skydog Posted November 5, 2012 If someone stabbed my brother in the neck and my brother is crying everyday because he is being blackmailed I am getting murderous thoughts. I am not sure how to rectify this situation. Send good energy or do something harsh. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aetherous Posted November 5, 2012 Don't do something that will land you in prison. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted November 5, 2012 I am very unsure what is happening maybe he slept with a girl who is blackmailing him so she doesnt tell his girlfriend/drug dealing he wont say though but I am tempted to find out the number that has been calling my house, find the address through the internet, ring on private call and send some kind of serious threat.. Â that or send good energy or do nothing Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aetherous Posted November 5, 2012 Some person (you don't know how capable they are) already has your number. Maybe your address. And you want to call them back and threaten them? When they know who you are, and you don't know who they are? 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted November 5, 2012 Pretty sure its a girl, Its not my number, my house number, I can find their number and address, and their are ways of getting thigs done..they dont know me they know my brother, hes crying right now  I think this is mostly needing my own hurt soothed, but still this is pissing me off Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 5, 2012 Revenge is a dish best served very very cold old chum. Bide your time, ensuring alibi; then slaughter the b*stard when s/he's least expecting it. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 5, 2012 That or turn the other cheek and exercise forgiveness. Or something in between. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted November 5, 2012 Best revenge is .. a life well lived. Today's drama consumes us. We end up reacting emotionally and stupidly, blinded by pride, ego and our worst imaginings. A year or two or five from now we have enough perspective to realize 'what the hell was that all about', and realize it was really nothing. We could have walked past it and spared ourselves drama, trouble and excess karma. Â I don't know the appropriate action to the situation, but realize there is a yin approach of ignoring it and getting on with your life. Not exactly folding, but contracting to your center and saying and acting 'Whatever'. Others can do what they want, I'll go watch a movie each day realizing there's fakeness to it, silly drama being played to entertain me. Or find something to occupy ones time while the drama blows over. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GrandmasterP Posted November 5, 2012 Nope. The best revenge is revenge. Served cold. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stosh Posted November 5, 2012 If you dont know what is going on , all your 'logical' choices are a crap-shoot If you go with a gut reaction , your choices are really based on past or imagined 'experiences' , (not present facts) , in an emotional context that doesnt necessarily have legs. Â Ancient chinese saying ,, wait by the river long enough and the bodies of all your enemies will float by. Â or you could ignore MY advice and run out with no facts in the heat of a moment and- at least-potentially destroy the remainder of your life because your brother was crying and refuses to level with you. Â (that IS what your are hinting at isnt it ? and you havent just posed a hypothetical , but now that you have made public statement .... Well lets just say you ' havent kept your intents as dark as the night') Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Birch Posted November 5, 2012 As much as I prefer to rely on my gut, I do know that when my head is interfering with whatever's coming from there, chances are I'm getting something wrong as well as something right about the situation. I would also try to find out as much as possible before taking any action. This, obviously, imagining I'm not in immediate physical danger, in which case I really can't say what I'd suggest. Â Revenge to me is what I should have done at the time but couldn't so ends up being pointless after the fact. Also, please try to avoid doing anything that gets you hurt or in jail. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
XieJia Posted November 6, 2012 Maybe you should also trust your brother. Â If it pains you much seeing him crying, you should just approach him and tell him that it's not just him but it is making those around him feels bad and hurt aswell. And that it means alot if he would share what have been bothering him. From there atleast you should have some more info and can choose how to act appropriately. Â The situation could be something minor. If you are planning anything, be sure you will be able to bear the worst consequence possible. Â All the best Sinan Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted November 6, 2012 Nope. The best revenge is revenge. Served cold. The best revenge is served cold with beer and happens when you make someone once perceived as an enemy into a friend. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted November 6, 2012 Revenge doesn't work. Solving the problem works. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skydog Posted November 6, 2012 well I dont care about this anymore for the time being just needed a chat with some wise loving people.. hehe Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Marblehead Posted November 6, 2012 I will get even with you for that!!! Â Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
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Aetherous Posted November 6, 2012 well I dont care about this anymore for the time being just needed a chat with some wise loving people.. hehe  Sounds good...but hopefully your lack of care doesn't manifest in the problem getting worse. I say, get a lot of information on these people without being noticed. No need to do anything to them. Knowledge is power. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Humble Posted November 7, 2012 Someone just pointed this out to me; you've just posted on the Internet the potential urge to do someone serious harm/threat to do harm. If anything happened along those lines, there is now blatant evidence of pre-meditation on your part. In light of that I'd go with the send the good vibes thing. Premeditated good vibes even. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Everything Posted November 8, 2012 (edited) send good energy I hear duracell is one of the best of its kind. Edited November 8, 2012 by Everything Share this post Link to post Share on other sites