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I just had a beautiful here at my home as a visitor... we spoke about a similar if not the same subject: I think that we need to realize that while everybody seems to understand "hate" as hate" it is not the same with "love". Ask the people you know and you will get different answers as what they understand "love" is... Can we have live without attachment? Well. Actually I feel that the usual Hollywood-trained & minded people base there relationships on need and misinterprete it as love. Think about it: usually you realize that you love somebody (in the usual sense) the moment you miss him... but that in actuality is the sign for "need"... I do agree that "real" love simply is there... it is a state of being, feeling & seeing things... without making any differences... free yourself from your limitations and you will start feeling it showing up... & guys: regarding the girls in Skandinavia: you are lucky to have them as they let you grow!!! (I don't mean: grow old, but grow up)!!! Harry sunshine

Have we discussed that topic already? I have read so many theories at what happens at the point of death: some say the moment you die your soul has left some say it takes a few days before the sould leaves the body and the body therefore should not be frozen I wonder what you think. Anybody who decided to spend her/his organs in case of death? What about the implications? just curious Harry

Here I am... sure not wanting to be disbusted into dust... so I introduce myself: I was born 1974 in the capital of Germany. Life wasn't always easy... but somehow I managed to finish school apply for university and become a sociologist. While sociology was my main subject, psychology & philosophy had been the secondary ones. After 2 years of studying all that I got bored. I had the answers I was looking for at that time and was on search for something else: As at that time I was learning some Southern Style Fighting Tai Chi and had looked into the subject of asian philosophy I made myself familiar with acupuncture and the like. And soon the decision was made: I WANTed to become an acupuncturist. But the road there isn'T easy. While in the United States you can get a license for acupuncture if you get trained at special schools, in Germany you can learn acupuncture whichever way you like, BUT in order to be allowed to practice (and earn money) you either need to be a qualified medical doctor... or health practitioner... I decided to apply for university again. Meanwhile my interest was raised in Energy Psycholgoy: EFT, BSFF etc. And today I want to become a Psychiatrist/Psychotherapist who will utilize Energy Pychology, Acupuncture etc. in his practice. I just have to make my mind up if I get into "grown-up"-Psychiatry or "children-youth"-Psychiatry... don'T know for sure yet... Regarding the Healing Tao system: I learned about it some 10 years ago... I ent to an acupuncturist who had learned with Chia and soon I learned a bit from her and then I met a friend of her who organized courses for Chia in Berlin and soon I helped her organize... and here I am Harry PS: By the way: I am 1,90m in length, weighing 75 kg and... just in case someone is interested...

Hey Sean. Once again a very cool idea. It's very interesting to read all those "little" bios... although it is none of my business... was it necessary to close down the other forums for access if one does not have a password? just curious... >>In some ways it's kind of a drag they make you do this whereas in America, we can just go to a specialized school, but on the other hand it probably makes German accupuncturists highly skilled, do you agree?"<< I've just got to look to the United Kingdom close to me... they have "acupuncturist" as fully accepted job. You get your training, do your exams and there you go... Germany sometimes really is a strange country... Although we sure get a good medical training I do fell that it mostly depends on yourself... health practitioners can be as good as doctors or even better depending on how much time and interest they invest. There are many doctors you wouldn't want to go do if you knew what is really happening behind the curtains you know... and thankx for expressing that you feel that I am a "determined soul"... I am a Tiger you know. thankx much for keeping up the forum. It is one of the greatest I've been to Harry

What shall I say... weren't the messages before not focussed on Tai Chi masters making up false stories about others?

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I more thought of you "h..."... Harry

I am curious: use your fingers to slap the sacrum (try several places), light, soft, hard whatever way... with the top of the fingers or the fingers slapping flat on it... can you feel the nerves that insert your prostate/perineal area? I do looking forward to get your results Harry sunshine

WOW. Although I am not yet sure if it is the coccyxc moving or really part of the sacrum... I wasn't aware that this really works... VERY COOL... and THANKX!!!

How are you doing it?

Just a little question, Yodaman... you haven't possibly tried shooting the Helix out of your butt by building up enormous pressure on the inside???

Hi again, written exam passed... now just the oral exam to go... quick update on sleep & supplements: just changing my mattress (now its harder than before) helped me to "naturally" wake AND get up 2 hours earlier than before, thereby reducing my staying-in-bed time from 9 to 7 hours EVERDAY... since about 2 weeks!!! supplement update: from all the supplements I have tried I can now wholeheartedly recommend the following: as basic herbal supplement: www.taostar.com their 5 Elements plus the dried rice etc. combo are brilliant at a very good price point! Super Jing from www.dragonherbs.com for Jing restoration using all that stuff has helped my pulse picture to raise from barely there to pretty full & alive for sustained energy: SPIKE & Ergopharm AMP In both cases there are non-responders & some that can't take even a little amount. To me both supplements are the VERY FIRST of the many that I tried that leave a pronounced effect. Spike has the tendency to drop in effect after continuous use ( in my case) although the developers say there is no such drop-in-effect found in their trials... Ergopharm AMP: the developers of that product advise not to take it more than 3 times a week in order for the no-loss-in-effect effect.... I swap AMP & Spike every other day... Some people just need 1 capsule of Spike. In order for me to get an effect I have to take 3 capsules. AMP I take 4 and the effect is absolutely noticable. While SPike has the tendency to make me feel more jittery than AMP and I feel it more inside my brain... the AMP effect I can feel throughout all of my body... giving me continuous feeling of energy & awakeness throughout the day (6 hours minimum) These two supplements I can wholeheartedly recommend to at least try. I have to take them on an empty stomach in order to receive the effects! the guess what part: imaginatory sexual stimulation! I remembered that an American doctor spoke about implanting an electric stimulator into sacral-nerves in cases of women with severe depression. In controlled instances an orgasm by stimulation could be induced which raised the mood... (no self-control available...) I thought about this further, did lie down on my stomach and imagined stimulation of my sacral nerves (by feathers or whatever) definitely starting of orgasmic tingling feelings... needs further exploration so far from the German soon to become medical doctor Harry ALL TAKE CARE AND ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE. NO REASON NOT TO!!! PS: the Brain Enhancer (Stephen T. Chang) formula did nothing to my memory... might be different for others...

