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It's funny how if I am attracted to someone I want to smell their neck up close. I love the feeling of that kind of wanting, it is no-mind instinctual in such a pure way. btw, not just randomly associating...I'm answering to TaoMeow's mentioning pheromones. Here's a voice that suggests to me a truly sniffable neck - this is the first voice outside my family that I ever recognised, as a child. www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuPO2Kvqlms Mal.. I LOVE that programme so much it is pure delight. (I have forgotten how to embed vids, sorry.)

Also.....If you are concerned that you are shooting out lightning bolts, Carson, get your feet on the earth and your hands on a tree. And imagine those things, even if they arent nearby. I used to put Bonsai trees in my bedroom when the babies were little.. it just felt right.

Carson, hello. And congratulations. I hope your wife is feeling good, well and happy. I used to breast feed my younger son while running the orbit and doing all kinds of chi breathing, with a red hot spine. It was completely fine and my son is quite quite wonderful... so be reassured.. Your heart is so in the right place, your baby will be basking in the love from you, and is no doubt basking in it now, already... I think the 'voltage ' of your energy will be something the baby is used to by the time she arrives. With my first son, when, toward the end of my pregnancy he wouldnt move so much, I would send him a love burst and a thought message 'you ok?' and I'd get a little kick in response. Babies are super clever! Plus, they are gorgeous and lovely. Nice to see you here Carson.

I'm going to try this too. Santi, thanks for your input here. You do realise I am spooked to smithereens waiting to hear about the anunaki from you? ( some other thread about a film) Not at nutella level, but still..

btw Freeform, Pozzani took my post code and checked my water and told me there is no fluoride added to it. But it is 'hard'.

the spiral thing is interesting isnt it.. because it would be nice to have one's water spiralled for one. but we are working with chi, and chi spirals. what if one embedded something with chi and put it somewhere relevant to the water pipes.. or just add the spirit of water to your altar, real or intentional.. I think I'm going to get a Pozzani under my sink, Freeform, thanks for the headsup. The next stage is getting creative with the water. I think the water deserves some love.

Well, thankyou everyone. I read and have been digesting your responses and I can see that it is going to be a multifarious approach. (Why do I persist in believing there will be ONE approach to things.. duh!) I'm going to try various methods and will report back. Freeform, at the Ian link, there is an 'amazing water egg' which I feel very drawn to.. it's beautiful! I do agree with Ya Mu about blessing one's water, and Rainbow_Vein, I do believe that the amount we can have an effective intention is dependant upon our own good alignment and clearness. Joe, I like your magnetiser too. Want one!

Thanks for answering Kameel. I like the 'ah' exercise, it's a good one for body awareness, nice and simple and effective. Immortal Sister, that is a v. good acupuncturist! When I would go to the acupuncturist, I'd start hearing my own voice as I was speaking to them ... and I had no sophisticated sense of my imbalances but I'd know I didnt sound balanced..

water working on itself.. it's absolutely balanced...

bumped, to make freeform laugh again.

By what methods do you cleanse and energise your water, Paul?

AAARGH!!! You have to come back and tell us more, or are just trying to freak us out?! Nobuthonestly!

yes, and some people who poop are beautiful to behold and very desirable, or wise and inspiring. others who poop are not. How do they relate once they have finished discussing toilet paper?

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Hi Blasto. Hagar wrote some nice stuff about this, we had a good thread. I hope you can find it doing a search.

Okay. Never mind the cake. If you are interested in finding out about the unconscious reward ie pay off for playing the victim you could try 'games people play' by Eric Berne. then you would understand. It's a very helpful book. So that would give you psychological insight, and doing some basic taoist practises that you could find easily by googling, would give you practical tools for 'transforming stress into vitality'. good luck

The idea is that we humans dont perpetuate any form of behaviour or feeling unless we are getting a return on our investment. Usually we are unaware of our 'pay off' ie our 'return on our investment' when the situation is one in which we consciously believe we are wishing to drop. If you think of it in a fairly straightforward familiar scenario : I dont want to be fat. I wont eat as much. That looks like a nice cake. My husband is here now. Gosh he's such a pain in the arse. What a nice cake that is. Anyway, I want to be slimmer! I dont want my thighs rubbing together any more when I walk! Ugh, I hope my husband isnt expecting to get laid tonight. I'll just check out that cake.... The pay off of being fat, here, is not having to deal with the husband's gaze being lustful. And also not being slim enough to feel confident about going off and finding a new husband.. but still the woman consciously believes she wants to diet. Does that make sense ?

Kameel this sounds so interesting a book, and I know I would never manage to read it, so for once I'm going to save my pennies and ask something . If you have it in your heart to give us more examples of voice types we all know and the concommitent organ condition, I would be fascinated. I have noticed many times my own voice changing according to practices and level of practice, and how safe I feel. It's very interesting. I think we instinctively know a huge amount about someone from their voice, and it isnt a conscious knowledge. I'd love to get it more conscious.

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Figure out what your pay off is in obsessing about someone who has gone. It must be quite a big pay off. Maybe it means you dont have to make the effort to shift from stuckness and take responsibility for her lack of interest in you. And the fact that no woman is interested in you at the moment. That would be quite a big pay off, wouldnt it.

Hi slimjim. What you are feeling is normal for a person with a propensity for kinaesthesia, who is in situation that allows for this sensitivity. Maybe you are in love or have been doing lots of work on yourself or are a naturally awake - in - the - body person. I feel the way you describe, too.

It doesnt cause any problems. You will find that after practising a while, the tongue stays in position on it's own anyhow. After that you will find you want to stretch it further back the roof of your mouth. Then, the only problem is not being able to get it as far back as you would wish.

hi JK - I like those videos. I watched them before on youtube. They voice of the man is the Kriya yoga man,I forget his name, I like him very much. He has a lot to offer.

hopefully as a taosit practitioner one will have by one means or the other already internalised this process so that it is what happens automatically on one's moment of death, if one has not allowed one's hun and po to scatter. not allowing one's hun and po to scatter is a technique we practice via taoism, each day. so we have to stay present in the dao at death, basically. easy peasy.