ill informed.

I am starting to feel like I am trapped in a bad 80s sitcom or movie. Everything is starting to sound like parody. I will leave you with this observation and move on.

are you speaking from out of personal experience or from wistful hopefulness? be careful how you respond because most of us who have been around for awhile will know whether or not you are telling the truth...