Everything Posted September 11, 2011 Hehe, weird topic title, didn't know what to call this sexy topic. Everyone has thought about sex! Often people we not even recognize these sexual thoughts anymore. They might influence our lifes alot, yet people have gotten used to them and think they've it all figured out. There are diffrent ways of thinking about sex for diffrent people. Some talk openly about sex, some talk about it in more subtle ways. Like "He/she is beautiful/ugly, look!" Hehe, sometimes even that isn't subtle enough and someone might avoid a question about beauty/ugliness. Even the people who don't HAVE alot of sex, keep sex in their minds alot, somewhere burried deep down, to crawl up in diffrent shapes. These people just denie sex and remove it from memory as some kind of defense mechanism for trauma or just putting to much emotional weight on the subject of sex. The people who have alot of sex, justify it. Especially women, by saying to their selves or others in subtle ways that sex is not important. Alot of porno actrices or whores are this way. Having sex is like shaking someones hand to them, doesn't leave impressions after doing it so often. Ultimately, for women it does become important at some point. Its not like the people of the world can be divided into sexy and not sexy people, no... But these sexual styles I've just noticed in people. What do you think of sex? Is our society too sexually oriented? Sometimes little children dress very sexual and act very sexual compared to other children. Perhaps this is because they learn this behaviour from the over-sexed media. Would you prefer a media with less sex in it? Sometimes even commercials about food on TV are so extremely sexy that it makes you horny. Like a women licking a piece of chocolate and making MMMhhhmmmmm moaning sounds in a very very sexy way. Would a non-sexual media make the society less sexually oriented? Maybe this thought is waaay out there... I've just heard somewhere that sexual chakra is put there by superior beings, so that we work harder for rewards. As some kind of slaves. It allows higher beings to have control over us in a sense. I personally know it is possible to free yourself from sexual desires, not have it control you. I don't think it is possible to get rid of sexual desires. Do you? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
witch Posted September 11, 2011 American society, at least, was a lot more sexual when I was a girl. I was born in 1966, and the long tail of the Summer of Love colored my childhood. Of course it is easy to get rid of sexual desire by blocking testosterone by pharmaceutical means or through surgery. Likewise, going on most antidepressants will alter neurotransmitter levels enough that sexual desire will decrease. There are more natural ways to decrease sexual desire. A healthy way is to eat a low-fat vegan diet with lots of green tea. But all that is silly--sexual desire is a gift from the gods to both give fuel to the kundalini fire and allow the energy to rise up, and also to strengthen the bonds between a man and a woman to make for a stronger family. Just like anything, it can cause problems if out of balance, but so can something as harmless as drinking water. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites