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  1. Why do tai chi masters seem bored?

    Okay so you had two teachers who seemed bored to you, what does that tell you? Obviously you seek a teacher that is not bored. But why do you do that? Are maybe you bored in interacting with one and another or do you generally want more social interaction with your teacher? And there are millions of other teachers if you think of change. I would not mind him being bored, if he teaches what is right. Of course intention behind words is more important than words themselves, no doubt. This would then mean you want energy lots of exciting energy. But why shall a teacher be excited? Teachers are generally neutral until they discover a potential talent in a person. And if you like your practice, you will surely stick to it. Maybe it's a test. I had lots of them in my recent past, where people tested my spiritual stability so to speak and if I care for what they think of me. This was a brilliant learning and mirror for how already stable I am in my Self. Anyway, this topic is not about me... In any case, ask yourself what do you want - no need to answer this here, just ask yourself. EDIT: You have an inner guidance which should lead you to the right teacher. Trying only means your ego wants something and doesnt get it = failure. Drop it and see what comes "automatically" in your life. Maybe your Higher Perspective wants You to be Your Own Teacher... I dont know... I teach myself various things. Who can do it better than my Self?
  2. Solitude is important

    Yes, but please be aware that solitude is necessary to find oneself at the deepest level and then come back to society and transform society. We do not hide under rocks our whole life. That was never the case. When you live in an urban environment or even in a village on the countryside like I do, you feel the impact of society on your system sooner or later. But for this very reason we were born into it. To bring spirituality into such an unspiritual place. Everyone can build a sanctuary ontop of a mountain far away from people, but this is fantasy. It is our job to transform humankind with us in these days.
  3. Dear ones, I was born with a natural constriction in my upper arch in it's width. That means my tongue does not fit with it's natural size (width) into the palatal deepening we call upper or hard palate. For doing this, it has to fold at least to the half of it's width, crumble or I have to suck it up, so the middle part descends like here in this picture 1b is how I do it. Altho the gap in the upper reagion of the tongue showing a white void is drawn too extremely. Due to the softness of the tongue it gets all the way up almost like in 2b. But I can assure you that it definitelly does not touch the rear part of my gums, where we have the uvula. If this would be incorrect, I'm only able to do 1a, since there is not enough width in my upper jaw for a "perfect" 2a. How can one do this effectively like shown in my case? Is there generally a big difference in the flow of energy, connecting the upper region with the lower by only putting ones 3/5th of the tongue (the part which is obviously located in the mouth, since the tongue itself reaches even further down into our throat)... a bit more then only the tip of the tongue on the area right behind the upper teeth? Unfortunatelly I have no technical term for this region. I'm sure you know where I mean. Any advice, please? Kind regards
  4. I know I set the rules of my life ("programming") and as much as I would, I am still a lay person regards spirituality. Okay then, here we will practice this mudra over the next weeks. It's on my to-do-list anyway, so why not now - good suggestion.
  5. Hello dear ones, this time I have a very mundane question. And here it is: Why do I never really find motivation to take a shower? I want to add, that I am aware of how our brain can add blocks to one of our five earthly senses, so that we are not bothered by a certain feeling any longer. That goes for pain, for smell, even for taste. Taste and smell are the most common examples: You over-eat a certain food and suddenly flavor is lost. You enter a place, you smell a certain aroma and then your body adjusts to it, no mather how pleasent you initially felt towards it. That means I know that people who have a bad body odor, mostly never smell themselves. I do and this is because I am always concerned about the wellbeing of my surrounding. So I ask or if I get told I react accordingly to learn from it. I'm a vegan and mostly fruitarian by now and I can tell you, that I love every aroma by body creates. Yes, every vegan and "beyond" knows what I am talking about... when you were raised with a standard diet and used all sorts of beauty products, such as deos and shampoos over the years and suddenly "become" the deo, literally But, really... I prolong every time I think I must take a shower... I caught myself many times in the past, standing in the bathroom and doing other things, many other things before I then finally take a shower. Is it the unpleasent feeling after taking the shower, when the water dries and creates a cold sensation on your skin? In my country its 60:40 more cold:warm during the year. Hmmmm... Is there a possibly a known blocking in one of my energy centers associated with the water element? How can I increase my motivation to shower? I am really curious what is behind all of this... Kind regards.
  6. Hello dear ones, I guess this is a prime example everyone has at least one or two people with such attributes and attitude in his or her family. THE ultimate challenge: A person who is terminally ill, caused by his oder her own emotional eating habits. Ontop of that, this person is resistant to change, addicted to the food he or she eats of course And due to the overconsumption of chemical (imbalance) from said food, so emotionally charged that every previous attempt ended up in an arguement. And this is not the real end to it. He or she is constantly under medication, visits hospitals very often And is depressed about his or her own situation. So yeah, everything you can imagine in one box. Everything. Probably even a challenge to Jesus himself - lol We dont want to be ignorant, we want to help. How do we do it? Super, super passively, explaining him or her the real deal about food is (actual medication), how it affects the body and that we should at best only eat fresh from mother earth? And then bring the person the food, maybe make it secretly more tasty that it is? I'm looking forward to your words, hopefully with a personal background of actual experience in that field. Much as I'd like to... but theory is not helpful here. PS: He or she is a little over 80 but to all of my family members who are awakening, it is obvious that she has worked off SO MUCH karma in this lifetime, that despite her physical health, she could live for another 20. But I really want to end her suffering.
  7. Silly topic? Noo read this! Do you know the japanese scientist Masaru Emoto? He made a fantastic discovery a few years ago. He froze water molecules and wanted to figure out how they react to intention, to thoughts, basicly to certain vibration. He then sent one the most loving prayers and others negativity, such as a hate and jealousy. Those which received positive intentions formed astonishing beautiful crystal patterns. Those full of negativity showed deformations, really chaotic forms. For example: Or the message "You make me sick, I will kill you" And this works with everything. Now, you know that the human is made out of more than 80% of water. Can you imagine how your thoughts affect yourself and other people, each day? Whatever you do, whatever you think, affects everything around you. But what has this to do with eating a prayer? Easy, I tell you and why. When you make your food, send a prayer a loving intention what you wish to that food. What it shall bring you, the planet or the universe. Or all combined. You choose. And how do you think the molecular structure of that food reacts? Never forget that even behind cooked aka. "dead food" is still spirit So when you eat that food, you eat your own prayer. That prayer changes your very molecular structure. Or other people you offer this food. Try prayers and generally loving intentions when you grow plants and see them produce the most glowing and delicate fruits your eyes have ever witnessed. Promise!
  8. It always comes down to personal questions, doesn't it? Okay. What about he or she tells me now that he or she does not even know what he or she wants? Can you see the loop of doom? I had a time where I steered clear off someone who told me that he does not know what he wants, I know the feeling of your last lines...
  9. PUA and Spirituality

