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Yeah, I like him because he teaches that there are 4 doorways into any woman's mind and emotions: 1. Getting her visualizing vividly. 2. Getting her to feel strong emotional connections 3. Getting her to feel strong, pleasurable body sensations 4. Getting to her core value structures BUT what he and others does not teach is how to keep the woman around. The secret is to CREATE FUTURE with her. I too can live without ice cream but when eating ice cream I prefer sharing it. I don't see any point doing things alone. Even enlightenment there is no point doing it alone. Ultimately the entire Universe is sexual. I don't believe in Oneness. I do but not here now in our state of being. I believe in Trinity: Male, Female AND Love; Male, Female AND Child; Active, Passive AND Neutral. Sexual union between the inner god and the inner goddess gives birth to Neutrality. Which after a time becomes Passivity. And after another time becomes Activity. This is not the desire, this is the way things go from the beginning of time. There is only transformation. That's how I see it.

http://www.seduction4free.com/modules/1/

Yes definitely, you should do it! Especially because you're certified by both Bruce and Mantak, you should explain the differences between them. Also please, what is your opinion about Mantak Chia's teachings in what category they fall - Water/Fire method - old taoism/neo taoism ?

no, but I had the same problem as you and this is what I observed as effects on my body. Also in shaolin monasteries and any other buddhist monastery consumption of spicy foods and garlic is avoided if not forbidden, because of the lust triggering effects. what your masters told you in the past may be true in general but in your particular case with a PENIS INFLAMMATION DUE TO EXCESSIVE MASTURBATION could not be true. also what was good for me may not be good for you but at least you can try to see what are the effects on you. ask at any pharmacy around you

Before they arranged a marriage they would consult an astrologer to calculate the 'compatibility' and the lucky periods when the marriage should be done. This was done to prevent any problems that may occur on the path since a marriage is suppose to be a 'dual spiritual cultivation' that last as long they live.

Naturally like attracts the like, and in reality opposites repel not attract, so the Fire people are attracted by Fire methods because of the easiness of their expression, and Water people are attracted by Water methods, when in reality they should do the reverse, they should overcome the first impulse of repelling, and they should get out the comfort area and do the opposite of what they are naturally attracted to do. For example I am a Water person and almost all my practices were Water method, but I found that from alchemical point of view this is wrong, so I had to switch to Fire methods in order to balance the alchemical elements. When Fire and Water are balanced either through natural expression or practice/struggle they should be practiced together in balance until is reach the Neutral state

Time does not change, time stays still We are changing There is only one constant in this Universe: CHANGE

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The Secret is just self hypnosis, self programming.

maybe he was trying a spiritual technique like the tibetan mummy found with a chord around the neck http://www.zatma.org/Dharma/zbohy/Literatu...s/20090418.html http://www.phayul.com/news/article.aspx?id=6214 http://www.mymultiplesclerosis.co.uk/stran...made-mummy.html or maybe he was trying to get high, not necessary for auto-erotic reasons. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choking_game

sorry, English is not my mother tongue, yes I meant bald.

I didn't understand what is the color of your semen? white and thick or almost transparent? Pre-cum comes from the Cowper glands near the prostate, and a hyper production of the pre-cum shows that the prostate is inflamed/grown due to too much DHT, see this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pre_cum http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/5-alpha-reductase_inhibitor I would suggest you visit Dr. Lin's website www.actionlove.com and search there similar cases. Maybe even buy some of his products that restore the hormonal balance in your prostate. In taoist terms I would say that is too much fire in the prostate area - maybe due to your cultivation - and I think that breaking up with your woman would be a big mistake. Maybe you have too much DHT production due to too much testosteron production (are you hairy, are you bold, have you high libido?), and a very cheap method to restore the balance would be to drink soymilk and to eat green beans (mung beans), lentils, soy products.

Like what methods? do you have an example?

how about "what you seek in life is already seeking you - but not yet found each other" and "where you are is where you want(ed) to be - but you changed your mind and want to be no more"? Yes, definitely maybe I was thinking to reframe the whole pick-up theory into the five elements/shens taoist paradigm. In my observation the "naturals" are already with Shen spirit (Heart Fire) in excess, and this is my explanation why they are cocky and funny and confident and happy and charming and all that qualities that women find attractive. And all the famous pickup artists I know like Ross Jeffries, Mystery, David de Angelo are kidney-liver deficient, exception maybe Stephane Hemon - it can be seen on their faces Not everybody have big heart, so they try to find something to compensate or to simulate having a big heart, and yes I think ultimately the Shen cultivation through compassion and love, heart centered approach will create the women magnetism. Drew Hempel is the best example that come into my mind right now.

Fractionation is when you create a pleasant mental state - which in terms of hypnosis is called "trance" then you shut off the stimuli that create the pleasure, shutting down the trance. Then after a certain amount of time (seconds or minutes) you create again the same pleasant state, but the second time the pleasure is much more powerful - the trance is deeper. This can be seen in stand up comedy or in all media - tv, cinema or advertising.

you are totally right Kate, I am all for love just that I like many others guys are missing the first link, the first step on this journey

By imagining you increase the sexual fire up to the point you discharge your load in the sleep having sexual dreams, so whats the point?

and all of them are attracted to alpha males while the beta males worship or ignore them and that is why they respond to emotion, imagination, trance words, framing, mirroring, push-pull, anchoring, fractionation, escalation like all people. the best material out there and the easiest to understand and to apply I found to be www.datingtorelating.com, also the cheapest. it shows all the way from getting the girl you want , escalating with her and keeping her in a longterm relationship or the relationship that you want.

I would formulate the law of attracting women like this: "The more you f_ck with her brain, the more she will want to f_ck you; The more you worship her, the more she will f_ck your brain"

for Little1:

It's just a normal phenomenon, maybe you succeed to connect to Heaven energy, which is Yang or Light and it begun to penetrate your being, or at least to consciously perceive it. check these videos for more info on the subject: http://www.dailymotion.com/relevance/searc...-pt3_shortfilms http://www.dailymotion.com/relevance/searc...368686561646572 If you begin to have OBE's just don't cling on them and don't search to achieve them because this is a trap is a sidetrack that eventually will lead you to become a ghost after physical death. The final goal is spiritual immortality and enlightenment and this is a very long journey that will take a lifetime maybe several lifetimes. And we need all the lessons in the real physical life for this purpose, it's a mistake to live only in the world of imagination/visions. Meditation should give you the clarity of seeing the real world. This is just my credo.

Super!!! The same explanation as Gurdjieffs regarding immortality: first you must create the astral body (the ghost), then the mental body which is immortal inside our sun system, then divine body which is immortal outside maybe in the entire universe.

http://www.scribd.com/doc/7052360/Mantak-Chia-Dark-Room

I don't know but it's better to buy from an asian store than supermarket (if you live in a country where there are asian immigrants) because soy milk from supermarket has a lot of additives while in asian stores have only soybeans and water and maybe cane sugar as sweetener