Seriously.....
How many of you remember the good old days before
hand held/computer technology took over our lives?
Remember gas at 40 cents a gallon?
Remember rotary dial phones that the
"phone company" owned inside your house?
Remember having to do so many things "face to face"?
Things were both harder to accomplish, and simpler to understand.
I believe that true communication was imparted in a more personable
way because there was no choice but to do it that way.
Look at the concept of consideration as it exists within our society today.
Why are people so inconsiderate?
Why is it ok to constantly use foul language in public today?
I remember one of the first jobs I had was as a busboy at a small diner
in the town where I grew up. The year was 1981, I was 16.
The diner was owned by two Greek brothers who ruled with an iron fist.
They would go on and own in the back room/kitchen in Greek, Malaka this and
Malaka that and wow. (Malaka means...M*****F*****!) But on the floor
they were the models of decency. Besides they would only swear in Greek.
So.. one day these two guys came in, both in their early 30's and were
sitting at a both and were carrying on a fairly loud conversation,
when the F word was plainly heard.
I swear to you ....everyone in that diner stopped what they were
doing and turned to look at these two guys...the entire place was
a complete hush. The guys realized this immediately and apologized,
paid their bill and left.
Fast forward to today... you could be anywhere, and you will hear
all kinds of language being used and no one saying a thing about it.
When I was growing up...if we did something questionable, it didn't matter if my
parents were around or not, any adult around would say something and interject
into the situation. Consideration was everyone's innate responsibility.
I wonder if the disassociation caused by all the barriers
that technology represents, has gotten us to this point?
Thoughts?
Peace!