DreamBliss

I thought you would get a kick out of that Family Guy giant chicken fight... So are you Peter or the Giant Chicken? No, I would never say any of the stuff I said here to a woman on OK Cupid. I have no clue what the goose/gander saying is trying to say. Completely over my head. Just complaining and whining a little. Maybe looking for some sympathy. So, changing my age, good idea or not? Opinions welcome!

What does it mean to be too old for someone anyway? Anyone ever think about that? I mean obviously if I was 90 and interested in someone 20 the problems should be readily apparent. But 40 dating someone 20? Really? Where do we draw the line? Is there some unspoken rule that we can't date 10 years outside our age? Also isn't this disparity kind of fading away these last few years? Dissolving with gender roles and sexual identity? I mean obviously I have nothing to talk about with someone born in 1920. Sure. But I was born in 1975, and I share many of the same interests, watched many of the same TV shows and movies, listened to many of the same songs, played many of the same damn video games, as anyone born in the 90's! I might catch someone off guard trying to tell them about John Carmack and the origins of ID software, creators of Wolfenstien, later Doom and Quake, inventors of the whole 3D video game industry. Certainly most teens these days have no clue what the hell I am talking about here. But there is some overlap. If I spoke about Final Fantasy or Halo almost every teenager today knows what that is. This whole thing is just very confusing and frustrating. I apologize for my confrontational attitude here. I noticed after my earlier posts I heard a lot of this: Nungali Why the constant comparison to Homer Simpson? As far as I know I am not that fat or immature or stupid. Are you trying to imply something here? Honestly I feel like this with you sometimes: But especially this: http://youtu.be/EHr-B6U37Kc With a little of this: http://youtu.be/jSmj3-SrKic UPDATE: Just added a new pic.

In the sense of not giving them a chance to outright reject me based solely on my physical age, yes. In the sense of making them think I am younger than I am, long enough that they can get to know me and decide for themselves if I really am too old for them, when I feel like telling them, yes. Why is what they want more important than what I want? Or, to phrase it differently, isn't what I want just as important as what they want?

Nungali I am posting none of this at OK Stupid. Those were just the reasons I listed to justify my decision For this thread only. I am not immature. Unless it is immature to have the heart and interests of a teenager. How do you define maturity? I define it by action, responsibility, that sort of thing. I am mature by that standard. In other words, if I have $500.00 in my pocket for rent, I will go to pay it, rather than go to the video game store and buy an Xbox One. I may address some more of what you stated later. Hope I painted a clear picture of the dilemma for you.

So is that an agreement or a disagreement? Because I just got back from checking OK Stupid, got a message, was rejected because the woman didn't want anyone older than 33. I had not changed my age yet, and I asked her, in my message if that would bother her. First time I contact someone interested in men outside of the 35+ range. She says she is not interested in men older than her maximum age range of 33. But I can assure you, if you were to compare me to a 33 year old you wouldn't find much difference. If I change my birthdate, I would force women like this to at least give me a chance.

Although it goes against my desire and intention to be honest, I am thinking of changing my birthday, shaving 10 years off my age, if OK Cupid allows it. From what I can see, it does. I want your opinion, but before you furiously start typing away, please read the rest of the post. 1. I have more in common with 18-30 year old males than I do with anyone in my age range. 2. 39 is only how many trips my body has taken around the sun. You have seen my pictures. I look like I am in my 20s'. No white hair, few wrinkles, everything works. 3. I am as inexperienced in dating, love, romance and sex as someone 18, certainly not as experienced as someone 39. 4. OK Cupid has rigged it so I only get matches within a few years of my age. I am interested only in younger women. 5. Also younger women tend not to have children or been previously married. Unlike most everyone my physical age. 6. Almost every woman 18-30 is setting their maximum age range to 27-35. So far I have honored their preferences, only contacting a few who set that range to 36+. I don't intend to keep my real age a secret. After a woman has been talking to me enough to go out on a date with me, I will, at that time, tell her my real age. Now you may start typing away with your response. What do you think of this? Thank you.

"Death is coming, life is foreplay."

Well that makes sense, and would go in line with what I am saying. dustybeijing, you are right. I am showing criticism and judgment here. And tt is none of my business, at least right now. It does however become my business when I have children, if I wish to protect them from sexually deviant behavior. But I thought about this last night, and it seems to me that if we are choosing our life experiences before the womb, even if the woman I have children with, and I myself, are eating healthy, organic food we grow ourselves without any chemicals, even if we take care of every minutea of diet so that nothing could negatively affect the child to come, if that child is an expression of Source that came into the world to be transgender, or transsexual, or anything like that, there is nothing we could do to stop it. In fact trying would only ensure it happens. It always comes back to resistance. The things we fight the hardest against are the things that we give power over us. The harder we fight them, the more power they have over us. Like styruggling in quicksand. Victory can only come through not seeking victory. Through acceptance and non-resistance, using the energy of that which is not desired against itself. It would be pointless to fight against this anyway, because every child that is born may have a chosen role to play, or experience to have. Evey child is an answer to the desire of the parents, as well as the collective desire of the race. So fighting is not the answer, hatred is not the answer, resistance is not the answer. Which leaves us only with love and acceptance.

That is like Sooo not my scene...

I can not help what I find humorous, much less what someone else finds humorous. I resisted responding to the posts of Nina's... Err... Singing. But if you persist, I shall come up with something really creative... Each to their own...

