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heaven-chi, I'm sure you know already some people believe in magic and others dont. The fact is you have been given enough material here to work with. Plus you have a teacher. That's it. It's up to you now to utilise with pure intent what tools you have. Doing these practises, taking these measures, will still your mind. Good Luck.

Is there somewhere online that those that are interested can find answers to their questions about these Wang Liping courses advertised here?

You were licky (sic) ( not licky sick) that you went through the Kipling Gateway and walked toward the light. Think of the many that never made their way out of the darkness of Bought Cake hinterlands. No dont think of them, it's too difficult. Just think of this: today I made a chocolate cake with beetroot in it. To the "Mange Kipling" brigade, this would be considered an alien cake. Reality, eh?! It's like a gateaux, in it's complexity.

Interesting, thanks for posting. I like the 'modes of existence'.. the "Zone Being" bit is very familiar from back of eyelid experiences during meditation. Really good to see it. If I know how to make it my avatar here, I would. Also, yeah, ninpo.. we are 'aliens' too... we are the cake aliens. The enemy is Kipling, pushing false cakes amongst the masses.

The thing is, the two things are not mutually exclusive. It isnt a polarity.

Thanks for making that clear.

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You're welcome. I'm not broken but I answer anyhows...You could ask, and it would be ideal if you said hello, introduced yourself, made an offering, opened your heart etc, before asking for help. Be polite, be kind, be generous with yourself to the trees, if you would like reciprocity. Good Luck.

SOUR CHERRY <- bacon! -> O, C, U R Sherry!

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An excellent magician who can do protection magic is Jason Miller. He will do it for a fee. He has written a first rate book "Protection and Reversal Magick." You can google him and find his site.

This is such a great tri - partite model to integrate, for all manner of things that one wish to work on. And the most elegant effective solution to the thread issue. Beautiful .broken.

markern, I was going to mention the spleen but didnt want to be too daunting.. working on the spleen is essential and not a job one is about to 'finish' anytime soon. Initial results can be very helpful with the secret smile and healing sounds. On a deeper level, going into the spleen is to make contact with the infinite inside oneself in an even more contactful way than any other organ.. more hidden than any other organ.Like going into mother earth.It is the home of the Yi, being the earth aspect.. it is about being able to take in, to digest, to process, to think and feel coherently.. helping the spleen is vital to being able to feel. A weak spleen will lead to worry and over thinking.. tonifying the spleen would be an ideal task for all the people who think about relationships all the time but dont actually have one.. in our culture it is easy to feel undernourished, and therefore underconfident and lacking in trust. Strengthening the spleen will help counteract this mind set.

I agree with you. If you do magic right, it works. If you are connected to the source, you can do sorcery.

Yes, agree it just goes on and on unravelling more and more layers of stuff. Onion! Congrats on doing the work. Kidneys- fear - anxiety. getting intimate brings up a lot of fear, no?! I generally have turned in the opposite direction and run when I sense I am facing a new amant that will inevitably shake me up and show me some edges in myself. Really, I find you cant leave any organ out, eventually, they are all in there, making us who we are, and a love relationship or a sexual liason of any impact, is going to involve a lot more of us than we might at first glance imagine. I know what you mean about thinking you aint gonna be attracted to someone fugly and such. HOWSOEVER! I have loved someone 'old' when I was young and perfect, at an age when signs of age and decay should repel, I found them touching. I do believes we can surprise ourselves when the shen are in alignment between two beings, so much is possible.

heh. then you suffer from conflict! My first boyfriend, when I was 15, was someone I tried so hard to find enthralling or even interesting, in truth. I resorted to gazing at his profile while he talked. He was the school heart throb and I thought I "should' date him, because of his looks and reputation, so how could I say 'no'??! I suffered boredom whilst enjoying social success. Swings.. roundabouts...

aaw, super cool, I'm sure lil guy is molto gorgeousness. I was 'an accident' too, so I'm all in favour of us. Thanks KK. xx

heh heh, yes, I understand well enough, I have two children. ( both not accidents!) Interesting, the issue becomes one of trust. Respect to you for quickly reaching the core/root issue of every love and sex question we could ever think of , probably...

