Andrei

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OoS2XHSCQSA understandable, everyone wants to have the power and to get the girl

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zOc1V1FWCL0

Sorry I was misunderstood, Non, actually it was not in my mind for you to ask for sexual services in massage parlors (even if it is a current practice, and it may be a solution at some point). But what I had in mind for you was to have a foot massage. I think you could start from here and advance with baby steps according to what you feel. But you should start somewhere - you already started since you take qigong and TCM lessons on a regular basis, but as I already told you, you need some women body interaction (in an innocent sense). I suppose your shame comes from your relationship with your mother or lack of a father figure as example (usually this is the case with women issues in men, which was also in my case) and maybe the only way is to release those emotional blockages through bodywork. Clyman's method seems legit but also too brutal for you, and would be recommendable if he would be a woman, but he-s not and in my opinion doesn't apply to you. But anyway do what you feel is best. For me it was a mind-blowing experience (no sex related whatsoever) and really a eye opener to the Asian women kindness. I really felt my heart opening, which by the way you need that too in order to became a healer. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLxit4DNliw

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_S8x1EyWQI

why don't you go to a chinese massage parlor? There are plenty of girls there that are healers and helping people. I am deadly serious when I say that, I'm not joking. You need to learn how a woman touches someone, and by the way you need a lot of touching from a woman to heal your wounds. I was same as you, virgin at 24 so please follow my advices because I was like you, there is hope. First I told you to take dance lessons, because of that you need to touch somebody without talking. Massage has the same effect but is more intimate. So I really advice you to search socially acceptable situations in which you have contact with women's bodies without talking and without judging and without mental discourse. You need to empty that mind of yours because is full of shit, please believe me I was like you, I still have my issues but I am working on them. And you need to behave socially acceptable, you need to learn to smile to dress nice to be polite to smell nice you need to unlearn to be the caveman you are now (at least in your head you are a caveman). Please evolve.

You can try NLP

KEEP TRAINING!

It is called the ladder theory: http://www.laddertheory.com/ No matter how Non improves himself he always looks upper than his level. Maybe he tries to reach like minded girls but they have a different standard and he is at the bottom of their ladder. So there is no chance to you Non but to improve your own value, not in your own eyes but in the eyes of the girls. And that's the most difficult thing because you have no feedback from the girls, but if by some chance the girls will look for you to talk to you, that means they look for some value in you which was developed in the meantime.

Then it's not tui shou it's san shou.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X9PKwwu1sOo

Now I catch it

She was a tibetan monk in a previous life and now she is a super hot model that scans her dates with her third eye! And I am not joking!

I am pro both. CREATION AND EVOLUTION. I grew up with the EVOLUTION of personal computers. I saw two different species EVOLVING: PC and MAC. I saw the EVOLUTION of Windows and MAC OS. But they were CREATED by humans. THEY DID NOT EVOLVED BY THEMSELVES! They were CREATED by a superior intelligence who made them more and more complex. I see my own CREATIONS how they EVOLVE, my own software programs that I make. So my point is this: No-one denies the facts of evolution, there is plenty of undeniable evidence, but the theory of EVOLUTION BY ITSELF. The species diversify because SOMEONE made them. Once they are CREATED they EVOLVE. They were ENGINEERED. Any engineering process evolves but with the participation of a conscious and intelligent mind.That is all.

I really like what Stigweard said. Chen style that I like the most is: And this one I like because of teaching method , I really like Robot style Taichi

http://en.wikipedia....es#Electrocytes http://www.greenbang...itch_11915.html Also, please visit the Enlightment link in my signature

http://www.youtube.c...h?v=fvK0gXJaiw0

This image is made by a student of Mantak Chia, it ilustrates the Inner Smiling technique but in my opinion is about Kan&Li. Anyway I like more the M. Chia's books illustrations than the text. http://www.healing-tao.com/tao-garden/universal/en/universal-tao-posters/

There is only one way. Sublimation. Through emptiness meditation - no thinking, no visualization, nothing, just maintain the posture and let the nature follow its course. see my avatar and this link: