My balls hurt, extended whole body orgasms

[Everything]

I no longer ejaculate, love session duration increased and orgasmic peaks extendes. There does flow a slight amount of "pre-come" during some of the peak experiences, if thats what you call it. Other times not, like when the orgasm is more equally spread troughout all of my body. Yet, I don't really ejaculate. So even though orgasmic experiences are not exploding my penis into ejaculation, the extended ogasmic experiences has been excersizing my balls harder then ever. Now, I stay at peaks for longer amounts and expand the orgasm troughout all of my body. I'm still experimenting with the expansion and just improvise. Its going pretty well. Since I'm now using my entire body for sexual pleasure, includig my penis, my penis can't keep up with the rest of my body! I mean... My balls hurt and get tired. Like a slight kick in the nut after a love session. Slowly fades away over the course of one hour. It begins when I stop the love session. The kick in the nut feeling arises below the navel and my balls hurt on touch.

 

I can stay long at peak experiences, and am still working on heightening the peak without ejaculation. Overall, I feel much better thanks to all of these things. Yet, its a bummer that my balls cry so much after long love sessions, cause its probably not used to it.

 

Eventually, I can have longer whole body orgasmic experiences without my balls hurting right? Why does my balls hurt? If anyone has a clue. You also think its because I've overestimated my balls? Or because the orgasm is still too focused on the penis area? When a I reduce the peak experience times and allow my whole body more freedom in spontaneous movements, my balls also cry less, they cry after these extended non ejaculatory love sessions none the less.

 

Anyone similar experiences, can share your story, plxzor? Miaow

[idiot_stimpy]

I cannot practice with anyone. However I am only day 24 of abstinence. I did have a wet dream at day 18 though. Around day 7 to day 15 they hurt like hell.

 

As long as I know that my tubes are not tied, then I can bear this pain. My friend had a twisted testicle and they had to remove it because the blood supply was cut off to too long.

[Everything]

I cannot practice with anyone. However I am only day 24 of abstinence. I did have a wet dream at day 18 though. Around day 7 to day 15 they hurt like hell.

 

As long as I know that my tubes are not tied, then I can bear this pain. My friend had a twisted testicle and they had to remove it because the blood supply was cut off to too long.

What do you mean tubes are tied? My friend also had the same thing! Haha. Ouch. Like extended orgasms don't just spontaneously twist your testicle do they?! xD

 

You want me to put my thumb in my mouth and run crying to the doctor? :*(~~~River~~~

I like to order one orgasm without spontaneous testicle twisting, plx!

