thoughtsoflife Posted September 17, 2014 That would necessarily include your non attachment to people's understanding your words....or, not, as the case may be. Its why speaking plainly is such a gem, and at the same time, such a point of contention, being that the reader or listener invariably imparts their own viewpoint filter onto what they are hearing/reading and is subject to their fears and attachments. So plenty often, the message is completely lost or a minor point seized upon and ascribed "main focus" status. Ahh, saying exactly what you're thinking. However, remain respectful at the same time. That way one doesn't cause the being to seek revenge in the future. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
