i'm in richmond... i haven't yet attended, but the meditation/mindfulness group in richmond (meets in maymont park many times) seems like a good start for you. you can find them at the meetups.com site, just type in "meditation" for richmond, va.
also, i may start teaching tai chi again (probably around byrd park/carytown area)- in a couple of months when it gets warmer. there's a couple of other tai chi instructors around- one formal group that teaches wu style, and another guy or two that teach yang. i've never met them (the latter two), so i'm not sure of the quality/content, but at least it's a start. if you can't find them online, i'll see if i can dig up there contact info.