Hello, pleas help

[Saso]

Hello

 

im an 19 year old from Slovenia. Have just finished high school and going to study electro engineering. I have had an interesting upbringing and am a atheist and a nihilist. I have a long term relationship with my girlfriend. I wanted to improve our sex life and after searching i found the book Taoist secrets of love: cultivating the male sexual energy by Mantak Chia. I have read the book and had began to practice testicle breathing and scrotal compression. Because I had some problems with SC i did a search and got really confused. So i want to ask you, since you have experiece: HOW BEST TO BEGGIN? I want do practice sexual tao and later move on to other stuff, since doing this is already new for me. I want to be able to last long in bed and bring amazing orgasms to me and my girlfriend. What is the best way to do this. Should I go by the book? Or as some have suggested open the MCO. Also what to do about sex and ejaculation? If you could post a schedual of how I should proced I would be most grateful. Much thanks

[daomontana]

Dear Saso

 

I believe you are misinterpreting what daoist sexual practices are about. If you truly want to please your partner, I humbly suggest you follow this column: <http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=16403197>

 

Meanwhile, practicing daoist qigong diligently will help you physically overall.

 

 

[Harmonious Emptiness]

Mantak Chia is often too much even for seasoned practitioners. Start with Daniel Reid's book "Health, Sex, and Longevity." It has all your looking to know about.

[Trunk]

Given your situation, it's likely that the approach you describe would:

1. in the short term, be lots of fun

2. in the medium and long term, gradually cause sexual ill health, stubborn to resolve and difficult to find good remedial help.

 

Read cautions from Healing Tao instructors on this page.