    Well, when you are spiritualy realized, there really is more important stuff than PUA. What a question. I mean, come on. Spirit realms vs Sex... seriously? I'm honest with you, in my early 20s I wished for the perfect time when I got 25. To be super attractive and get laid all the time. I forgot about it and was surprised when I hit 26 how many women had a crush on me. But that came from my natural development. And then it was literally too much for me. Deeper meditations make it happen that you understand Sex, that you quickly will understand your life force, if you want or not, but you Will be forced to understand it sooner or later and here ends the story of having Sex for fun, if you want to get something done in spirituality. By now, one year later, Sex got so uninteresting because I really had it all... lucky me I mean, what's better than that? That's natural learning without having to re-program yourself or learn extra discipline. Tip: Have sex as much as you want. Enjoy life in that way, to the fullest. And then you naturally drop it, because you understand that it is all the same. Over and over again. And then you get automatically mature and see Sex as something precious, as something of value, to give birth. Done. PS: Dont tell me you want to make PUA because of PUA itself and dont care for Sex, rather care for a score...
  10. [Tutorial] - HowTo Eat your own Prayer!

    Yes, Japan and the indian Ganges (river) are prime examples of what I have written in my starting post above: No plague in japan - mostly due to prayers Toxic waste is derived from factories into the Ganges river in india all the time, but at the same time it is one of the most cleanest river on this planet (!) - due to ceremonies, rituals and prayers This really is potent stuff, when you understand the background of it!
  11. Basicly. I guess everyone knows why they use an ash-covering. It's a very good form of hygiene. When you are "away" for a few days in meditation as a sadhu, your body is not going to shower quick and then sit back down on auto-pilot.
  12. The Most Dangerous Game

    Unfortunatelly we, on a global scale, are just about to learn how to see everything from the perspective of a spirit. This might take some time, or not... but is necessary one way or the other.
  13. Thank you for sharing your experience. Especially with the meditaiton. I'm not looking for other peoples opinion, I was curious about a possible blockage. That's my overall goal, remove all of them. And here I was writing about me not taking a shower and still smell like fresh flowers. And here I am and still havent taken a shower. God, I'm actually entertaining myself by reading what I wrote, which is so mundane for many. Funny moment.
  14. Well put. I did not see it that way in any shape or form. But you yourself will surely also say that it is good how it is now. That those informations are now free available to anyone. I believe, unfortunatelly I do not know yet precicly, but I stay honest and say I believe, that information was always given from the spiritual realm, handed "down" when a human was ready to integrate that part into his society. Long before the internet. His thoughts then spread out like a wave on the planet and affected others. And so it could be integrated very quickly. We can see internet nowadays like a transmission of information, even accessible for non-realized beings that are not yet vibrating at a higher frequency, to get information directly from spirit. Basicly they themselves can then push their own spiritual evolution, by using the said internet for other ways than pure entertainment. I see this as a literally holy gift, the internet and how it evolved.
  15. Elliott Hulse

