Unseen_Abilities Posted November 2, 2012 Hey Bums I'm toying with the idea of spending a bit of money to go and get some advice from a Tantra practitioner in my city - My attempts to conserve/transmute my sexual energy by myself haven't really worked out, and I don't want to keep wasting it either, so I thought investing and going to see someone who actually knows what they're talking about might be a good idea. It doesn't look cheap, but I think it'd be worth spending a bit to really learn how to appreciate and please women properly. Anyway, I know some of you guys know a thing or two about Tantra, so I was just wondering what I'd be in for if I went ahead and did this? Thanks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 2, 2012 Well good luck. might be cheaper and more fulfilling in the long term to aim for a steady relationship with someone you love and who loves you though. The sex is an added bonus then. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted November 2, 2012 I'm curious, what did they say would happen at the tantra meeting. I get the feeling some (maybe most?) places are lecture series that may be close to Healing Tao PG13 stuff, others might be take off your clothes and lets get started. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aetherous Posted November 2, 2012 Transmuting your sexual energy has little to do with pleasing women sexually. Let us know how your meeting goes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 2, 2012 Yeah right, tell that to the sleazy dudes at Tantra Week . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unseen_Abilities Posted November 2, 2012 Maybe I have and/or gave the wrong impression here. I was mainly seeing if anyone who knows about the subject would be able to tell me a bit about it. Also, I thought Tantra was a practice that deals with the circulation of sexual energy through the body, as well as the promotion of bliss for each person involved? Maybe not, I don't really know. GrandmasterP - I would indeed prefer a steady, loving relationship. Peace. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 2, 2012 Good luck with that bro. The Tantrists who bang on about it online come across as lonely guys not getting any IMO. The ones I've come across 'in action' as it were tend towards the sleazy swinger types. Place I work during summer puts on a Tantra Week, like the seventh circle of Dante's Inferno so it is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Unseen_Abilities Posted November 2, 2012 I don't really belong to either of those two stereotypes you mentioned, but, interesting. Good luck to you as well. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted November 3, 2012 I also want to learn more, have learnt a bit...anyways they probably do things like conscious masturbation from nicole daeodone's book about the art of female orgasm where you would finger a girl and she would treat it as a meditation being aware of sensations, emotions, not thinking too much...which would then free her up, you can do the same with normal masturbation without porn or fantasy, similar to male deer exercise for sexual health masturbating without fantasy or thinking whilst relaxed and kind of meditating, I would guess they do a lot of meditative stuff, and controlling ejaculation, prostate muscle strengthening, focusing on sex as a whole act where every part is a goal in itself instead of a point to get to. I dont know too much though, I just didnt see anyone mention these things Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 3, 2012 Good grief Sinan! How so unlike the home life of our own dear Queen! ;-) Quasimodo could get laid at Tantra Week, several times. Anybody getting any don't need to write about it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted November 4, 2012 well as it goes this doesnt come easy to everyone..i had lots of difficulties getting up, then severe foreskin tightness and penis pain, trouble retaining over masturbation,,,only just actually having sex properly...so yeh I wouldnt just dismiss it as stupid Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 4, 2012 You might not but your new young lady friend might take a dim view of you dabbling in these sordid mysteries old buddy. If fair maiden you would win Charming her mum you must begin. Cos she'll turn into her mum after five years of marriage. You been invited round hers for your tea yet Sinan? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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GrandmasterP Posted November 4, 2012 We shall see my Cat chum, we shall see. If it comes to pass then it's insight rather than stereotyping. Sinan will tell us once he's been round there for tea and sticky buns. :-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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GrandmasterP Posted November 4, 2012 Well that's a given surely Cat. You'll get no arguments from this quarter that women are not the superior species. Mrs GrandmasterP would not tolerate that sort of nonsense for a minute. ;-) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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Apech Posted November 4, 2012 ah, a happily married man. He didn't say he was happy. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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Apech Posted November 4, 2012 he didnt need to, with my superior faculties, I recognised it as inherent in his stance. (duh! Apech, are you on drugs or something?!!?!?! ) With my superior ecstatic powers I don't need drugs. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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Apech Posted November 4, 2012 I'm travelling on a tantric coach. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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skydog Posted November 4, 2012 (edited) You might not but your new young lady friend might take a dim view of you dabbling in these sordid mysteries old buddy. If fair maiden you would win Charming her mum you must begin. Cos she'll turn into her mum after five years of marriage. You been invited round hers for your tea yet Sinan? I dont need to do tantra I do these kind of exercises by myself during stillness movement or in the shower, and it has been helpful.. opening the hips, relaxing, conserving jing, not smashing 50 random women yeh a few times, sex too but shes going to america in a few days alas, this is good motivates me to get on with my life, make enough money to do qigong whilst doing things I love, also improve sexual performance as the penis side of it wasnt amazing I seem to have charmed her mum anyways lol Edited November 4, 2012 by sinansencer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Birch Posted November 4, 2012 https://www.deepakchopra.com/video/view/436/thirty_days_of_intent__orgasmic_meditation Not saying it's 'tantra' but seems a few people are doing it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites