21 day retention challenge for guys and girls

[Unseen_Abilities]

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Edited January 31, 2014 by Unseen_Abilities

[Creation]

All right, I'll give it a go again as well. It really helps me to feel that others are doing this with me. I made it 12 days without masturbating and 16 days without ejaculating last time. Toward the end there I was so horny it was just ridiculous. Maybe with more concentration exercises and qigong I'll get further this time.

[voidisyinyang]

can't remember last time I had any loss -- the point is to not create fluid in the first place! It's based on the mind first.

 

So if you have any evil thoughts there is an immediate signal in the back of the brain - the cavity of prenatal vitality - it sends a signal down the marrow of the spine to the scrotum to create fluid.

 

So the problem starts with the mind - that's why the real training is done in silence and secret.

 

The people who need to continue talking about this have hang ups and so can't get past that first hurdle - b/c just talking about it then creates the fluids.

 

You have to empty out the mind first as mind celibacy.

 

Just trying to "retain" is not going to work.

 

Of course sublimation of fluids is a necessary process - but purifying or ionizing the sublimation is another problem.

 

It's next to impossible to do this in modern society - completely bombarded us with materialistic b.s.

 

So ideally you need to fast for a week and meditate the whole time.

 

But otherwise avoid pervs - (impossible since almost everyone is a perv these days)....

[Unseen_Abilities]

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Edited January 31, 2014 by Unseen_Abilities

[FokusFyre]

No, this is an observation which i am sharing. i lack the level of self control to actually force my mind to not focus on my body and experiences.

 

It's either i ejaculate, or i murder. which is it? there's no middle ground yet. if im not getting off, i need something to "replace" getting off. and since i am extremely frustrated- conflicted between biology and intent, maybe?- i become swiftly angry, and then swifter still violent.

 

 

im not willing to become COMPLETELY USELESS. no sleep, cant sleep, too horny. fuck that shit.

I have a friend just like you. I know your type. You are a warrior. Learn to control your emotions, harness your immense creative, emotional, pyschic, and physical abilites, or you will be consumed by emotional problems, addicition, and pyschosis. Your life will slip through your fingers like sand. The jaws of the unkown with grasp you like a bear trap. Use it or lose it lol. Then again I could be wrong about what kind of person you are.

[Vanir Thunder Dojo Tan]

I have a friend just like you. I know your type. You are a warrior. Learn to control your emotions, harness your immense creative, emotional, pyschic, and physical abilites, or you will be consumed by emotional problems, addicition, and pyschosis. Your life will slip through your fingers like sand. The jaws of the unkown with grasp you like a bear trap. Use it or lose it lol. Then again I could be wrong about what kind of person you are.

 

Been there, done that, already gone... i have no life. i am merely alive.

 

[voidisyinyang]

Hey pythagoreanfulllotus, so you know, not really interested in being fully celibate, just more self control, owning my shit - Still young, still got a lot of exploring to do. Also, I think there would be something wrong if a man who hasn't ejaculated for several days onwards WASN'T having sexual thoughts of some kind - Holding the belief that thoughts of a sexual nature are "evil" can really do damage to people. If that belief becomes engrained it can lead to repression and enormous amounts of unnecessary guilt: "Oh shit, shouldn't have thought how much I'd like it if the wind blew up that girls dress, doesn't matter that the thought came automatically and instinctively before I could decide whether or not to think it, the big man upstairs is gonna have my arse on a platter for that one"...I've seen people think like this man and I have a bit before as well, it's not good for anyone.

 

Like you said though, modern society does fill people with a LOT of unnecessary B.S.

 

Peace.

 

 

Why hold any thoughts at all?

 

See WEsterners get hung up on opposite dualities. Sex is evil? That must be a problem!

 

Nope - I'm talking psychophysiology here. Forget morality.

 

Just go into the Emptiness - the younger you are, the easier it's going to be.

 

So only when you go into the Emptiness - no thoughts - then you get real progress.

[SonOfTheGods]

Obstaining web site, complete with softcore porn photo on the introductory page.

 

[skydog]

what is a good way to think about sex?

Edited August 10, 2013 by skydog

[Sloppy Zhang]

Obstaining web site, complete with softcore porn photo on the introductory page.

 

 

 

what is a good way to think about sex?

 

Get a girlfriend, and get into the position pictured above.

[voidisyinyang]

http://ww2.blogtalkradio.com/qigongmasters/2013/06/29/gary-clyman

 

new gary clyman interview on how to be a real porn star.

 

Hilarious!