    At that time I worked also on how to balance my masculine side - I remember it was also breathing and most importantly to re-learn how to let out steam. By yelling and being loud. Which I then did a couple of times in our basement. Was a fun experience Even tho I completely dropped those aspects now, it helped me back there. Yeah, truely an inspiration and a great start into basic holism.
  16. Hello dear ones, when we get more and more realized how vibrations work and how everyones energy affect us constantly... How do we learn to let those negative energies, that at a certain point can really be felt in your body (for me especially in my face, nerves and tissue), not affect us? How do we simply let them flow through us, as if we were not made out of dense matter? I understand the concept of water referred to the human system and how we can integrate that concept into our very being, so that we more and more behave like the element of water. That we become formless. We simply have to remove our resistance in our selves. No resistance and nothing sticks to us. But how can we still maintain acceptance and dont fall into ignorancy? And in those very difficult times when we are enganged in a heavy arguement keep our intention at that very essential humane levels? I am aware that we Have To understand our emotions and learn to watch them as an observer to not identify further with them. There is no way around it. But I am not fully realized on this topic yet. And my intention is not to ignore other beings, like I am told constantly by other people who see me in those situations. Because this is not my nature. Nothing in the universe ignores other beings except human beings tend at a certain point to develop ignorancy. Every sentient being will tell you that to ignore another being just because you want to conserve a good mood is nothing else than betrayal on the own sacred species. IT IS HARD to learn this RIGHT IN AN ARGUEMENT but to come out of an arguement and not have been involved therein feels SO fantastic! This is what I have lately discovered. Sure my emotions got knocked somewhere around the room while being yelled at... but coming out of it... it is like a tiny rebirth somehow. Like someone or something silently lets you know that it was a good thing to not get involved (but I am still somehow trying to figure out how to do this exactly, happens rather randomly) and still were there for the other person. I know many people will ask, how can you be there for someone who is aggressive towards you? Isn't that a paradox? THIS, is real learning. At the most fundamental level. No theory helps at that point, right at the mouth of the lion. So yeah, I am really curious how anyone of you more realized beings, deal with such situations? How to let negative energy flow through you and not be affected by it, while being enganged in a destructive family environment? Regardless all enlightened teachers, I stick to the to creed that you are only as enlightened as the most seemingly unenlightened being. We are here to help, not to raise defensive shields. My goal really is to keep my possitive aspects even in a fight and show compassion to other people and show that I understand them but at the same time I dont want to be dragged down emotionally and feel the negative impact of those energies. Is that conservative? I want to raise my frequencies, yes. Shall I play silent monk and run into the woods? These centuries are over. We are born in this day and age to learn spirituality in it's most difficult area - a society in which we feel separateness like nowhere else. I am aware of that. It's just not so easy at times, when you lack certain wisdom and insights. Thank you very much for your interest in reading and replying.
  17. Deep. Perfect theory, needs to be integrated. Thank you very much. The Vedanta type guys you name them seem then to be ignorant. I tell people the reality. Not "my" reality, the reality. How they create their reality each and every day. Can you imagine how aggressvive they get towards me? Tell someone who recently got cheated on and is in a self-made endless cycle of negativity and artificial guilt since a few months to wake up to reality and that it is all his / her fault. Regardless if that is reality or not (which it obviously is), you basicly help those people commit suicide. Oh yeah, I can also see that suicide in itself is nothing bad because you just reset everything, be reborn and have to learn it all again. But then again the humane part complitely disagrees on this. If you live like this, you live like an outcast and will never help anyone. Maybe only if you hope that all the people you have told about the ultimate reality will turn into shamans and do shadow work each day. That is surely not for everyone. I KNOW this works wonders, but is not for the faint of heart. When you wrap the ultimate truth into a beautiful and non-hurting gift, it's not the truth anymore. Or is it? Can you apportion truth to more digestible morsels? Lol... Now that would be interesting. The whole thought is funny, but apparently I need to find a solution I do agree completely with your entire first paragraph. Thank you.