 

~~~\o/~~~ doctor drowning in my tears*

Edited May 30, 2012 by Everything

[idiot_stimpy]

 

 

The vas deferens can get in a knot which cuts off the blood supply and loss of the organ.

 

I think the pain is extremely bad if this happens. But because I had never experience bad pain as I had never gone for longer periods of abstinence, I was worried as this happened to a friend of mine.

Edited May 30, 2012 by jconnar

[Everything]

 

 

The vas deferens can get in a knot which cuts off the blood supply and loss of the organ.

 

I think the pain is extremely bad if this happens. But because I had never experience bad pain as I had never gone for longer periods of abstinence, I was worried as this happened to a friend of mine.

Oh, I see. You just have to gently message your balls from time to time to gently awaken them. Especially if you get older. My grandpa is constantly scratchig his balls, its hilarious. Naturall though.

 

I guess orgasms don't really cut off blood flow though. Yet, be sure the energy doesn't stay focused on the penis area of your body. I message bellow the testicle after masterbathing. It can cause problems, just like women when their energies just remain in the breasts. So thats why we males have s big urges to message those breasts for them! Like everything has already been taken care for us

Trust your intuition and heart. Don't be ashamed to learn your own body and explore further, the feminine and masculine within each and every one of us.

[minkus]

Guys if something hurts then stop what you are doing for a while, if it really really hurts then go see a docter.

 

If you feel pain after what you call a love session you put a bit to much stress and you should let your body get rest before you drain it to much.

 

Cheers !

[idiot_stimpy]

Guys if something hurts then stop what you are doing for a while, if it really really hurts then go see a docter.

 

If you feel pain after what you call a love session you put a bit to much stress and you should let your body get rest before you drain it to much.

 

Cheers !

 

I'm sure being celibate caused the pain.

 

Lets just call it what it is. BLUE BALLS

[astralc]

Everything, may I suggest you try testicle breathing, as opposed to testicle scratching, its quite nice, and make sure its gentle not forceful. You don't really want to awaken too much chi in them, just to warm them and to let your body wisdom do the rest. It should reduce the congestion that appears to be occurring there when you have your hour long lovemaking sessions. Oh yeah, practice this when not love making, and without an erection, just relax, and warm them with your chi. Let us know how it goes, It might help a bit.

[Everything]

Everything, may I suggest you try testicle breathing, as opposed to testicle scratching, its quite nice, and make sure its gentle not forceful. You don't really want to awaken too much chi in them, just to warm them and to let your body wisdom do the rest. It should reduce the congestion that appears to be occurring there when you have your hour long lovemaking sessions. Oh yeah, practice this when not love making, and without an erection, just relax, and warm them with your chi. Let us know how it goes, It might help a bit.

dude, gimme details before I my self a pair of testicle lungs! xD

[Informer]

Do you wear tighty whities? Those cause problems for me, if so try switching to something that doesn't cinch in that area. I think it happens because testis are being strangulated by the elastic.

 

The Full body orgasm you are seeking comes from the crown imo, and it is more subtle and smooth as well as from longer to much much longer lasting then shooting a load. (Pre-heavenly chi or Celestial chi)

 

I don't really see the point in internal orgasm . . . what is the point? Seems like it could cause damage.

Edited May 30, 2012 by Informer

[三江源]

Everything, may I suggest you try testicle breathing, as opposed to testicle scratching, its quite nice, and make sure its gentle not forceful. You don't really want to awaken too much chi in them, just to warm them and to let your body wisdom do the rest. It should reduce the congestion that appears to be occurring there when you have your hour long lovemaking sessions. Oh yeah, practice this when not love making, and without an erection, just relax, and warm them with your chi. Let us know how it goes, It might help a bit.

 

Second this suggestion. vent the built up energy from the area.

[Informer]

There seems to be a difference in physiology between the source of the teachings and possibly the students being taught in this case according to J. Philippe Rushton:

 

Race differences in testicle size have also been measured (Asians = 9 grams, Europeans = 21 g). This is not just because Europeans have a slightly larger body size. The difference is too large. A 1989 article in Nature, the leading British science magazine, said that the difference in testicle size could mean that Whites make two times as many sperm per day as do Orientals.

http://racehist.blogspot.com/2008/07/rushton-and-genital-size-one-more-time.html

 

So considering this . . maybe these aspects of Asian teachings should be modified in accordance?

[RiverSnake]

Second this suggestion. vent the built up energy from the area.

 

Indeed, building up too much energy and tension in your testes can result in some very painful experiences. Not good.

 

-My 2 cents, Peace

[Practitioner]

It's a wonderful feeling knowing you make twice as much nut juice compared to an asian

[ChiDragon]

Do you wear tighty whities? Those cause problems for me, if so try switching to something that doesn't cinch in that area. I think it happens because testis are being strangulated by the elastic.

 

Very important point; and the temperature of the testis must be kept about 3 degree F below the body temperature.

