Rara

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  1. Cant sleep, did I fucked up ?

    No worries. And yes, "addicted" is the issue and I have a very addictive personality. Initially, I thought this stuff was supposed to calm me down to the point where it elimitates the problem entirely, but high expectations like this still lead to overthinking, and obsessing over it and practicing later at night will be stimulating. Try and think the Daoist way and beware of too much of one thing
  2. Cant sleep, did I fucked up ?

    I like that you have a strategy in place. For me, if I read, I often get stimulated too, but listening to music or a podcast tends to work a lot of the time for me. The trouble with meditative practices before bed is because my mind associates it still with "something to do". When on retreat, I could meditate around 8pm and go to sleep around 10/10:30 with some reading before lights out, but any attachment to any sort of responsibility was left at home. Calming down was easier. So how we are naturally wired and our mental habits can also dictate what keeps us up. Whatever distracts me from what's on my mind is what helps switch me off, and I think this is different for most people.
  3. Cant sleep, did I fucked up ?

    Yes, in fact, insomnia is my biggest problem as I'm very excitable. Therefore, when I train taiji, it can have the adverse effect that I expect sometimes. A day or two off to just settle might be what you need.
  4. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 73

    Look at me here, being the first! Hehe. The problem is, my question disappeared after reading your transmission @flowing hands This is very concise and I have understood my lesson for today. Thank you.
  5. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 72

    In my whole journey with this study, I have realised something invaluable, which is that regardless, the words should be read as both in every chapter. There is governance of people, in which I am "people" and an someone else is playing governor. Then there is me as governor; of my own mind, body, soul, as well as the people around me. And vice versa. When we interact with the world, the world reflects back.
  6. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 71

    I think it is also more. The "pretending you know when you don't" idea. So, one might use supposed knowledge to win people over and manipulate them, which I think is a human sickness that we all have until we read something like this. I still have it in me. The heart-mind purification still has quite a way to go.
  7. Organizing PPJ into Sections

    Aw that's super. A bit of wu wei in action there 😁
  8. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 69

    Know your enemy. Avoid violence whenever possible. Have mercy.
  9. Question on the dantians

    In the back of my mind, it was there! One of those where I've seen "elixir field" around and not put two and two together 🙄
  10. Question on the dantians

    Seriously, a good point. I might have to steal this for when others talk confusedly about Daoism. Facebook pages are great for that!
  11. Question on the dantians

    Do you have a translation for "Dan"?
  12. Organizing PPJ into Sections

    Who can I contact to get my own PPJ?
  13. Has Anyone Heard Of Mak Jo Si

    Oh, does he not promote guns anymore? I guess that's a start.
  14. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 68

    There have been similar lines to this elsewhere in the book. I still wonder whether this means to just not be dictating when in a position of power, or if it means to not even go for a position of power and to be a positive force behind the scenes. Maybe both, depending on the situation you're in?
  15. Has Anyone Heard Of Mak Jo Si

    I am still butt-hurt from this.
  16. On Spontineity

    Hang on a minute 😂😂😂😂😂
  17. On Spontineity

    Why create turbulance?
  18. Another one I do regularly is orange peel in hot water. This is apparently good for cooling the system. Or satsuma, which I have right now....and still, it's 29°C here today.
  19. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 64

    Ok, I think I understand. In which case, I'll ask @flowing hands more details. FH, if you read this, I think Dawei is saying this was spoken to you by your teacher, and you wrote down this learning? That's my understanding of dictation...
  20. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 65

    I think this is close, yes. I think the main trouble is that it creates "guru culture" like we see nowadays. My Facebook feed gets the odd Osho quote thrown about, as an example. Clearly this person thinks they have their Way and good for them. But firstly, is it really the Way that they're on? Second, what benefit does posting all this stuff to everybody on their friends list really achieve? Everybody else is busy posting photos of their kids, promoting a political movement, sharing funny memes etc. If a sage were to announce he or she possessed the Way and tried to enlighten the people, that would be quite the task. Like a politician/PM/president...how much do we really listen. Have they not created more scepticism than trust?
  21. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 63

    Hello! This is quite synchronous to an Adam Mizner taiji interview I was watching the other day. He said something along the lines of, "people think that you are perfecting a form, but really, you are perfecting you. So "the action of Dao within you" / "one responds from the centre" are all the right sounds for me 🙂
  22. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 63

    That explains the Gu and Ch'u translations much better. Thanks again.
  23. This explains my biscuit and water habit. Maybe I should stop buying biscuits 🤔
  24. Yes, I always have a water with coffee! I'm trying to not drink it at the moment though, I get overloaded quite easily...I'm naturally hot inside.
  25. [DDJ Meaning] Chapter 64

    Where is this transmission from? Also, how do we define "transmission", compared to "translation"?