I do not seek to change anyone. My practice is to be love and accept everyone exactly as they are. I do not blame them, or anything for that matter. It is not their fault, and blaming doesn't do anyone any good. I am not singling any person or group out. That is duality, us VS them. I am just stating what I think is the likely root cause of this. I call it a disease, a sickness, because that is what it is. If our bodies were meant to be transgender, they would commonly come wit both sets of equipment. If they were meant to be asexual, there would be no equipment. The common human physical equipment is what most of us guys are born with, and most females are born with. For someone to go against their natural, physical birth traits is a disease, a sickness. Just like cancer going against the body. It is not something to hate. If we each choose our life experiences before we come into the physical, then perhaps more and more of Us are manifesting these gender and sexually deviant traits in an effort to cause a change. Maybe humans will look quite different in the future. Or maybe we are freeing ourselves of our sexual oppression. It is my choice, and my right, to speculate on this all I want to. I have come from a place of hating this, to a place of practicing love and acceptance. It still bothers me. But I am working my way through it. Lots of opportunists out there to practice love and acceptance! Mankind, in general, is seriously screwed up sexually. Children are not brought into this world consciously, we mate like rabbits, we seek to control things in the mating process, we take various pills and supplements. The world around us reflects our screwed up condition. Even animals that live around humans are displaying the same gender and sexual deviancy. Then there is the whole gamut of STDs that nobody likes to talk about. I used to think these came from God. Now my opinion is that we are doing this to ourselves, that there is a change coming, and these are signs of that change. I for one am cheering it on, at least as far as getting mankind free of sexual oppression. I hope for the day we can all naked around each other and not have it be some sexual thing. That we can, each of us, freely enjoy a sexual experience with someone, and not have fear, guilt, shame and all that other crap creep in. I am seeking understand here, that's it.

Chuckling... Nungali, are you comparing me to food? Are you saying I am an exotic dish? Maybe it's lunch time over there... And you're right. Yes, I said you are right. You can print this out and frame it if you like. I do have something I can think about, that feels good. Just need to relive that moment. That should put me in an allowing space. I was struggling, thinking of what I could do, that I enjoy doing, that I could get caught up in doing, to get my mind off it. Well this will certainly help. You are also right, Nickolai1... Chances are they judge me based solely on my pictures. How can I blame them? I judge them based on pictures too. Maybe they barely read my profile or any messages I send. But it's just not worth dwelling on. There could be a million reasons why, from they are actually a dude having some strange fantasy to they are in a relationship. So worrying about the opinion of others, like in every other context, is not worth the energy or effort. The sun is shining nice and bright, maybe I'll get a chance to get out and do some yoga. Kick this cold I have acquired as of a few days ago. Get back on my high flying disc. Where I can stick my tongue out at Nungali... I really have to be at the top of my game with that guy... Checked OK Cupid, no replies, fingers crossed...

Homer Simpson is desired, for some uknown reason, by Marge: I don't even have that. The only man with less luck with women in all of human history was probably Hitler. But I rallied tonight, Quickmatched probably two dozen women, found a few that really interested me, including a gamer, a barefooter and a writer photographer like me! I have sent over two dozen messages, all of them attentive, honest, positive and upbeat. I may end up giving up, but I will go out with a fucking bang! I fucking mean it! But it still hurts. It really does. When I stop to think about it, probably before bed, I will realize just how much pain I am in. And no, I have not been practicing LoA. I just don't have any good feeling thoughts to think right now. Just operating on sheer determination at the moment. Sleep time. Try to Skype you later Michael - no promises.

Well I just got back from checking on OK Cupid. Guess what? I got another message! It was another rejection... I must be the single most undesirable and unwanted male on the planet...

I showed my dad some of this thread because he heard me laughing and wanted to know what it was all about. He was drinking a soda when I started playing that song by Nina. I think it almost made him choke, or spew it out, or something. Needless to say he got a good laugh! Same with the Katy Perry video.

My theory is that this is a symptom of a societal cause. That in fact this is a disease, manifested in response to the sexual repression found in almost all religions. The physical form gets sick because of some energetic cause or imbalance. The societal body, so-to-speak, does the same.

You can blame this on Nungali, as a direct result of some posts they made at another thread. I had this up on my YouTube channel some time ago, but took it down. As I say in the description of the video, my voice was untrained at the time of this recording. Since then I received a little training from two sources, Fiona K. and Silvia Nakkach, her book, "Free Your Voice." Still not the kind of training that most of the people you see on TV or hear on the radio have. No autotune or editing here! This thread will provide a sort of before and after, with this video being before: http://youtu.be/081rq4Nk1jA "The Impossible Dream" from "Man of La Mancha" will be the after, and I hope to have it recorded by the end of the week.

That's what I was afraid of... I will just avoid the trans-anything for now. Probably about as healthy for me as trans-fat... Thank you.

Almost sounds like she is looking for a car...

You know I can't remember right now. Blame it on Nungali...

OK, that was worth it! That was the laugh I was looking for... And something else... What in the world is with all the naked people Nungali? Well at least I am not the only one doing this stuff naked... What? Not a Katy Perry fan? Hey I still need the contact info for that new age chic - she really is awesome!

My, "DreamBliss Gears Up For Dating" thread appears to have vanished. Can anyone tell me where it went? I was looking forward to seeing the replies to my last post. As far as I knew there was nothing in that thread that was hurtful or offensive. If an authority figure would rather PM me about this, please do so. Just want to know what's going on.

Yeah I noticed. Thank you. I was wondering if I had offended the Dao Bum gods or goddesses or something...

It's back! I wonder what happened to it? What experiences did my thread have while it was away... Meetup... I think there were charges the last time I tried it so you couldn't really use it. But I will look into it. Thank you.

As far as I understand it, when you feel something deeply, this is just an indicator that it means a lot to you. It has nothing to do with its validity. That quote would have helped me out a lot when I was a Christian. Talk about feeling something deeply and believing it was true! I am so thankful I have since learned better...