I think that this may have been said by others but I'll say it again.
As soon as we start to think of ourselves as a Taoist or a Buddhist or any others ists or isms then we're separating ourselves from others.
The whole point of the Tao, to me a least, is to reject these notions of separatism from the rest of the world.
So if you think of your self as a Taoist, then surely that's paradoxical.