Lezlie... because of the cramps on day 1 best to get some energy soothing herbs. contact dragonherbs.com and ask what they suggest... they won't take away your surplus of energy but only help to smoothen things out a bit... Harry on the run

Thankx much, Rex. And yeah. I'd be very happy if you could post the links... Harry

O.k. I know this if off-topic... but girls & guys. Next week I am going through a 5 day-exam session in medicine... THIS TIME I WANT TO PASS THE FIRST TIME... so. In case you have some time to ask the universe to be of cooperative help to me that would be immensely apprecitaed. We have to answer multiple-choicequestions. 1 out of 5 answers is correct and quite often 3 are quite clear so that it leaves you oscillating between two maybe-possible answers... I ask the universe to lead me to choosing always the right! thankx in advance. Your help is much appreciated... Harry

Bowing to the Divine in you, RJ. And don't worry. I will become a Psychiatrist!!!

If you want to learn about terminology you might want to contact David Twicken. He is trained in Chia's art and practices Ba Guang Acupuncture... Harry

Ah man. I know. I am the oldh-Harry over there... luckily it does not have that much to do with luck... but with "hard"-work... Harry

Spyrelx & Yoda most of the troubles I mention I really had/have, but I have already found my own conclusions to it through discussions of the past. Thing is: there are still some things I just don't get and want to be sure about & you guys and all that responded have helped me a lot to see through the "forest of confused information"... THANKX Harry

Craig. I am not that sure that you are right here. While it is said that the semen energy vibrates and can be circulated through the Orbit or whatever the intention sure is NOT to loose the substance... Stephen T. Chang compares one portion of semen to nutrients gotten from (let me quickly look it up): Here it goes. He says that this is according to scientific evalutation: one portion of ejaculate is as nutrient dense as two steaks, 10 eggs, 6 oranges & two citrus the idea behind not ejaculating is that the semen actually gets broken down & its nutrients reabsorbed... at least that is how I understand it... Harry

According to Michael W Maneewan wasn't really that much into the practices, if I got ir right from his webside. He even said somewhere that it was purely for marketing reasons to put her name on a book. Regarding stopping menstruation: I thought it was meant to much easier than semen retention, basically circling the breasts and that's it... could never try though... Harry

Sorry for the mixup. 'THANKX SO MUCH TURBO MAN!!! And thankx for recommending the yoga balls thelearner... will think about it, but really. These Chi Rollers are GREAT!!! I actually use two at once... Harry

Well hagar. In that case all I can say is you are lucky to have such a partner!!! Harry

>> If you just want to have the pleasure, but feel drained with ordinary sex, have sex more slowly, and consiously, and by this avoiding the danger of getting too excited.<< See hagar. The 3 finger method brought me problems as well. The main that I damaged my urethra which lead to the development of scar tissue. But the things is that I applied it wrong as I didn't know better at that time. If you miss the point you exert about direct pressure on the urethra which can definitely damage it. If you press the right point (although I still have trouble understanding how it really works from looking at the anatomy books) you do not hit the urethra directly and actually can not really damage it that way... The problem with moving more slowly, as you advise, is simple. If your ejaculation reflex is "quick" you can move as slowly as you like, but the reaction will still be quick... I think we very much have to differentiate the "normal" guys with those that have premature ejaculation trouble (and as I recently read about 30 to 40% of the male population actually are confronted with that)... the "normal" guys have a much easier time to learn the other techniques... those with PJ might have to rely on the Fingers first... Harry

Spyrelx >>So reaching around back in the midst of lovemaking to ram fingers into your perenium is not really what you want to be aiming for.<< I WHOLEHEATEDLY AGREE... >>Despite what you may have read, the lock is NOT meant to be used after you've passed the point of no return. Once you get to the point were you are going to come, NOTHING is going to stop you. All you might suceed in doing is forcing it into the bladder or elswhere -- and you might also hurt yourself. If you get to the point of no return, just come and enjoy it.<< O.k. This is something I don't get. Sure it makes no sense to press the point AFTER the point of no return was reached... but I thought one is meant to press it just before the contractile phase starts & thereby close the ejaculatory duct. As soon then as the prostate starts contracting the semen would not leave towards the penis nor towards the bladder but kept back inside more to the seminal vesicles (as the outwatd flow was stopped)... do you basically say then that it originally really was meant to shut of only the "urge", to not even let the contractile phase of the prostate happen? >>But as I said above, you might want to just forgoe the whole practice and work with mind, concentration, breath, etc. Your latest post seems to imply that you're going that way anyway, and I think it's a good idea.<< Sure the way to go. Thankx for your comments Harry