[Informer]

It's a wonderful feeling knowing you make twice as much nut juice compared to an asian

 

Haha, but how does it feel to know we have smaller brains, less neurons, lower IQ's and a lower lifespan on average according to the same author J. Philippe Rushton :

 

http://www.charlesdarwinresearch.org/TaxonomicConstruct.pdf

Edited May 30, 2012 by Informer

[Cheshire Cat]

I suggest to take a break from sexual practice until pain subsides.

It could be an effect of qi-channels opening in the scrotum?

 

What is the external conditions of your balls? Strange colors? how is the skin?

Do you experience wet dream? Do you check your urine to ensure there's no retrograde

ejaculation during the night?

[astralc]

dude, gimme details before I my self a pair of testicle lungs! xD

 

OK, lie down, relax, deeply, go to the dan tien and waken it, spread the chi thru your body, radiate it like a light globe. Then relax without doing anything else, just relax, no more chi work than that is needed, your body wisdom will know what to do, trust it.

 

Then move your awareness into your testes, feel them glow, relax them even more, and glow again, keep glowing and relaxing until, one day, you will be able to bring your breath to your testes and breath, gently, in and out. Sometimes this will cause them to congest as this is what they are used to doing, so if this happens, move the sensations outside the testes, maybe 1 cm or half inch outside them and feel them warm and radiating from there. Remember this is to relax them, to dissipate chi, not to energise them.

 

Its a water meditation with a touch of testes breathing.

 

The goal is to dissipate congested sexual chi in your balls, and as you know and has been discussed by the wise minds here, Blue Balls are full of congestion. Focusing on sexual chi will congest somewhere, for you its the testes, for others its the lower back, the guts or heart, or eyes...

 

I worked with a guy who prided himself on his ability to not ejaculate, the girls loved him and he was kept running between ladies to satisfy them. But he developed severe congestion in his sacrum, so severe his back would go into spasm. He would then be admitted to hospital where he was given a Valium injection to release the tension. He would have to masturbate regularly to ejaculation to release the pent up tension, otherwise, hospital. He could go on and on but he didn't circulate the chi, it got stuck in his sacrum. I don't think that he was a wise taoist (he thought he was) but someone who liked sex and praise from his harem of women.

 

Anyway, good luck, and let us know how it goes please.

Edited May 30, 2012 by astralc

[Seth Ananda]

I no longer ejaculate, love session duration increased and orgasmic peaks extendes. There does flow a slight amount of "pre-come" during some of the peak experiences, if thats what you call it. Other times not, like when the orgasm is more equally spread troughout all of my body. Yet, I don't really ejaculate. So even though orgasmic experiences are not exploding my penis into ejaculation, the extended ogasmic experiences has been excersizing my balls harder then ever. Now, I stay at peaks for longer amounts and expand the orgasm troughout all of my body. I'm still experimenting with the expansion and just improvise. Its going pretty well. Since I'm now using my entire body for sexual pleasure, includig my penis, my penis can't keep up with the rest of my body! I mean... My balls hurt and get tired. Like a slight kick in the nut after a love session. Slowly fades away over the course of one hour. It begins when I stop the love session. The kick in the nut feeling arises below the navel and my balls hurt on touch.

 

I can stay long at peak experiences, and am still working on heightening the peak without ejaculation. Overall, I feel much better thanks to all of these things. Yet, its a bummer that my balls cry so much after long love sessions, cause its probably not used to it.

 

Eventually, I can have longer whole body orgasmic experiences without my balls hurting right? Why does my balls hurt? If anyone has a clue. You also think its because I've overestimated my balls? Or because the orgasm is still too focused on the penis area? When a I reduce the peak experience times and allow my whole body more freedom in spontaneous movements, my balls also cry less, they cry after these extended non ejaculatory love sessions none the less.

 

Anyone similar experiences, can share your story, plxzor? Miaow

Excellent! This is really good progress

 

Prolonged sex without physical release will build up congestion, as you are experiencing. So you need some Transmutation practices, to move that energy out of the ball region. The Testicle massage is good advice, and potentially focusing on the Lower Dantien, but some new people find it too close, and lack the finesse to pull energy a short distance...

Are you using Big draw techniques?

Does you lovemaking make use of pauses?

Do you feel a lot of Love and connection with you Lover, during Love making, or is it more physical sex?

Do you find it easy to ejaculate normally? [believe it or not some men can't or find it very difficult to come]

[Everything]

Do you wear tighty whities? Those cause problems for me, if so try switching to something that doesn't cinch in that area. I think it happens because testis are being strangulated by the elastic.

 

The Full body orgasm you are seeking comes from the crown imo, and it is more subtle and smooth as well as from longer to much much longer lasting then shooting a load. (Pre-heavenly chi or Celestial chi)

 

I don't really see the point in internal orgasm . . . what is the point? Seems like it could cause damage.

Hi, that sounds cool!

 

Could explain the diffrence between internal / crown orgasm?

 

