MarioK Posted December 15, 2012 Alright, some really interesting responses. Then I might actually continue to study 'Multi-Orgasmic Man' since it also contains exercises about focusing on the present and relaxation. I don't have a partner right now, so I'll do the solo-cultivation to do something meaningful in the meantime. Â What I'm worried about is the reviews I read about the book. Some of the people said the exercises described are potentially dangerous if you haven't received training by an instructor. What's your stance? Â The technique presented in this book definitely works. However, when you use it, you might experience a build up of sexual energy that needs to be circulated through your body. If you do not circulate the energy in the correct way, you can end up with Qi Gong psychosis, a.k.a Kundalini syndrome. This involves hallucinations and all kinds of unpleasant psychological side-effects. This is a real danger and it it has happened to people using the technique described in this book. Â Otherwise, I'd just proceed with the book... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Alchemistgeorge Posted December 15, 2012 What I'm worried about is the reviews I read about the book. Some of the people said the exercises described are potentially dangerous if you haven't received training by an instructor. What's your stance?  I haven't looked at the book in a couple of years ... so  the practices are fundamentally about moving energy around - inward & upward. If the energy ain't going out (ejaculation), where is it going? Unless you have deliberately taken steps to clear your meridians, they can be various amounts of blocked. So you might have the goal of moving your energy from your testes to your crown, but there is a blockage you don't know about and you wind up with all your energy stuck somewhere south of your neck - like behind your heart - where it might do mischief. You also might try to force something, which is never a good idea. Your aroused male sexual energy is hot. If you bring it up to your head, it will warm your brain. Leave it there too long and or bring too much there and you will 'cook' your brain. No kidding. That's why people talk about 'kundalini psychosis'. The ending step is always to bring your aroused sexual energy down from your brain to a place in your body where it is safe to store it. Know where that is? This is why folks have mentioned you should open your microcosmic orbit first, and why I mentioned you should get the older book and pay attention to the safety precautions. Why take a chance?  Do you need an instructor? Your mileage may vary. First you need the correct information. I wish Mantak Chia would update the two sex books - he is a much better writer than he used to be (imho). But the information is all in the books. IMHO what you do need is to be in touch with other knowledgeable people, and be asking questions if something 'unusual' happens. Regular classes are great for that cause you ... talk ... with other people at class, hear their experiences, questions, ask some of your own. Everybody explains things in a different way, hearing it from different people may make it easy for you to understand. The other thing is that if you go to a class, the energy of your instructor and the combined energy of the group will give you a temporary boost which can speed things along. Even if your instructor has only been practicing a couple of years. There are a lot of certified healing tao instructors around.  Opening the orbit requires you to learn what energy feels like, how to feel it in your body, and to gain a some modest degree of control over moving it around. It also gives you a bunch of experience of what things feel like and how your body responds - some days your energy is cool, some its warm sometimes its thick - so in a pretty safe way you get a body of experience about what feels "normal" or within the range of normal. Its kind of like learning all about wax and candles and small flames before you start working with gasoline (sexual energy). Its also a way for you to start developing a deeper relationship with your body. And it is a huge safety valve. It evens out and balances things in your body, if you create an imbalance you can smooth it out by running your orbit. Its also really good for you.  I'm also a big fan of the six healing sounds.  ------- * that safe place is your navel. Another is your lower dan tien. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Isimsiz Biri Posted December 15, 2012 Hey everyone, a few weeks ago I read 'The Multi-Orgasmic Man' and started practicing some of the mentioned exercises. For example Stop/Release almost every time I urinate. I noticed that when I flex the muscle (pc muscle?) at the right time it feels like an ejaculatory orgasm only that I don't ejaculate. Then I just continue a few seconds after that and experience it again. I would do this a couple of times and then just stop entirely or ejaculate. Is this actually a multi-orgasm? I just want to make sure I'm not doing something harmful or that this is a retrograde ejaculation. Many, many more question to come... Thanks! -M Â Dear MarioK, Â From that book, you will only get one thing: You will give harm to your kidneys Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
thelerner Posted December 15, 2012 (edited) Personally I've found its better to be a mono-orgasmic man who takes his time, is willing to let rhythms and erections come and go, while creating a bedtime dance. Once your past your 20 & 30's you should take a serious look at kareeza.   I'd kindly ask you to write in plain simple English. I'm sure you're all very sophisticated, but the fact that I am not a native speaker makes it sometimes hard to grasp what you are even talking about.  I guess what I want is to 1) make sex as pleasurable for myself as possible and 2) also give the person I'm with the ultimate sexual experience and make her a raving fan customer.  What do you think of these 2 goals? Please, simple English 1. Bring along a can of whipped cream and draw various bikinis styles on your lover then lick'em off. Cherries and chocolate sauce get messy but add to the fun. 2. Forget about the Ultimate anything. You're there to have mutual pleasure, share an experience and connect. Forget porn movie pumping, get lost in fun and sensuality. Edited December 15, 2012 by thelerner 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hydrogen Posted December 17, 2012 What I'm worried about is the reviews I read about the book. Some of the people said the exercises described are potentially dangerous if you haven't received training by an instructor. What's your stance? Â Â Â Otherwise, I'd just proceed with the book... Â Yep, I believe it could happen. But what the chance of that happening? I'd say very small. Â Yes, opening the orbit definitely is a good idea. But, it may take you longer to open the orbit (a few years?) than to know how to do multiple orgasm. Â Since sexual engery is very strong, why do you use it to open your orbit? Just an idea. I have no personal experience. Â However, this is I know. Love conquers all. The intent is very important. Please love your WHOLE body while practice, you should be fine. You can have a whole body orgasm. If you have this in mind, your Qi is unlikely to stuck in one location. Â When you pump the orgasm energy up to your head, you may have a head orgasm. Then you should be very careful not over do it. Actually don't do it until you have a whole body orgasm or know how to pull the energy down from head. Â Why don't you do it first? You may already give up the practice before you're good enough to hurt yourself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FÅ« Yue Posted December 17, 2012 However, this is I know. Love conquers all. The intent is very important. Please love your WHOLE body while practice, you should be fine. You can have a whole body orgasm. If you have this in mind, your Qi is unlikely to stuck in one location. Â Â Great advice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hydrogen Posted December 17, 2012 (edited) Personally I've found its better to be a mono-orgasmic man who takes his time, is willing to let rhythms and erections come and go, while creating a bedtime dance. Â BIg misconception. If you do multi-orgasm, you'll soon find out that the correct way to do it is more in sync with your female conterpart arousal process than the "traditional mono" way. It separates the good feeling (orgasm) from ejaculation. Once a man realize that the ejucaltion is not the end game, they'd want to prolong the pleasure instead rushing to finish for nothing. Â It teaches man about Tao way of sex: enjoy the journey, not worry about ending. It defeat death (ejucalation). So that the end of one cycle (orgasm) is the beginning of a new cycle. Edited December 17, 2012 by hydrogen Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vanir Thunder Dojo Tan Posted December 18, 2012 @deci belle: Thanks for the info. Most of it is entirely new to me. Do you recommend that I continue studying and practicing 'Multi-Orgasmic Man'? This would for sure be the easiest way, everything structured etc. I just want to make sure it's not something harmful as I've read on other sites... Â Â Â What do you mean by that? If you're multi-orgasmic 'regular women' can't handle that? No, but the few women I have been with couldn't. There was one girl who could, but she still had a hard going long enough and time getting me off also. so I learned how to have lots of orgasms and few, if any, ejaculations. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