  18. Hello dear ones, something enormously peculiar ran through my mind today after watching a documentation about quantum physics, quantum field and the unified field. A scientist was talking about highly-trained meditators who had what we would say a next-to (or even) perfect intention. With that intention they managed to alter the PH-level of purified water. It was just an example experiment. If you want my experience, feel free to read the following - if you feel you are in a hurry, please skip down to the nitty gritty after the "-" parting. Now with what I am experimenting in my personal life is, how my intention works. I meditate or let my mindstate change automatically by issueing myself into a wholesome situation and play around how Birds react to me. When you come into our garden, you could say there would be an imaginary aviary for birds... just by seeing how fearless these beings can become when you encounter them with more and more of your purest intention. Anyone can do, if he or she wants. We as an observer become what we observe and change that object unconsciously or consciously with our intention. Our observation is more than just looking with our eyes and seeing something on the other end. There is a connection between the perceiver and the perceived. And here is information being sent. I am not sure to what extend but a large portion of your inner being is transmitted into that object you observe. I notice that when I started this in mid 2012, how many birds flew away and I intuitively became the feeling of their uncomfort. Also when I insisted in my mind for some of my favorite Aves such as ravens to stay in one place, they felt disturbed and flew away. "Chains" and sentences like "you are too heavy, let it be" sprung into my mind. Early 2013 whenever a couple of songbirds gathered on a particular tree in our garden where I stood under and practiced Qi Gong, I noticed them continualy cleaning themselves. This happened quite often. I at that point were and am still cleansing my system, both mentally and physically. So intention seems to extend out of our being, not being limited only by our eye-sight (which can be seen as a laser for intuiton, a precision tool). How could it be any different. I chose birds, because birds are very sensitive beings to intention. I behave like a newbie in these techniques, because I do not yet meditate on a consistant basis (but very soon will come back to and continue) ... and so I have had days where I was just confused what was going on, how birds suddenly react to me and the other day everything seemed to be ponies and sunshine in the forest to every animal that saw me. Even deers. Over the months this now seem to evolve to bigger and (what I would call) more complex or intelligent organisms such as hawks or swarms of birds seen as one group spirit. I do not know yet if something like an animalistic memory exists. That extends from one being to every being in that species. So to speak as a collective animal memory... In any case, all the time it was Me projecting My feelings Into my surroundings. Onto animals. Every Time their reaction was the exact mirror of my inner world. But it is clear to me that when we incorporate the vibrations of nature, automatically animals see us as an integral part of nature again and behave like so. As they did centuries back in time. Where I am sure not a single preditor existed. - Now to get to the nitty gritty! Nearly every meditator wants to understand everything. Regardless if coming from a scientist PoV or a purely spiritual. Or mixed. You name it. And so do I want to purify my intention, want to make it as pure and crystal-clear as the most perfect entity we can describe with our words. And this will obviously be tangible reality for everyone here, by becoming a fully conscious spiritual being. But coming now from a manipulative standpoint... and not meaning this harmful in any shape or form, simply out of curiosity to learn further more from it: If I want to move a feather without blowing wind in it's direction, I must obviously Become the feather. I, as a conscious being, must alter my ... fabric, my inner symmetry of my consciousness ... to basicly assume the formless form of what I would call here, a "feather consciousness". I know this is possible, I am just not sure how. It has been said that long before we become "human consciousness" that we were all sorts of different consciousness. Part of the air, the water... part of all elements. Is there anyone that has a glimpse how this can be done? Now imagine yourself being not a serious "adult human being" for one second and drop your ratio, be the young spirit that wants to discover endless possibilities, in an infinite sandbox and please try to answer this simple question: How can you as pure consciousness, flow into an object and be the object and move yourself momentarily in that way, as the object itself? That is it. All the best to everyone.
  19. Elliott Hulse

    Yes, he has a healthy approach to a wide variety of things. He reads and practices a lot and incorporates many of his learnings into his own exercises. He is authentic because he works first and foremost for himself and then basicly shares nothing but his own transformation. I left a comment on one of his videos a few months ago that I immediatelly felt and then by watching the video got the confirmation, that he actually has figured out how to incorporate spirituality into western body-building. I witnessed his transformation in nutrition alongside mine, last year. Beautiful parallels without my intention to actually learn from him, but seeing him doing the same things... instant high-five.
  20. I can only speak for myself of course, and that is that I only research for things I am intereted in. And this curiosity and my findings are the only driving force I need to practice alone. If I did not already do it previously and just need a reminer sometimes. Because what always happens? You learn from a teacher and at a certain point you feel that you have enough and that you want to vary it. That's simply your Higher Perspective telling you that you now want to step into your own shoes and create reality for yourself. To become the master. And dont misunderstand this, you can become the Master right from the start if you practice with yourself. The most kind and understanding teacher there is, is you Why people charge for teachings? Because they still have to work on their Ego. I know people who give TONS of information for free on the internet, without charging one penny. They simply have a donation option. Because they know that they recieve by the amounts they already give and give and give. You want loads of energy practices for free? There you go http://www.energygatesqigong.info/ - that is so much information, that lasts at least for half a lifetime. So whats the conclussion? Something in your focus is greedy, so you type in words or affirmations in google that have an egotistic undertone... there must be something in you, that obviously attracts things that are not completly for free, yet. But I'm sure you will figure that out soon. All the best.
  21. Everything is spirit. Everything happens for a reason. Such as an ant dragging a leaf to it's hive is not simply a "Jesus man, it's just a frigging ant with a leaf! Get over it" - it has a purpose. We can learn much from, what we think are, very small things. It's always the perspective, that matters. You want to understand? Then you want to understand your totality. Why you are reacting in a way you react in a certain situation you find yourself acting odd, or different. There is no exception in a certain part in life where you then say that you dont need to understand it here, because that then might be too far down the earthly needs. No no, everything wants to be understood at some point. Too delicate topic, regarding your personal approach to body odor? No problem, no need to answer. Easy Edit language: Foreign English in the morning is truely foreing...
  22. The Most Dangerous Game

    Do you know what you are doing at a certain point in meditation, when you are getting conscious about your eternal Self? You are doing nothing else than brainwashing your Self. And then you go out and brainwash others. We are programming our selves each and everyday. The only difference is, where your focus is, how your intention is vibrating, what you are sending, each moment. And this is different for each individual. Realized or not yet realized. Each one creates his or her own reality. For the "good" or the "bad", whatever you would call it here on this plain. Ask Cheney if he sees himself as a bad person, a person who does harmful things to other people you already know the answer. It's simply "his" role he choose to take in this life, to learn from it. Same for Bush, same for Hitler... etc It is a really interesting thing to contemplate about beings like Hitler from the perspective of a spirit. I can not wait to do this consciously one day.
  23. inhaling vs exhaling

    Play around with it and do what feels best for you. That is what I say to everybody. I never adopt old believes, mindsets or rules made by our society. So how can I tell you otherwise. You and only you are responsible for the expansion of your very being. No one else. I know how it is to have questions and that you want to ask them. But on a base level you only want to ask them yourself. They will all come in the right moment, tailor-made for Your very being. You just have to be receptive for it and I assume you already do no longer put too much input in your brain (intellectual or entertainment). And then this information comes Purely Raw, without any filter coming from other personalities or believes, which ultimately You have to filter then again, for your being and your current state of development in which your spirit is. A quite walk in the woods, with mostly no thoughts at all gives me the most wonderful answers to questions I had previously. Or even mind-blowing ideas I never thought about regarding completely new approaches to life. All the best and be genuine. What else do you want to do, for the health of your Self.