I basicly feel energised troughout the day and more awake from my way of doing it, whatever way it is that I am doing I have no clue.

[Everything]

Second this suggestion. vent the built up energy from the area.

Yes, that is what I was intuitively doing =D

 

It also reduces the pain in the end when I really focus more on venting it. Yet, I'm not sure if we're talking bout the same thing here ^^

[Everything]

Indeed, building up too much energy and tension in your testes can result in some very painful experiences. Not good.

 

-My 2 cents, Peace

I'm glad you all agree! xD

 

Looks like I don't have much to worry about then. Cause when I focused on releasing more tension during the build up of leak experiences, I have experienced no pain at all.

 

Yet, how to reach peaks without tension? This whole body orgasm is so hard. The energies can built up in my penis as quick as I want it to. In my whole body, I think I need a callender to plan when I reach orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I love the pleasure that I experience right now. Enough to stop ejaculation 4good. Yet, I'm so excited about the orgasmic experience.

How does it feel? I have subtle orgasmic energies runnig troughout my body. They can last all day or two or forever? I don't know how long

Edited May 31, 2012 by Everything

[Everything]

Excellent! This is really good progress

 

Prolonged sex without physical release will build up congestion, as you are experiencing. So you need some Transmutation practices, to move that energy out of the ball region. The Testicle massage is good advice, and potentially focusing on the Lower Dantien, but some new people find it too close, and lack the finesse to pull energy a short distance...

Are you using Big draw techniques?

Does you lovemaking make use of pauses?

Do you feel a lot of Love and connection with you Lover, during Love making, or is it more physical sex?

Do you find it easy to ejaculate normally? [believe it or not some men can't or find it very difficult to come]

I'm kinda refraining from making real love, cause the benefits of non-ejaculation are so great, I'm going for it 100% and want to get better at this first. Right now I'm still in the process of creatig the habbit of relaxation and release of tension. To fully seperate the orgasm from the ejaculation. Masterbathing ofcourse. This is very easy to practice this way on my own terms =P

 

Love? Without love, I wont even get my penis up. They can rub it all they want, I wont get it up. No matter what they try. This was hilarious when my friends pushed me into this escort women on my birthday, she was like, wtf! How can you make love when love is supose to be mutual? Its insane. Eventually, she started to enjoy my insistance on love connection and we made love. I was done with physical sex the moment I was born.

Even with masturbation, I get in a loving mind set. Like, I cannot imagine having sex without love unless I imagine I'm a zombie and is impulsively rocking back and forth without a penis.

 

Control ejaculation? If you give me a time and place anywhere in the universe, I'll garuantee the accuracy ~2 seconds. Well, unless its really out of my comfort zone, like the moon xD

 

*I wonder if the earth atmosphere will disintegrate my sperm*

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|-----> ...... Straight back to earth >>woosh>>

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I can't wait to make love all night with the lucky girl I will be with after I'm done. I have energy like crazy

Edited May 31, 2012 by Everything

[astralc]

I'm glad you all agree! xD

 

Looks like I don't have much to worry about then. Cause when I focused on releasing more tension during the build up of leak experiences, I have experienced no pain at all.

 

Yet, how to reach peaks without tension? This whole body orgasm is so hard. The energies can built up in my penis as quick as I want it to. In my whole body, I think I need a callender to plan when I reach orgasm. Don't get me wrong, I love the pleasure that I experience right now. Enough to stop ejaculation 4good. Yet, I'm so excited about the orgasmic experience.

How does it feel? I have subtle orgasmic energies runnig troughout my body. They can last all day or two or forever? I don't know how long

 

Everything, but in the end its still just energy, sexual energy, chi, and one day you will be able to use it in other ways besides sexual pleasure. Developing sexual chi is one of the goals in taoist tantra, guiding it to various parts of our body and then using it to transform spiritually is the ultimate goal.

 

Congratulations on your achievements thus far, enjoy and learn and go forth on your adventures. The best advice I could give now is to go slowly and gently, otherwise that extra chi can get the better of you if you are not careful - even the best of us fall prey to the sensual pleasures of Lady Kundalini.

[Everything]

Everything, but in the end its still just energy, sexual energy, chi, and one day you will be able to use it in other ways besides sexual pleasure. Developing sexual chi is one of the goals in taoist tantra, guiding it to various parts of our body and then using it to transform spiritually is the ultimate goal.

 

Congratulations on your achievements thus far, enjoy and learn and go forth on your adventures. The best advice I could give now is to go slowly and gently, otherwise that extra chi can get the better of you if you are not careful - even the best of us fall prey to the sensual pleasures of Lady Kundalini.

Haha, yeah. I know exactly what you mean. These energies force you to face allot of negative believes. It tends to just be attracted to you when you start to opperate on higher energies. I really wonder how the universe makes these things happen for people who live isolated. I bet trees start falling on monks head when they do these practices, lol xD