I see this, it is painful to see. The over opinionated unfeminine woman and the marshmallow man in her pocket. Solutions are manifold. The first thing is for the issue to be recognised, and as you said, it is easier for those outside the issue to see it. Women with weak Yin are very truculent beings, often competetive with men and keen on power, with an unfluid mind set, a harshness about them that precludes genuine humour, and a need to be right! Men who are weak in themselves find these kind of women reassuring.. being hen pecked is better than no peck at all.. eh? Men need positive male role models and male company that achieves and respects itself. Get out and fish and raft and do your aikido or drumming and playing in a band or whatever it is. And dont be a vegetarian. The women with weak Yin have often responded to their father with an overweening mixture of awe and fear, so that the 'male' seems something that they must match and compete with, and the feminine is intrinsically undervalued in them, and is something they reach out to only nominally with a reactive quasi 'feminism' whilst holding no real femininity inside themselves. It is such a common configuration, the woman complaining about the plight of women, who actually is very unwomanly, and the woman closest to her, who is suffering from having no rights, is the one in her psyche. Weak Yin needs to learn to love the receptive, the non linear, the blossoming and the process, to let go of competing with men, of proving anything to men, of trying to please daddy, of trying to be the best, and just to melt in to her body and heart, to stay outside of logos oriented solutions. I think David deida offers great solutions to this issue in his work.

Yes, your response is very common and it expresses exactly our conditioning that we simply cannot intimately know our bodies, that they must be dealt with mechanistically from without for reliable results, as our own knowing could not be reliable. (I would say that if there was an unconscious desire to conceive, then an egg could be released post coitally so that the sperm could be utilised whilst in situ...but this is my own felt belief rather than any factual knowledge. I had the intent not to conceive, so I didnt feel I would sabotage my own body.) However, for those who are able to embrace the method I described, the success rates are steady and great good things evolve from the couple knowing the womans body so well. IME there is as it stands, no better method of contraception for those having physical sex incorporating ejaculation. A woman who can recycle ovarian energy is in a great position, using that, and the cervical juice method.

Is good question. You probably know that women can track their cycle and get to know their body juice well enough to figure when they are fertile or not. It is pretty simple once you know how. The cervix emits welcoming copious fluid when sperm will flourish, very come - hither fluid, easy to swim in. The rest of the time the cervical juice is less swimmable in. (that's the 2- mins -before- the- exam version of this topic, you can buy books on it if really interested) I also have removed energy from ovaries when dont want to conceive, but this is secondary to above practice and is combined with being erotically creative during fertile periods.

ha, what causes attraction differs according to what stage of development you are at. If your locus of evaluation is externally located, you will go for the 'trophy wife' or 'hot girlfriend', or the husband who will impress your father if you have over - awed by Daddy issues etc etc If your locus of evaluation is located internally, you will go for someone who makes you laugh and smile and makes you want to listen to what they have to say about everything, and confide in them, and regularly push them on the sofa. Simples, no?

I actually meant for protection of your cranium.. as an animus driven woman - and any passive man can turn a woman into one of these - will find himself on the receiving end of blows to the head, wether they are real or intentional, or more likely, I hope, the usual verbal whiplash that animus driven women dish out. (.....as for condoms, I been really fortunate and never used them hardly at all. For intelligent reasons: like knowing my partners and having been tested etc. I really dont like them much at all. I hope I dont get into the position of having to use them.) ( or maybe you are referring to construction workers!or firemen! yes, so long as they make my shen light up, any headgear is ok by me...)

For the woman who is not very free sexually, a lot of sexual fantasies are set up by her that involve her not giving permission for herself to be sexual. She is in a doctor's room, or being massaged by an anonymous person, in fact 'anonymous' fantasies altogther, are all ways a women can say "I didnt do it, it just happened"... ie avoiding responsibility for wanting sex. The masseur did it! The doctor did it! In each case, my will was overcome! ie I am innocent, it wasnt me.., she will create a compensatory figure who will force her into a position where she must give herself. So for the woman who is free sexually, and who needs to be surrendering her whole self and be ravaged by her loving lover, she can make that happen with her partner, by opening more and more into her ecstacy. If he isnt a milquetoast, he will respond and open more and more into the flowering polarisation, in which case no fantasy ever needed. The dynamic of stalk and lotus enacts and reenacts so that their world is thrust into alchemy and fountains into being over and over again. Ever renewing, mutual replenishment, the dynamic of opposites resolving itself creatively. etc, so to speak, and so on.

I agree 'dominance' is not neccesarily what is attractive or needed. Actually, speaking for myself, I think dominance is often unnattractive and repellant. I think taking the initiative is what is attractive and needed, by women, in men. Not all the time or every time, but... enough of the time that the female can relax and do what she wants to do, which is be responsive. When men are playful, the woman can relax seeing that the man can take the ball and run with it, is creative in himself, buoyant.Someone who can respond quickly and creatively creates a space for the feminine not to have to be in caretaking or feeding role. If passsivity is being unable to take initative.... this isnt actually an ideal quality in a man in relation to women, unless he wants an animus driven women. In which case, good luck and make sure you have a safety helmet.