skydog Posted May 6, 2013 In noticing I have a lot of fire and I like it because I get high easily, I feel extremely powerful and it is very quickly healing But then can become a bit out of control So I hear others talking about water The only thing with water methods is the calm is nice but eventually becomes a complete apathy/depression/disinterest in life and feel slightly weak and shy, and notice theres no brightness in the eyes. Fire methods but keep calm? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Flolfolil Posted May 6, 2013 what do you mean by get out of control? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Harmonious Emptiness Posted May 6, 2013 To reduce fire you want earth. Water just controls/directs fire a bit. Water is watery, flexible, adapting - this can be strong and/or weak, depending. Fire is joy/heart. Earth is calm/spleen. For earth, think of a mountain - stability. Too much earth and you can't move though, you get stuck and think too much, unable to act/react. Fire can burn up your wood/ambition, so reducing it with earth can help you act on your ambitions if you have enough water to adapt and follow opportunity - this ability to adapt is also connected with courage - the strong side of water/kidney. So you need balance in all of that, including metal/lungs, which give sensitivity to your environment. So, Earth... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites