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How to release pent up male sexual energy?

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I have sexual energy that has moved up into my heart making my heart over excited. I have had lots of fear and worry as I have heard is normal with pent up sexual energy. I was just wondering what the best way to release male sexual energy is. Something I could do myself would be best. Thanks!

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To be honest with you, There is no such thing as sexual energy can move up into your heart. What do you mean by making your heart over excited.....??? Can you describe it in words....???

 

In the mean time, please do not listen to anymore fair tales from those who do not know what they are talking about before it is too late and ruin your health.

 

BTW How old are you...???

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pretty sure he means kundalini and its moved up into his heart chakra, i dont know much tho so i cannot comment :/ regarding your worries and fears, that is something u have to view deep within yourself

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I have sexual energy that has moved up into my heart making my heart over excited. I have had lots of fear and worry as I have heard is normal with pent up sexual energy. I was just wondering what the best way to release male sexual energy is. Something I could do myself would be best. Thanks!

 

Honest answer. Have sex.

 

Sometimes the simple is overlooked.

 

Lets be honest and open here. Are you trying to conserve? You didn't say. But if you are, please understand something. Conserving jing to build qi is not meant to harm you or drive you into emotional/mental instability. If it is/does, then you are trying to work way outside of your current boundaries.

 

And as with physical boundaries, if you keep over stressing them you don't condition anything, you don't improve you boundaries, no you damage yourself and break things.

 

Allow the yang qi to build, pay attention to your inner world, allow it to build but before it starts simply banging against those boundaries. Let some of the pressure off! Then cycle again. Slowly the more sexual charge you can allow, WITHOUT excessive tension building (tension here is physcial, emotional, or mental).

 

Here is the thing. If your qimai (channels) are operating smoothly and well, the yang qi sexual charge does not build in the same way, nor does it become agited. The 'presure' is continually and naturally siphened off, as your qi flows. If however you have what Chinese medicine calls niqi ("rebellious" qi) then you simply can't conserve and expect nothing to happen. The charge may well express it self and you find it uncomfortable. HARDLY any qigong teachers discuss this comfort or discomfort that some will experience when sexual charge and yang qi are at play. Many will naturally love the build up, others find it awkward and uncomfortable.

 

To release some of the pressure the best thing is to simply have sex with a woman. NOT porno sex, but sex with presence and energetic connection. Seek a balance of yin yang. Ejaculation is fine, and being sensible with frequency and then releasing that extra pressure in this way will be far better for you than damaging yourself and having your yang qi making you climb the walls and losing your mind. Sex with a woman has a balancing effect that is different than simply masturbating.

 

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If sex with a woman is not an option try to do something creative with the energy. 

 

Paint, do poetry, make music. 

 

I wrote a poem for my girlfriend and it felt really good. All the pent up energy that couldn't be expressed because we are apart went into the poem and my heart felt again at peace. 

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On 8/16/2012 at 8:49 AM, PPens87 said:

I have sexual energy that has moved up into my heart making my heart over excited. I have had lots of fear and worry as I have heard is normal with pent up sexual energy. I was just wondering what the best way to release male sexual energy is. Something I could do myself would be best. Thanks!

 

Go talk to the older boys at school , maybe they can demonstrate ?

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