Hi,
Another great read is "Your Money or Your Life" by Joe Dominguez and Vicki Robin. Highly recommended, I read it about 12 years ago and re-read it several times.
http://www.amazon.com/Your-Money-Life-Transforming-Relationship/dp/0140286780
Money is just an energy. You want to be strong to all aspects of your relationship to money, including earning it, saving it, and spending it.
Regards,
-Adam