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Hi guys I have never dwelled into the subject of semen retention so I am not familiar with any techniques or books But I have read in many books that there are taoist techniques by which you can have sex without ejaculating, Guys can you recommend me some good, real and authentic books or techniques on learning these techniques of retaining semen while still having sex Where can I learn real sexual practices ??? I hAve seen some mantak Chia books, but are those authentic ??? It is advised in almost every spiritual traditional to not ejaculate , conserve the jing How to have sex without ejaculating I am asking here because this is the first time I am dwelling in this subject and I want authentic teachings, and I am sure there are many experienced people here

Well so mantak Chia is not that great But there are no other source for this type of information also That's weird situation

than how can you control your ejaculation, if you dont use pc muscles ?

I was reading a particular exercise And in that exercise the author says that there are two central meridians in the body The first one is a upward flow channel which is situated one inch in front of the spine in men and two inch in front of the spine in women The second Meridian is the downward flow which runs very close to the spine (here he doesn't explain whether it is behind or in front of the spine) So guys could anybody explain what are these two meridians ??? And their exact location ??? I thought the central meridians are to the left and right of the spine What meridians is he talking about ???

Well I think you got me wrong here Anyway what I was trying to say is that I wanna learn how to have sex without ejaculating I wanna learn taoist sexual practices I have not studied this field before I have just heard about mantak Chia books, but I have also heard bad things about them So I just wanted to know what guys here follow There must be other books and techniques besides mantak Chia, or may be mantak Chia is good and safe

thanks a lot for answering

Not a Buddhist writer, I was reading a Russian writer He also said that many martial artists use these streams If we focus on the descending stream our energy center and center of gravity also shifts downward, making the Masters immovable And if you focus on ascending one it helps you jump higher I just wanted to know is it safe to practice such channels if they don't even exist

i am quoting the author i dont think its governing and conceptual channels because they are like curves, you know not straight channels he is talking about straight channels from perinea to head

But shushumna is probably inside spine Ida and pingla are to the right and left of the spine

I was wondering What do you guys do before sitting for a meditation to relax your mind and body ???? What can we do to make our body and mind ready for meditation ???

guys i need your help i wanna mediate and progress spiritually but i have fear of dark and ghosts and paranormal things i wanna get rid of this fear because when you are in fear you cant meditate it keeps you always on check you have to meditate alone in a room and even close your eyes and that increases my fear (i know it sounds childish but i cant help) my fear increases as the day progress twards night this fear has gain strength these days, i had fear in the past but it was never inhibiting my work or anything, but i dont know what has happened these days i get nightmare every single night, i scream every night because of nightmares its amazing how can i get nightmares every single night i once had a scary dream about the room i meditate in, may be thats the reason i experience fear in my room these days but guys i really wanna get rid of this fear if you are always on check because of fear you cant relax and you cant meditate guys what can i do to eliminate this fear so i can relax and meditate properly in my room i cant change my room are there any rituals which i can do to remove this fear ? may be some buddhist or taoist ritual ? may be i can burn incense or change something in my room ? may be i can ask for forgiveness ? guys pls help, i want to remove my fear of dark and ghosts completely just thinking about not fearing wont help, i have tried i wanna eliminate this from the root, inside out, no wishful thinking

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Well we are not the real owners of this house What I know about this house is that it was probably the house of the lover of our area's king That's what I have heard, I don't know how true it is And there is treasure in my house for sure, there are many people who can sense the treasure and quite a few people have sensed treasure in my house, even told exact location But I have no interest in treasure, seriously I don't want it, and I don't wanna pursue it either But our family is living in this house from years, but these dreams only started few months ago, I don't know why

since i created this topic, i have had 2 nightmares lol i dont know what has happened, its like i am consistently getting nightmares it has just started happening from 1,2 months ago first dream i had was where i was on my bike in a rainy night, and a bus past me, someone in that bus was showing me his hand, as a sign of five after that my bike stooped near a black lady, she was young but she looked like a begger and she was trying to frighten me and my bike was not starting at that point lol and last night i saw a skeleton actually my house is quite old and there is a possibility of treasure here, but i dont want that treasure, i have no intereset so last night i saw that my aunt was saying to me that the treasure of this house slipped out of our hands, and i said i dont want this treasure pls dont even try, whoever is the owner of this treasure probably dont want us to take this but she still opened a hole on the wall of my house, and there was a well made place on the wall , like a closet to hide something and inside that closet was a skeleton in the dream we were saying that it could be of the king or someone else actually i had this treasure related dream quite a few time i have mentioned that i had a dream about my room which scared the hell out of me i saw a lady getting so angry over me , because i was trying to make a hole on the wall of my room and get the treasure her eyes were red, and she was also wearing red

hmmm well actually i do get stuck when i am faced with a situation where i have to make a choice, and choose one way between two options if thats what you are talking about

thats an interesting observation well enlgish is not my first language and as far as i remember whenever i write in english i change point of views from "i" to "you" its unconscious thing but i think when i use you i mean like i m saying generally for everybody does this indicate to something ?

i am o negative i have read that rh negative type are considered alien or something because humans must be rh positive

what if everybody just appeared out of nowhere from the great Dao

you know i might help you i belong to india, and as my family legend goes, my grand grand father was a astrologer and also magician, or something like tantra practitioner he did write his wisdom on paper but someone from my family sold all his papers for some money (i wish i could get those papers) but few days ago my grand father gave few remaining papers to my father, and guess what, whats in it , its the method of making gold i will see if i can retrieve the method, because the papers are in bad condition, i will have to put them together, and understand what he is trying to say

hi guys i have heard somewhere that weight lifting is not good for spiritual development is it true ? how does it affect ? and what do you think about bodyweight exercises ? are they also bad for your spiritual progress ?

according to my understanding charsima depends on two things the first thing is , are you doing what you actually love ? according what i have read, if you are following your path and your lifgoal if you are loving what you do and you feel satisfied and happy its like if you have opened the right door with right keys you will become magnetic, your looks will change you will become more good looking its because you are already satisfied with your life, that means you are also satisfied with your looks and charisma second thin is free energy if there is no obstruction of flow in your energy body than you also radiate charisma actually i am also interested in developing these traits like sex appeal, charm, magnetism, charisma, presence and i believe that spiritual practices are actually connected to these things i have read about many people who have used tantric techniques to increase their sex appeal so i am also interested in this topic how can we use the practical knowledge of tantra, spirtuality, metaphysics, magick, energy and increase our charm and sexual magnetism ? there are many theories but practical exercises would be great if anyone can offer

how is a real masculined man ?

i think astral projection is not related to energy body in any way read the book, i am suggesting, it actually shatters your view of astral projection and reality http://www.amazon.com/The-Phase-Shattering-Illusion-Reality/dp/1500578037 he calls astral projection, the phase We are always in the phase. The difference is that in the waking state, the phase space is straight-jacketed and stabilized by the external sensory organs. phase state follows the rules of quantum world, strange finding so basically our senses are not just perceievers but they actually stablize this reality in phase you shut the stablizers its like there is a quantum world of possiblities, when you are awake you stabelize this world and what we get is our solid reality but in phase we shut down our external sensors and enter the quatum world

how would you invoke a fictional character ? by invoke, i mean invoking that chracter and their attributes in us and exhibiting those special traits i have quite a few, fun ideas with this i have some awesome chracters in mind

Hi guys Just what is wu wei state, what is effortless action How can we live our life from wu wei ? Are there any practice techniques to achieve this state ?