Ok guys and gals its time to discuss this again.
I am going to put it to you energy sharers that you are not doing what you think you are.
The I Ching says (and I am paraphrasing here because I haven't looked it up) - 'deep sighs on mountain tops are heard in distant valleys'.
Now what is it (he/she) saying?
Notice it is not talking about echoing yells - but deep sighs - deep sighs are expressing inner feeling and are not loud or directed externally but internally. So how can they be heard in distant valleys? Because the mountain and valley (lake) resonate. That is the vibration in one place sets up a similar vibration in another - and this is possible between people because they become attuned to similar ideas and thus resonate. By the way - by 'ideas' I mean the original Greek version of formed packets of energy not abstract thought.
Even effects in martial arts are like this - is it called fa jin? I am not expert but all the videos I have seen the person is clearly being manipulated into throwing themselves - there is no actual transmission of energy sufficient to move a physical mass.
I would say in psychic or spiritual transmissions it is the same. Technically you are being caused/allowed to discover that energy within yourself rather than something being transmitted from A to B.